If a guy wants to sleep with me, does it mean he finds me beautiful?

[markayd]

There is this guy at my job who I always had a feelin that he had an attraction towards me ever since my first day. It turned out that I was correct. Many months later, he hinted on sleeping with me. Of course i didn't him attractive so I refused. The strange thing is, I never dress provocatively. I'm a terrible dresser, sloppy, tomboyish. I don't have a sexy body, no curves, no huge tits or ass. I just couldn't figure out why he wanted to sleep with someone like me. He didn't seem to behave this way towards any other woman at my job. Could it be because that he just find me facially attractive instead of my body? would guys get lustful over just a pretty girl?

[kellytheman]

Yeah a pretty face can make a guy get with you. Also he might be curious what underneath your sloppy clothes which makes the unknown more why he wants to sleep with you.

[Renegade_Sailor]

He obviously has an attraction.

Having sex with a co worker is a terrible idea.

[markayd]

Why is it a bad idea

[Reemaa]

It’s the greatest sex and a good idea i think 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

[purplepoppy]

Guys often look at well polished women and discount them as being out of their league. When they see someone like you they think hey I've a realistic chance of some pussy here

[markayd]

He doesn’t get mad when other women don’t show up for work. But he gets mad when i don’t show up for work

[OlderAndWiser]

If a guy wants to fuck you, it just means he's horny.

[SnakeBoop]

it means he thinks you're okay looking enough to stick his dick in.

[markayd]

i think he likes my face.

[SnakeBoop]

if he's having sex, your face isn't quite the most important thing. but folks with sleep with anybody too. watch a jeremy kyle episode...

[markayd]

guys can get lustful over a pretty face too. A pretty girl will be pretty whether she is in sweat pants / hoodie or in a pretty dress / heels. Bad clothing can't change a pretty face.

[SnakeBoop]

no shit.

[altgirl14]

Have you talked with him more now? Maybe he thinks you're a cool person and that is what does it for him haha

[markayd]

i know he isn't interested in me in a romantic way. its purely physical.

[altgirl14]

oh gotcha was just checking lol I'm terrible at and answer for this, but was interested once I read it haha I hope you can figure it out more :D

[Red_Arrow]

Guys can be attracted sexually to many gals for many reasons. Maybe he finds you pretty, maybe it is just because you are a female he has a chance with, maybe he has a kink for tomboyishness. With all the possibilities it is impossible to guess what his reasons are. But it does not have to mean he finds you beautiful.

[markayd]

well you would have to be attracted to someone if you're lusting after them right?

[Red_Arrow]

@markayd One could simply be after the one he found easiest to fuck. He does not have to find her beautiful at all.

[markayd]

he only gets mad when im not at work. he doesn't get mad when other women don't show up to work. he's also nicest to me too. do you think this would happen , if doesn't have a thing for me? a pretty girl will be a pretty girl regardless if she is dressed in sweatpants / hoodie or pretty dress / heels. A sloppy dresser can't change pretty.

[markayd]

[One could simply be after the one he found easiest to fuck.] I'm not interested in him and he knows it. but he is still lusting for me.

[Red_Arrow]

Only time will tell.

[markayd]

he knows im not interested in him. cuz he's too old. but he's still attracted to me regardless.

[Red_Arrow]

Since he is "too old" (whatever that really means) and you are not interested in him, why do you waste so much of your time and also so much of our time on here? You are not interested. Move on.

[markayd]

i was just kinda surprised. because i don't have a conventional hot body and yet he was so intensely lusting for me.

[Red_Arrow]

Many unconventional bodies are very hot to some guys. I don't necessarily like what the next guy does. So I am going to presume you actually have a body that is considered hot by many guys!

[markayd]

um... no i dont have curves or big tits or ass. none of that kim kardashian stuff.

[Red_Arrow]

Like I saids, I prefern the kind of body you are describing. You sound sexy to me!

[markayd]

i wear loose fitted , sometimes baggy clothing. its what im most comfortable in

[Red_Arrow]

You sound like you are trying to convince everyone that you do not look good. Well, even wearing baggy clothes, some gals can really look good.

[markayd]

im just being honest with what i wear on daily basis

[Red_Arrow]

You told @moki_evan that you know the attraction is physical. You told @bricealan that you think it is because he finds you attractive. You told @coolguy7532 that "its not personality. its purely physical attraction / lust. i can see it in his eyes" Every one of those depends on him seeing you and making a judgement on you looks. So obviously, the baggy stuff you wear does not hide you at all. He can see your face and figure. You look good!

[markayd]

i thought he was only attracted to my face. cuz it can't be my body. whats so special about my body?

[markayd]

i have a bigger upper body and a thinner lower body. Broad shoulders and slimmer for rest of my body.

[Red_Arrow]

That sounds pretty good to me. :--)

[markayd]

you're probably just tryin to be nice

[Red_Arrow]

Why would I spend this amount of time talking with you, just to ve nie?

[SleepyxJoe]

Or is in Lust with you

[Reemaa]

I think it just means he desires you sexually but of course we aren’t sure whether he finds you beautiful or no.
For me, being beautiful is only important to my boyfriend or to the man I really love. However, if a coworker I’m attracted to him only sexually and I don’t emotionally love him, and he finds me sexually attractive too, it’s seriously not important to me whether he finds me beautiful or no. Sex here is just for having fun, and NOTHING more. Of course, I would be happy if he really finds me beautiful? But I mean does it matter to me that much like when I really love someone emotionally? Nope. And I don’t think, it should be important, the sex here is just for the sake of sex, it’s not for a serious relationship, not for creating a family. Just for fun. People really need to know the difference between sex and love! They are too different things, usually even though it’s important for me to be beautiful for the man I really love, but at the end, if someone really really love you, he won’t even care that much about your look.

[markayd]

I mean, you must be attracted to someone if you intensely want to have sex with them

[Bricealan]

He wants to see you naked? He is curious to see how tight your vagina is. ? He wants to eat your pussy? Could be any of these

[markayd]

I think it’s cus he finds me attractive

[Bricealan]

Could be that too, and probably is.

[CoolGuy7532]

It's hard to say. He could be desperate and just wants to do it with any girl. He might be attracted to your face or personality.

[markayd]

its not personality. its purely physical attraction / lust. i can see it in his eyes

[CoolGuy7532]

Honestly, I don't think you should have sex with him. You might regret it. It would be better to find a guy outside of work.

[DarkWinterNights]

There are easier ways to just sleep with someone, especially outside of a work setting. If you guys talk a lot at work he probably finds you attractive physically or personality wise, or both.

[Browneye57]

He just wants in your panties honey. Beauty isn't the factor here.

[glassslipper]

What’s the factor… if I may ask?

[markayd]

Yea he wants my panties but why wouldn’t he also want other women’s panties at my job?

[markayd]

He doesn’t get mad when other women don’t show up for work. But he gets mad when i don’t show up for work

[Reemaa]

+1 I’m waiting for the answer 🤔🤔

[Browneye57]

The bigger question is, do you want HIM? If you do, make sure he knows it. If you don't, report him to HR, or tell him to fuck off. If a guy TALKS to you he's interested. Otherwise he wouldn't bother. Sure he thinks you'pre beautiful, or attractive, or do-able, or cute, or call it whatever the fuck you want - he just wants in your panties. If you give him sex he'll do you. It's no more complicated than that. And @reemaa - what answer are you waiting for?

[markayd]

@browneye57 I work at a very social outgoing environment at my job, he talks to everyone , men or women. But he always seem to have a liking towards me ever since day 1. He’s the nicest to me out of everyone there too

[markayd]

he tells me secrets about the place that nobody else knows. he even lets me on privileges that other people have no clue about. (he's not my boss)

[Browneye57]

Tell us what any of this has to do with 'beauty'. Do YOU want the guy or not? THAT is the question.

[markayd]

i can tell he's lustful towards me and only me. I see it his intense lust in his eyes. I was just surprised because im such a bad dresser. But there must be attraction if you're experiencing intense lust right? you wouldn't be drooling over someone who you aren't attracted to.

[markayd]

a pretty girl will be a pretty girl regardless if she is dressed in sweatpants / hoodie or pretty dress / heels. A sloppy dresser can't change pretty.

[Browneye57]

Seems you didn't really ask a question. Oh well. Go for it toots.

[Yahall0]

This is the Time i hate being positive

[Wise4myage]

Sure, but it also means he is horny and wants to get laid.

[markayd]

he doesn't behave this way to any other woman at work.

[Wise4myage]

That doesn't mean he won't use you.

[markayd]

i know he's not romantically interested in me. i am not romantically interested in him too.

[Wise4myage]

That's fine.

[Caliguy88]

Yeah, I’m usually attracted to people i
want to get with.

[Twalli]

I would find a girl with smaller boobs more attractive than one with bigger ones. Every guy has different things he finds attractive

[Siddeunusual]

Not nessessary but possible

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope it just means he wants to fuck you

[TheAfrikan]

✴ In most cases it is all about attraction, meaning it can be the big boobs, big bouncy ass, sexy lips. We men it is attraction that makes us sleep with women in moat cases not always that beauty.

[markayd]

why would so intensely want to sleep with someone you're not attracted to?

[TheAfrikan]

Every single person has got something attractive on him or her. so it can be minor or least of details but it can be a catch to someone out there.

[markayd]

i think he likes my face.

[markayd]

im pretty sure its not a personality thing. his eyes were pure lust.

[TheAfrikan]

@markayd then your pretty face is the reason he is on to you.

[Zygum]

As you are pretty, so he loves and want to sleep with you

[moki_evan]

Maybe he has a thing for small Women. I don’t know what you look like but you said you don’t have Huge Tits or Ass. Some guys just like small Women. Maybe he likes you because of your face or personality. Or maybe he is just a freak.

[markayd]

I know he doesn’t care for my personality cuz I know the attraction is only physical