Are you still a boy in other people's eyes if you haven't been with a woman before? Also, is it weird to not see yourself as man?

Question

Because you hate the macho aspect and think it's fucking dumb in how you have to prove yourself to other dumbasses that you're manly? I don't know, that's just me I may be weird for thinking that?

Honesttguy · Accepted Answer

Being men is different than being macho men.
Men who are confident in themselve dont need to prove their manliness, its the insecure ones that have to bark and prove how manly they are. Its a fuking joke to me and i keep my distance from their peoblems.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

being a man is mostly about being responsible and self-sufficient... and not a macho cartoon of any sort

also, you don't have to prove anything to others, but you do have to prove this yourself... instead of fooling yourself

Blackcupcake · Accepted Answer

you got it ALL wrong…  being a man =/= being “macho”  a real man would know how one should behave so it’s time for you to grow up🙃

exitseven · Answer

No, being a virgin is okay. Being a man could be making the decision to wait until marriage before you have sex. Manhood is a lot more than a big body count.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

This is actually a great question! I see myself as a man to other men. But I see myself as a boy with respect to women. (Unless they're younger than me. Then I'm a man lol.)

okeydoke · Answer

It’s just you. What about gay or asexual men? Being with a woman means nothing.

ChiPaPa · Answer

You're an adult when you turn eighteen.

noohair · Answer

Society is always trying to place norms and morals on other people. Do what is good for you. Having the wrong woman in your life is not better than none. Good luck.