How do you feel about choking during sex? Fun or too dangerous?

[Apple1996]

Is this a turn on for you guys if your the one doing the choking or are you just doing it to please your partner?

[ohshee]

It's all good if you know how to do it if you do it from the side it's okay but if you do it from straight on all it takes is a half a pound of pressure to kill a person there are many male and females in jail in prison because they thought they were going to have a good night of sex and one person gets carried away a little bit and puts too much pressure on the neck and if they don't know how to do it and they kill that person that's pretty fucked up so anytime I see a choking question I try to tell people it's okay to do it but do it from the side have the neck do not do it straight on

[InventorofWarp]

I'm curious, why the side? Like don't squeeze the whole hand just on the sides of the neck is what you're saying? Essentially going for the arteries to the brain and not the actual windpipe here?

[ohshee]

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[InventorofWarp]

Much obliged, sir.

[ohshee]

A lot of times it's hard for me to explain myself so I think you'd be better off with this

[ohshee]

Yeah there's too many innocent people in prison because of this they just took a little bit too far and I could not imagine hurting or killing somebody when you're supposed to be having a good time

[InventorofWarp]

I mean, I'm to understand the vast majority of women enjoy having a man's hand on their throats during sex so safety can't hurt. I'm okay with both so long as nothing horrible happens but then I'm also incredibly fit and work out regularly and I'm well over 6 feet so if I'm not careful I could seriously hurt someone.

[ohshee]

To be honest with you it's not even anything I can get into I would rather have my lips on her neck is a slow and deep* I mean slow and deep for the front of her neck to the back of her neck using pressure with your lips your mouth and at the same time using your body pushing pressure and just holding the pressure deep against your I mean there's all different kind of ways to do it I've never ever been able to put my hands around the girls really like really don't even want to I will find other ways that are just as good or better it's all about pressure and intensity anyway and you could do the same thing to the whole body is that you're doing with the neck you just got to know how to work at all at the same time

[ohshee]

Here I have something even better yet if you a girl to Remember You and and make her have the deepest orgasm that she's ever had in her life make love to her in slow slow motion I mean slow and deep she will pitch bark we're probably about 5 minutes but after that she will never want to ask again or hard or rough you ask any girl how they want to get laid they all save rough ennard that's because that's all they do they've never had anybody make love to them is slow deep motion with hot passion you don't have to use your hands at her throat just touch her the right places the right way

[InventorofWarp]

I'm still a virgin so slow and easy and sensual is my go-to anyway. I mean unless I meet someone who brings out my confidence and gets me wanting them so bad it turns frantic, which, I've met one woman like that who is still in my life but it probably won't happen. Otherwise, I think slow and steady is my main go-to in the beginning. But I'm definitely a fan of having my hand around her neck in some manner, just gives that feeling of ownership and dominance.

[Lliam]

I've put my hand on women's necks before as if choking them, but I would never squeeze. It's similar to gripping their arms, wrists, legs or hips to hold them in position. It turns most women on to be dominated during sex.

I would never hurt a woman, though. I would be afraid of bruising her slender neck. Even if she wanted me to, I don't think I could bring myself to squeeze, at least not hard. The erotic asphyxiation thing isn't for me.

[DizzyDesii]

I thought i’d like it on the receiving end until a heavy handed ninja choked me. Nah i bout died and had a wholeass asthma attack 🤣 But i got his ass back tho. I like to choke the dude while i ride. Mf couldnt breeeeathe 😂

[Daniela1982]

You would have to be very trusting of the person because sometimes things can go too far and end up badly. Some will choke you like they choke their chicken. Trust is key here.

[Charliefretz329]

True, and love the pic!!! 🤣

[PenkWing]

It’s dangerous and scary and that’s part of what makes it intense. It’s not just fun and hot. We’re talking about something that is quite risky, has serious consequences, and is equivalent to having someone’s life in your hand.

What makes it risky is that depriving the brain of oxygen will cause damage and long-lasting consequences. You might say, ok, then do it for a shorter time. Sure, but the real danger is that there is no warning sign. When someone becomes feels like they are out of air it could already be too late and you can already have brain tissue damage. The only smart way to do it is not to do it. But I’m not smart, so I just count the time and make sure that I don’t block airflow for longer than 15 seconds, and only after the person had a chance to breathe for a second.

[MTC29]

I hate the very idea of being choked, but there is no option for saying you don't like it- only that it's fun... or deadly.

[Apple1996]

Gotta pick out of the two

[MTC29]

You painted me into a corner. Fun, but only if I'm not the one being choked! You're a clever young woman. Where were you when I was around 30? (just joking)

[mooky06]

I’m completely ok with it. I quite enjoy being choked

[Flower7]

I've never tried it, but it seems very scary to me. So it's not something I'd be interested in.

[ArrowheadSW]

I'm not interested in it either. Not at all.

[Shizunk]

lol. I always thought its about pressure but not actually depriving someone of air. the more I think about it the less I think I would be willing to do that to someone regardless of how much they begged for it. and nobody is putting any pressure on my neck ever.

[dustybiker]

I lost a childhood friend like this. The family tried to keep it secret as pretty religious, but his siblings eventually shared the cause as people were guessing things like suicide. Just as much if not more upsetting.

[ArrowheadSW]

I think you are referring to autoerotic asphyxiation? I have heard of children and young adults dying from this. Terrible stuff.

[dustybiker]

@ArrowheadSW yes.

[ArrowheadSW]

@dustybiker How old was your friend? This is just sad. There is a radio personality who said that when he was a freshman at Harvard (of all places), there was a guy who died in the dorm that he lived in. The police said that it was from this, and not suicide as was suspected.

[dustybiker]

@ArrowheadSW Yes, it’s usually pretty obvious. My friend was 33 by that time. He was found by his youngest child.. in graphic details that never should have been seen. It’s frustrating for the loved ones. You want to be angry for something so senseless and avoidable, but with them paying the ultimate price you can’t. People who do this have no clue just how easy it is to end your life either with someone present or alone. Not worth it.

[spartan55]

My ex was into it, but I couldn't do it how she liked it. So we took that one out of our bag.

[Harleigh90]

Wouldn't describe it as fun.. it's intense and raw. Trust and communication in VERY important.

[Still-alive]

Ohh look whos back ;)

[Harleigh90]

@Still-alive I come and go 🤣

[Still-alive]

me too ;)

[Harleigh90]

@Still-alive ffs 🤣🤣

[Still-alive]

sorry my uhhh pervy brain working overtime heh :P

[melanieeeB]

I don't mind it at all

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, it can be dangerous if you’re putting an unreasonably amount force on choking her/him. Also, it depends on the comfort level of the people involved, because for one reason or another some are not into choking during sex. Personally, I find it to be fine and quite thrilling and sexy if done correctly. It can be safe and a new/creative thing to do during sex for the right people.

[AndyOh]

Not into it at all.
And if the guy or girl has their had on your throat and starts to cum, they may not remember that you are trying to breath.
Plus, if someone chokes me while having sex... the whole feeling and desires of sex just went out the window.

[NathanDavis]

it can be both... and that's kind of the point, sometimes

[Adam1978]

I wouldn't do it. That a move for guys that rape.

[zaharuh]

I'm into it lol

[wittymilf]

Hmm, I don’t like to be choked … but I like hands on my throat. It’s weird kinda submissive hot thing to give Hmm the option

[Lynx122]

I'd try it if she wanted it.

[LinaDaGoddess]

Definitely fun.

[Barry88]

Never done it to any girl, not sure if I would dare to do it. I think it's risky and I guess I wouldn't feel comfortable doing it. Maybe if the girl really wanted it and could explain me clearly what she wants and how she wants it.

[pickedcrisps]

Only if she brought it up. 💕😈

[pickedcrisps]

@Apple1996 but I would be very uhh hesitant.

[cocoamaca]

Ahhhh I love it