Is it normal to fantasise so much about getting raped?

[Anonymous]

Like I keep thinking about it everyday, it’s like a massive turn on for me!.

[ohshee]

There is another app that I go to and I role play on there.
You would not believe the amount of girls that want to to role-play are to experience that and don't get me wrong it's a fantasy it's not what they really want nor do they wishes on anybody else but they want to role play it to experience it in a fantasy type aspect.
The first time I was asked a second time I was asked I said no I don't think I could do that because that's just not me I couldn't get into but I would have to say or do in the role play.
But the more times that I got asked to do it the more I talked about it with them and I could understand where they were coming from.
There's a lot of times when I asked what would you like to role-play it takes about a half an hour sometimes 20 minutes for them to just come out and say it because they're embarrassed by it and they don't want somebody to think that's what they want.
And I tell them that I do understand and believe me do I ever understand. I have two friends they were raped I I have a niece that was molested. If you ask anybody it knows me they say I have the best patients that they've ever seen I am good with lots of different types of people this is what area that I would go to prison over because you never ever touch a girl in that way. And believe me if I ever caught the guys that did this to my friends are my family I would like to say that I would be calm about it but there's a part of me that was snapped and I would hope that I could catch myself before I really snapped but that's real life roleplay is roleplay and we'll play it to experiencing to explore and to make it all about that person if I was to role-play with you I would take you to the highest peak but I do understand what you're saying it is sexy it is hot and it is fun if you can get over the initial shock value of it which I can because I've replayed it before so if you ever want to role play hit me up any kind of role play

[Bricealan]

Well, put on a pair of skin tight, Yoga pants, and an "almost nothing' bra, and an 'almost nothing", blouse, go to a flop house bar, have a few drinks, get a little smashed, and leave the place in that condition. You MIGHT just get raped ! I don't think you would like it !!

Be careful what you wish for !

[Asker]

Thanks for the tips lol

[Asker]

please elaborate on what I should wear more often lol

[Bricealan]

Well, I thought I covered all the bases. Under the Yoga pants, maybe wear a very minimal thong !

[Bricealan]

Something to consider that may dampen down your fantasy of rape. Keep in mind, that rape is USUALLY a violent assault, and many times the victim is penetrated in the mouth, the anus as well as the vagina. That kind of assault could leave you terribly injured, plus the risk of some kind of STD along with it. When I look at a woman with that kind of 'lust' in terms of forcing her to have sex, I cannot conceive of 'injuring' someone like that, and I guess that is why I would never consider rape. I guess I will just stick to jacking-off. LOL😂

[Bricealan]

One of your comments, and my long answer was deleted for some weird reason

[Bricealan]

You asked about other tips in what to wear?

[Asker]

Yea but when I think about it is the time I’m horny so I don’t really think about the consequences of it, but yeah it’s pretty risky tbh

[Asker]

Yea I asked what to wear to increase the chances lol

[Bricealan]

Well, you could wear the yoga pants with nothing under them?

[Asker]

I’ll try it once lol

[Bricealan]

Of course, then, I as male when looking at a nice ass with Tight Yoga pants, I look for the lines of her underpants, if she is wearing any.

[Bricealan]

I'm a woman's underpants 'freak' !!! 😂🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

So if she’s not wearing any, will the thought of raping her comes to your mind?

[Bricealan]

Well, if she is not wearing underwear, the only barrier to her pussy, is the yoga pants and getting them down or off completely.

[Bricealan]

Or ripping them off, if possible.

[Asker]

What about women being out at night by themselves, will that awaken that sense of domination for you to rape them?

[Bricealan]

If someone is out to commit rape, I suppose being out in the dark would be the best time. I go to Strand Beach in Dana Point at night to run the boardwalk and see women there on the beach and on the boardwalk. I wonder if they are being risky?

[Bricealan]

I watched a film on Amazon, (cannot possibly remember the name) but it was a good movie, about a girl in NY, out at Happy Hour, had a few drinks, and on the way to her place, she was attacked, and raped, standing up, being pushed against a block wall, face first, with the guy raping her from behind. She was wearing a dress, and he pulled it up, underpants to her knees and raped her. Her hands were cut up from the rough block, her face was abraded, terribly, and took a long time to heal. She collected her underwear in a bag, went to emergency etc. Friends tried to get her to go to a rape crisis center for 'help', her boyfriend was impotent with her because of his not knowing how she would react to him fucking her after a rape. When they finally did fuck, it was 'doggie style' and she asked him if it 'turned him on' to fuck her that way, after the way the guy raped her. He said 'no' but she thought it did. She did not want counseling, or sympathy from anybody, and was really angry with those that wanted her to 'wallow' in the horror of it and be consoled. The last scene in the film was her Running at night, in Central Park. Moral. She wanted to go on living a normal life. A girl I worked with (tiny- girl- parachutist) was raped in her apartment by a black rapist and she acted like it did not affect her. I was glad it did not.

[Asker]

Wow, I think I really am now intrigued to watch the film, please can you remember what was the name of it?

[Bricealan]

Believe me, I have wanted to watch it over again. You would like it. Since the "plague" I have watched a lot of movies. There is another one you would like involving rape, that you would like, also on AMAZON. It is titled M. F. A. (Master of fine Arts) involving an art student being raped by another student in an apartment building. It is a graphic rape, from the rear, on a bed, showing him pulling her thong down, holding her while he strips, lining his penis up with his hand, and the initial push in and him pumping like mad until he ejaculates in her. She eventually kills him in an accidental fall. Graphic sex. Another is 'Daniel And Anna" -brother and sister in Mexico. Nice family, wealthy. Daniel and Ana are kidnapped in Mexico, taken to a building, somewhere seclude, forced to strip, forced to fuck, after being threatened for her being raped and killed, and him killed too. They fucked 'doggie', and missionary, while the kidnappers filmed it and let them go. Of course who could they tell? Ana went to counseling, Daniel did not. You don't know what he is thinking. Later in the film, Daniel goes to Ana's room, forces her on her stomach, takes her sleepwear off, and rapes her, pulls his PJ's up and goes to his room. Ana is Engaged to a guy, but she says nothing, to anybody. Her Fiancé is getting a transfer to an office in Spain. Daniel of course wants her to sat. They get married, at the reception, Daniel get the 'now husband' a drink, takes it to the men's room, jacks off in it and takes it up to give to him 😂😂😂😂😂 A 'bitter' brother. When leaving with the husband, she, Ana, hugs Daniel, in a way that makes you think she liked the 'rape' more than you imagine. I watched it several times. "Daniel And Ana"

[Anonymous]

I've always wondered about this.

I have often fantasized or fetishized this. In my opinion it's a disgusting thought to have, especially considering so many have suffered from this kind of violence and violation.

But, I can't stop thinking about it from time to time.

I think I like being dominated by a man. I like being submissive to my partner. Especially considering I have a career that often requires me to be dominant or in control.

I've recently discovered I like being choked a little during sex.

[Asker]

Wow girl literally same! Good to see there are girls that think the same as me lol thought I was the only one

[Opinion Owner]

I thought I was the only one until I read your question. I just had to answer this.

[LadyCroft]

of course. who wants a vanilla man who asks for permission? Rough and wild sex is the best

[Asker]

Yes girl 👏🏻

[CrazyGirl2]

No! And I guarantee you, you are not actually fantasizing about real rape! Because once you HAVE been raped, you’ll realize that it’s abusive, violent and painful, and five years later when you are still in twice weekly therapy and you read some guy pretending to be female asking about rape as if it’s just some “naughty kinky” fucking game! When your fathers twin brother throws you on the bed and rams his cock inside you tearing the lining of the vaginal walls, the pain is unbearable! Imagine the delicate skin on the head and shaft of your penis being torn open! So badly that blood pours out and soaks into your underwear for days! Then imagine him coming back for more the following day? You don’t get to say can you just wait until I heal, no! You just get to do it all over again and again, day after day for months! Loosing all control and autonomy of your own body! THAT’S RAPE!

[OlderAndWiser]

Is your fantasy about a stranger who breaks into your house and uses a weapon to make you submit to his dick, or is it the idea of a powerful stranger who is so intimidating that you just voluntarily submit to his sexual desires?

[Asker]

Both but for first one more

[OlderAndWiser]

I think that most women who have what they call a "rape" fantasy actually fantasize about the tall, powerful stranger to whom they submit without any threats or violence.

[SnakeBoop]

What you're actually fantasising about is the no control in a controlled setting. NOT rape.

[Kevin202020]

Ur answer is pooo

[SnakeBoop]

@Kevin202020 aww cute, you can make a sentence. Cool.

[Shizunk]

Statistically pretty normal. But there a lot you should probably try before getting yourself into dangerous scenarios. First is obviously a stable dom/sub situation, it can very well be that the process of giving up all control is enough. Easy to arrange as well.
Second is someone you trust with just a roleplay where the consent to lose the option of consent happens right before. If you really can't be satiated then I would go even further, have someone you know and trust arrange a meeting outside with someone you don't know but this person knows and trusts, where you don't know exactly where he will catch you, just that it will be within a certain timeframe and a certain area, where actual drunk weirdos ideally don't have physical access. Like someone's large private property or something.
But please, pretty please do not just go expose yourself to random drunk idiots for a bit of extra thrill.

[Bobsyoruncle]

Have you thought about going to a glory hole where as many men as you want can copulate with you through a hole in the wall?

You could match a rape fantasy (to some degree) to an anonymous encounter with with a man (or men) who don’t know you and don’t care to.

It can be quick and rough, like rape. And you will certainly be walking away with their semen dumped up inside you, also like rape.

But you can also slide off their penis and terminate the act, unlike rape, if you decide not to receive their sperm into your vagina/uterus.

The only downside is disease, and that’s very real.

[Asker]

I guess I know what you’re talking about, those glory holes, and honestly I’ve never found them to be exciting, anyways What’s more close to what I’m saying can be those gangbang vids but

[Asker]

But also like not being fucked by a group of men also

[Bobsyoruncle]

A fantasy is just that, a fantasy. Like a dream, fantasies are essentially beyond our effective conscious control. Fantasizing about being aroused by being raped is a topic that is close to, if not over, the ‘Das ist Verboten!’ line drawn by the PC crowd where it becomes so ‘political’ that a dispassionate and honest discussion about it is not possible in a public forum, where any partisan with an axe to grind can bring their larger agenda to the table. If you prefer not to actually engage in sex acts in pursuit of ‘acting out’ or fulfilling the fantasy perhaps you can discuss it, in person and in private, with like-minded women and see where it goes from there. Finding like-minded women might be a challenge, but far more extreme topics find forums out there. A little research and networking might very well locate the half a dozen women who could make such a group viable. I’ll go out on a limb here and speculate that ‘rape’ fantasies may only be the most dramatic expression of ‘domination’ fantasies that are more common than many people imagine. Ignore the PC crowd in any event. Their agenda is inevitably to strip you of your freedom to choose ANY thought or action that they disagree with, and then attack you if you don’t instantly ‘take a knee’ and thank them for doing so.

[abc3643]

It is an extremely common female fantasy.
It's one reason why the "50 Shades" series of books were best sellers.

[zaharuh]

It's something I thought about before but like you do not want to happen I think you just need an aggresive/dominant guy in your life lol

[Asker]

Lol yea I guess !

[zaharuh]

If you're into it like that maybe you'd like being tied up like I do and maybe setting a day with your man where you could let him do what he wants with you and have a safe word or something just incase.

[Asker]

Yep! I’m all into that kinky lust thing lol. feels amazing to be tied up and he does whatever he wants to do to you. Thought I was the only one thinking this way 😁

[zaharuh]

Lmao yeah that's my thing too

[jamiesrevenge]

at least both of you can admit you have rape fantasies.. so slutty 🥰

[Crepe_tart]

No.. what the actual f

[modeve]

Rape, violence and unwillingness are interconnected. Sex is enjoyment with full participation.

[slatyb]

That’s the mos common female sexual fantasy.

[Kaneki05]

Not really. But it's fairly known thing as a sexual fantasy it's also a known for men wanting to be so by a girl. Aka why succubus's are a thing.
It would be hard to find not a single guy who hasn't thought about succubus and gone that's kinda hot. When a succubus is something that rapes you to death so...

[SamWilliams]

I don't think it's completely normal. I wonder why you want to be controlled and forced?
Maybe it's some type of instinct from cave people days?

[Asker]

As I mentioned it turns me on for unknown reasons lol

[Gwenhwyfar]

A lot of women have that

[Asker]

So it’s not that unusual, good 👍🏻

[humpbackjack]

A lot of women fantasize about being raped so it’s common of course if your fantasy is disrupting your life like missing work or being late to appointments spending days in bed fantasizing and master baiting the whole time you might need to self reflect on why. Did you experience something traumatic that’s making you have this urge if so you should work through the trauma so you can have healthy alone time or time with your partner while having this fantasy or not

[Breebabe15]

No never without my permission.

[Djaay]

This is just a pleasure dycodomy (fantasy , not really truly accual rape. Its about being controlless and vunerable to your partner in a rougher type sex , not with strangers nessesarly.

[Nik1hil]

Hell yeah.. Totally normal...
@pallavi37 can you assure her that it's quite normal..

70% of girls that I come across have desire to be raped.. By rich handsome man that they desire..

70% of man that I come across have desire to rape.. Your beautiful small size girl.. That they desire..

It's not that difficult.. Talk to men in your area.. Someone who is willing to sign a "Consented Rape contract with you."

You basically play rape roleplay..
He rapes you.. And you struggle to escape and cry and fight back in pain.. But he overpowers your strength and penetrates you over and over again and even though you feel violated.. You enjoy the way he takes you and makes you submit to his manhood!..

Now keep a set of safe words..
RED = if you actually get hurt his actions stop.. When you tell red..
Yellow = if it hurt a little and you want him to slow down on fucking you.. Or his grip is too tight.. Yell yellow
GREEN = you want him to start fucking again and Pulling your hair and taking you on the cold floor..
Blue = You are really enjoying the moment of him overpowering and penetrating you and if he want a little faster you will orgasm..
White = maintain the same speed in pounding and violating you..

After this decide what you are okay with like gagging and vaginal fisting...

[TheSpaceGnome]

thats a sign of low self esteem and low standards.

[Asker]

LOL!

[TheSpaceGnome]

well rape is unwanted sex, you are effectively saying you want to be uncomfortable and feel violated by someone you don't feel attracted to or safe with, just to please someone else. Which means you either don't care about yourself, or you are using the word rape wrong.

[Asker]

No who said to please an stranger lol, when I think about it I get the pleasure so at first I like it for my own pleasure

[TheSpaceGnome]

then you are using the word rape wrong.

[TheSpaceGnome]

rough sex =/= rape

[Asker]

I might have but no I really meant the rape itself, I know the differences between rough sex and rape.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Aparrantly, you don't.

[Djaay]

Wow , you're way off base.

[Secretstayathome]

Rape is when someone performs sexual acts against your will. Meaning you don't want it when it happens to you and afterwards you feel violated. A lot of times that ends with murder. Now, of that's what you want, than you are not okay and need to see a professional!

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Secretstayathome oh hey, someone who uses the word correctly.

[Ironic_Method]

Normal? Eh... Definitely not uncommon, but maybe I have a type.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow. You need a boyfriend.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@pumpkinspice009
What is rape?
Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability.

What is a rape fantasy?
It must be noted at the outset that there is no such thing as consensual rape. Rape fantasy or rape play involves sexual role-playing in which one partner plays the submissive (the victim) and the other plays the dominant (the attacker). The behaviors extending from rape fantasy are fully consensual. The terms "rape fantasy," "forced sex fantasy," or "rape play" are misnomers. If an individual is consenting to the sexual behavior, then it is not rape or forced sex. The turn-on may be the idea of being forced to have sex for many individuals, but they do not actually want to be raped.