Are you confident in your sexual skills? What do you think you’re pretty good at?

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You can list “other” as well if not on the poll. I’m quite confident in my oral skills and thats having only given to one person. And i think my other oral skills of dirty talk are superb enough to write a book someday. I certainly dont feel my tricks would work on all but its worked on enough for me to feel sexy. So even if i’m not the best, I’m confident that I got a nice skillset. What about you? Which on the poll do you feel you are or would be good at?
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SomeGuyCalledTom · Accepted Answer

The guys vs girls comments are quite revealing. Guys generally have a "thing" they're confident in sexually, and "room for improvement" in many other things. Whereas girls see themselves as being amazing at "all the things". Like, hate to break it to you ladies, but that guy you dated in your sexual prime would tell you your farts smell like strawberries if ot increased his chances of getting laid. Guys are just happy when a girl touches his PP, but girls need to be touched in exactly the right ways. So there's a disparity as I see it in that women often overrate their sexual performance whereas men underrate their own.

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

All of the above minus BDSM.
I could give classes on all of the above.
I prefer anything with my mouth on her because all five senses are... literally immersed... in her.
Fingering her... she squirts... so I think I've got that one down pretty well... and she can cum in less than a minute with my fingers.
I think I have an awesome toolbox...😏

zeitgeist057 · Answer

I put "massage" as I have actually done a lot of that both as therapeutic and sensual, and studied various styles as well. Not to be arrogant, but I do think I have some skill in all the points mentioned, and I think it is natural for people to feel like they are good at them when they are enjoying them so much, so I hope it's a good thing!

One that you didn't put that I guess is kind of like BSDM/roleplay but I feel is slightly different is that I am good at the mental game, at psychologically teasing her mind, I think it's the best sex when I know her fantasies and how to get her imagination running.

SISWITHBROTHER2 · Answer

I would say ORAL, that was my very first sexual experience, and I don't know if I am great at sucking, but I have never had any complaints about it.

talover · Answer

Well, these are very subjective questions, especially when it comes to judging your own sexual skill. The likelihood of most claiming to be experts in all of these, is very high. With that said, I'll share a more objective opinion based on my what my previous and current partners have said about my sexual skill.

I suppose I can start from my high school days of sexual rendezvous, but those were learning or growing pains, for me - and them. I suppose I can share all the positive comments I've received or what partners have enjoyed me doing to them but I'll only share one. Just one. This one is the common denominator between all my partners, dating back to my learning days in high school. Every. Single. One. I mean every single one of my partners have enjoyed me going down on them. But it wasn't until 2004 when my cunnilingus skill improved exponentially. At that time I read a book called, She Comes First, by Ian Kerner. It is a book dedicated to teaching men how to think about pleasing their woman. This book single-handedly took this favorite skill of mine 10 notches up, or 100 notches if you ask my partners.

Years later, when I married, my wife was a virgin. She had no experience in anything and I knew I needed to take my time with her. When I went down on her for the first time, she was hesitant. She apparently had psychological hang ups about oral sex. She was raised to think it was gross and shouldn't be done. I'll spare you the talk we had about this or the details on how we overcame those hang ups, but know this - it quickly became her favorite sexual act. She considers this the most loving act of service I could do to her. So there you go. This isn't me tooting my own horn but rather, this is others telling me I'm a magician in the art of cunnilingus. I'm proud of this because not only does it please my partners but it's heavenly intoxicating to me. I love it!

Stay thirsty my friends. Cheers!

jess2022 · Answer

I'm personally confident in giving oral, started trying some new things with my roommate and myself recently

loves2learn · Answer

Sure. Never had trouble making a guy cum. Granted it’a been the same guy for nearly 21 years. 😂

MTC29 · Answer

"Are you confident in your sexual skills?"

Very much so, especially oral. As a young man was classically trained in the art of eating pussy by a much older woman.

The things that she taught me have served me well over the past 4+ decades. "Where did you learn to do THAT?" is what I've heard many times.

I learned from a very good teacher. As her always eager student, I learned my lessons well. There were tests!

NicoletteXO · Answer

Can't choose. I'm excellent at all of them.

MCheetah · Answer

I'm not confident in those skills, no. I have a small penis, as mentioned before. I have been told by every woman that I have great oral-giving skills. But I don't like to do (or receive) oral, personally. But I just communicate with them and give them what they want. Basically to make up for the small dick. But I personally would rather not do oral and if she doesn't want (haven't met a girl yet who didn't want oral, sadly), then I'm very happy to not do it. As far as penetration goes, I try to do what I can with what I've got, but as stated, it's impossible to please any normal-sized or tall woman with such a lacking size. Although the same probably applies to most other men too, as most men are also below seven down there.

ohshee · Answer

I'm very confident in myself I am very confident on how I read people I'm very confident in my touch and yes I'm very confident in my sexual skills. I don't make it about me I make it about the girl on wit that's what it's all about for me is to let her feel something that is beautiful I want her to experience one of the best orgasms she could possibly ever have and I do that by making it all about her. And I don't go into it thinking that I'm the best in the world and this is what I'm going to do to her. I go into it knowing how I want her to feel how I want to touch her how I want her to experience it how I want to become one with her whether it's deep and slow motion or whether it's a good pounding it's all going to be about her not me anything and everything I do when I'm having sex making love or fucking. I don't go in with a game plan I start out slow. I read her eyes. The color of her cheeks. The way she moves her hips. The way she moans. And her touch. With each one of those that tells me what she wants at any given moment. And in that moment I get to decide whether I'm going to take her there or if I'm going to make her wait a little bit longer by doing this I am very confident that she wants the same thing that I want. And that is to take her to an intense out of control orgasm I'm confident in her and allowing me to see her lose control and let me even take it further

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

I can write my ass off so yes, I'm confident that I can have you wanting to jump my bones through a text. I'm also just as confident that you'll lose that urge about a minute after actually getting in the same space as me because I'm awkward AF. 🤷🏾‍♀️

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I am not "completely" confident. Always room for improvement I guess?

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I'm good at everything. No kidding.

spartan55 · Answer

Shit.. not even a question. Check my Yelp.

Squiggles88 · Answer

I have been blessed at being good at most of those. I'm not into roleplaying though

electromagnetic · Answer

I think I’ve been doing it long enough to know at least a few ways to pleasure my partner. It’s all about commutation and reading their responses to certain touches and stimulations.