Has anyone had a casual sex relationship with a co-worker without it causing problems in the workplace?

I work in a restaurant and I was in the walk in refrigerator and our Assistant Manager was in there helping me count food, I jokingly said we could totally have sex and no one would find out, I'm always joking with him like that because he blushes when I say stuff so I already knew his married ass wanted me. But this time when I turned around to ask him something he had a very noticeable uhh.. erection. It was like that scene from anchorman. He was trying to cover it with his clipboard but I took it from him and asked him what got him excited and he wouldn't talk about it. We dropped it and haven't spoken about it. So I kinda want to fuck him now lmao but I think I'll respect his marriage. Plus I've had work flings in the past and it's never turned out good.
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  • I had sex on a business trip to China with a female employee who worked for me. It was amazing and was a real surprise. She had only had sex with her fiancee up to that piint. We were out with a supplier (she was female) and got a bit drunk. The conversation somehow got to sex stuff. Later when we got back to the hotel my co-worker (she worked for me) asked me to be her second guy so she wouldn’t regret not being with another guy before she married. Did it a few times on that trip and never discussed it again. No, i didn’t attend the wedding a year or so later.

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  • In my opinion you should respect his marriage. If neither of you are married, get some. I tried to get my girlfriend to do it in the cooler once but she was convinced we'd be caught. I wasn't employed there but she was. I must admit your story did give me a semi, thinking bout my own experience.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nahhh pretty sure people would notice quickly at my job. It’s retail and usually everyone knows everyone or has a friend of someone that knows that person and stuff so yeah and plus I don’t wanna lose my job so nope

  • Sure did and it never caused a problem. It worked so well that I married her. Then we both left that job and eventually ended up both working for another place so technically I guess I have experienced this twice

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yeah, keep things professional

  • He's married. Forget it.

  • Damn u seems ASSASSIN? That sounds so exotic & I don't know I feel attracted to u in a way I can't explain !!

  • damn girl you badd. can I have that number tho?😏

  • No I don’t sleep around

  • I have had sex with a female co-worker who was my supervisor at the time. We had sex at her place after work and it was awesome. It did not cause problems but it ended because she moved to a diffrent location for work.

  • It is not a good idea regardless. With you there's two reasons to avoid this beyond him working at the same place. Obviously his marriage which you mentioned. The second one is hos position. He's your superior and while workplace relationships are never a good idea they're wose when your positions are unequal.

  • Follow me & I’ll tell u about my experience. Haha.

  • Absolutely not

  • If you both agree, the no problem, enjoy but do not go in long-term relationship

  • It's not okay to have sex with someone at work
    send mesaing

  • so he had a big shooter?