Guys, did you need to practice a few times to know how to eat out a girl, or did you just know how to right away?

[Anonymous]

Like does it take practice? Or is it just something you knew how to do if you watched porn or?

[Bricealan]

Well, good question. My first act of 'eating out' was a gross failure, with a 16 year old HS Junior, and I was 19. I had wanted to look at her pussy as, at that point, had never seen one. She did not want me to look ! ? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ I'm sure it was fine. At one point, somehow, I had her pants off, and had everything, including my nose in her pussy !! She told me not to use my nose !!! She did not suck me well either.

Several years later at 27, my experience girl 'friend' and I were in her parents drive, on a Sunday afternoon. She had a guy regularly fucking her, which she told me about graphically from time to time, including how fast he could fuck, and not 'shoot his wad'
(Which got me as hard as a broom handle)
After some talk, (he had fucked her Friday night) So at least I knew who I was 'eating after'. I leaned over the bench seat, put my face in her lap, turned my mouth to her crotch, and proceeded to lick her through her jean shorts, then the shorts came off, then licked through her underpants, then those came off. Scooted her forward in the seat, and proceeded to like her pussy without know anything about her clitoris, as I was still a 'dumb ass' about the clitoris. (I learned most about sex from her in that 2 year period) I licked her for quite a while, until the seat of the car was wet, and she had me stop, and we cleaned up, luckily I had a clean handkerchief.
So, all said and done, I knew I wanted to 'eat her pussy' and did just that, but did not know enough about her clitoris, to concentrate on it, since I did not even know where it was !!! It was enough excitement for me to have my face and mouth between her legs, you had better believe. A year later I even started eating her ass.

[LiamSawyer]

Generally speaking you don't want to concentrate on her clit unless she is super aroused as direct clit stimulation without arousal can be quite painful for most women. Using the clit hood, which is directly connected to the inner labia or inner lips, is the best route to clit stimulation.

[spartan55]

Fortunately I never made the mistake of trying to learn an aspect of sex from watching porn.
As far as eating pussy, I have my standard checklist of moves and tongue gymnastics I roll through, fingering, no fingering, how hard does she like her clit sucked etc. I find the 'combination' almost every time this way. If I can't get her there? I just talk to her about what she likes. I always do recon before first time sex with a new partner. It's so simple, but many guys don't do it for some reason.

[Lliam]

Shit. The first time I tried was when I was 16. My girlfriend was 15. I had heard the term "eating pussy" and was eager. But I didn't even know what a clit was and had no idea what brought a woman pleasure. I just licked her vaginal slit. She had to educate me.
It actually took me a few years to figure out how to use my lips and tongue to tease a woman's inner thighs and all around her vulva, and to property pleasure her clit.

[DonkeyDan]

Took a little practice to get the basics but there is a bit of instinct involved. Ever bew woman is a new learning experience as not everyone likes the same thing, so you have to learn her buttons.

[LiamSawyer]

Practice makes perfect, but communication is very important too as no two women like it exactly the same.

[humpbackjack]

It’s best to go down on an older more experienced woman so she teaches you the does and don’ts and some tricks if you like it you should be a fast learner main thing to remember is to be gentle and focus on the clit and she will usually guide you from there if not by telling you or grabbing your head then by her body language

[FunkyMonkee]

I never tried it until girlfriend #3. By then, I already knew how to do it well. I usually made her cum within a minute after I started! When girlfriend #2 came back to me a couple years ago, I tried it with her but, she doesn't even like having her pussy licked.

[exitseven]

We were both pretty inexperienced so we just experimented.
it wasn't that difficult to figure out.

[FilmGuy93]

I figured it out pretty easily. Every woman likes to be eaten out differently, so you have to pay attention to her body language.

[John83]

I found it pretty intuitive and knew how to do it the first time.

[magiusX26]

some of us need practice others dont. the amount of practice needed for those that need it at all varies greatly.

[Cnlngler]

Fingering correctly meaning, how deep, how wet, how fast, up or down, learning where the g spot is, how to make her squirt. That takes time.
Learning how to listen to her body language, her sounds, moans, gasps, connecting with her body and learning and knowing exactly how to make her cum and being in control of her orgasm.. That takes the most time.

But as long as you eat her as if it was your favorite dessert, not only focus only on the clit. Eat everything, from asshole to clit, lick sideways, vertical, and in circles but not fast. Just as if you were licking and savoring an ice cream.. That I did from the beginning.

[AntiChrist66666]

u can't get gud at any girl
u get girl wif ur girl
i practice talking and learning
now im good wif any girl
she teaches me what she want

[AntiChrist66666]

guys who think dey have technique 4 all girls not good with all girls 1 girl likes it this way another girl likes it that way god of sex is master communicator poor communicator is masturbator

[Asker]

Preach

[naraku]

Most of it is instinctual but sometimes a girl will give me some direction if she likes something more than something else.

[Yourfriend2021]

It comes naturally, it's like an animal instinct :)

[jb12358]

It’s pretty complicated I think I probably learned from reading about it online and from porn

[Jamie05rhs]

Of course you need to practice, because every girl is different and every vulva is different. But I have a pretty good idea of what I'm doing from watching the pros.

[Caliguy88]

I always try tO ask what they want. I’m probably not the best. I don't know. But love doing it. But I was probably the same the first time as I am now. I don’t actually remember my first.

[IncognitoBandito]

You need to experiment, and it helps if you enjoy the sensation and really wanna be there

[Chris2769]

I watched a tutorial girl on girl video tbh. Thought it’s best getting advice from a woman. It helped a lot for my first time

[Morgador]

Like anything in life practice makes perfect

[Mangospacho]

I just spread her legs and started licking wherever she moaned the most. I got better after the first time and I was able to give her multiple orgasms from it so no practice necessary.