I had a curiosity in men , but now I’m in mental anguish?

[KC21439]

I’m questioning my sexuality again..

After being exposed to what I see and how most men are that curiosity went out the window..

Now I’m on the fence with my sexuality.. I haven’t acted on anything either this curiosity popped up a few months ago.

[HollyK21]

Questioning it again? Honey you don’t just ping pong between straight and not straight just because men are giving you the blues. It only adds to people’s warped perception that sexuality is only a choice and men aren’t more gay or women aren’t born lesbian, trans people are trans only by choice etc etc. People fight and people have died defending what they only want others to accept. But it feels like a big joke or taboo or something when there’s individuals like you who “question your sexuality again”. Like you wake up bisexual or lesbian when you feel like it. Not trying to make you feel bad, just think before making these mindless statements..

[HollyK21]

*men aren’t born gay

[KC21439]

There was a curiosity peak at one point in time now I don't know

[KC21439]

I have zero experiences with men

[KC21439]

I haven’t acted on anything YET

[KC21439]

I can’t go back to anything I have no experiences with

[KC21439]

I don't know if I want to move forward with men and don’t know why the curiosity peak popped up

[HollyK21]

I understand that you’re having negative experiences with men and wondering if you’d be interested in women. Curiosities happen, I get it. But it’s irresponsible to word this post as though you fluctuate between straight and not straight on a regular basis. I see how hard the lgbtq+ community fights for their rights, and I’m sure you have some idea as well. So surely you must recognize that it’s in poor taste to publicly fling yourself back and forth between straight and not. It’s offensive to those who don’t have a choice, but people like you make it seem like it is, when you post things like this.

[KC21439]

I don’t have experiences with men I don’t care for the mentality of men and dated women all my life

[KC21439]

This isn’t a phase it’s who I am

[HollyK21]

You could always speak with someone privately about your struggles, not announce it to the world. Again, my intent isn’t to offend you. Just advising you to be mindful of the lgbt community when making posts like this. There’s no need to get hostile, as I’ve said nothing wrong to you.

[KC21439]

You clearly don’t know what you’re talking about.. like I said it was a curiosity phase and now it’s gone after encountering what I see I’m not impressed..

[KC21439]

Yes you have it isn’t a struggle anyone gay can be conflicted at times - you don’t speak on behalf of the lgbtq community

[HollyK21]

I’ve said my peace, take it as you will.

[KC21439]

I wouldn’t say I’m conflicted just what it is at point times..

[Nachowedgie]

I'm not really sure what you're saying here

[KC21439]

I had a curiosity peak a few months back , but don’t know if I could see myself dating men. I haven’t acted on anything with men in this process. I don’t know why the phase..

[KC21439]

I’ve dated women most of my life

[KC21439]

Just in mental anguish what I’ve been exposed too that’s all..

[Nachowedgie]

Okay so don't date men?

[KC21439]

I know.. I was conferring to has anyone ever felt like this before and how to get through anguish