I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and I can count on one hand the number of times he has initiated sex. We only have sex one every few weeks. And the only way he will do forplay is if we are really messed up. And he will literally get out of bed and go in the bathroom and watch porn and jack off instead of having sex with me. Can someone please let me know what you would take all of this to mean from where you are standing. Am I crazy or what.