Either you don't get into sex at all, you have trouble focusing on your partner, or the men you've slept with are the cause. Would need more information but I'll try to assume and help.
I think the main issue is you aren't focusing on your partner which is extremely rude and I'd be very frustrated with you too. Your partner is sharing a special bonding sexual experience with you and you zone out... lol.
It could be the guys you've slept with are so boring in bed you zone out yawning 🥱 thinking is that it?
What I suggest is to try to explore things with your partner that really turns you on so you get into it and focus on him. Do you have any fetishes or sexual fantasies? Maybe try those or experiment new things to find out.
I’m not trying to be rude or hurtful it just happens. Its happened with most guys I’ve dated. My ex always forced me when I didn’t want to at times and I ended up ending the relationship since it was horrible. No I don’t have any fetishes but I’ll try experimenting
Aw yeah that's why I said need more information. I didn't know when you had sex sometimes, you didn't want to or feel like it. Also yes I understand you weren't trying to be rude or hurtful, but the guy would most likely see it that way. Having sex when you don't want to explains though. Hope my original post helps you.
Your boyfriend is right.
But it's not your fault that you have become this way. You did it to protect your emotions.
Still, it would be a good thing to work on. But find out if he is really serious about you. If he isn't committed, then it's not worth the hassle going through all that to try to have better intimacy with him. It would be more harmful than helpful.
Thanks for the MHO.
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