Do you know of any guys, men, who have had sex with escorts or just paid for sex and have no regrets?

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I've never gone down that route before, however I feel it's not out of the question for me, I'm considering it, while I'm not a virgin, I feel I don't have enough sexual experience yet, I've considered paying for sex just a game more sexual experience and just to learn the sexual ropes better.

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I would say, these 3 reasons are the only ways I'm for it when it comes to paying for sex: 1.) The guy is a virgin by a certain age. 2.) He doesn't have enough sexual experience, wants to practice becoming better at sex. 3.) He is on a very long dryspell.

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I sometimes wonder why the United States doesn't bother to legalize this, why did the United States choose to make this type of industry illegal meanwhile other countries didn't?

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Anonymous
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Yeah, me. I've been with at least ten escorts before. Only two of them were a waste of time and money.
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- Asker
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  Were any of them awesome or good experiences?
- Opinion Owner
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  One of them was a 10/10; once in a lifetime experience. Two of them were nines; would definitely see again. The rest were 6 or 7 level experiences.
- Asker
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  Awesome, do you feel those experiences boosted your confidence or self-esteem? Just asking because I feel my mindset or feelings have changed in a good way towards paying for sex, even though I've never done that before
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- Opinion Owner
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  Neither. If I had looks, height, success with women, I wouldn't have had to use escorts in the first place. And more so, I am not just looking for sex. I would want a deep meaningful relationship with a woman. Many men, probably a large percentage, go to escorts out of loneliness and seek intimacy with them; not just to pump and dump. I was definitely the former of those. I would say there's no shame (or least, not that much) in paying for sex, but it is by no means a substitute for an actual relationship or intimacy with a woman who loves you. But if you can't get that, thank God escorts are a thing. You are still paying $200-250 for an hour of sex. Not even really an hour; if you're doing Incall (you go to their place); you first take a shower, then there's foreplay; it's more like 50-55 minutes. Outcall (they come to your place) is a safer option, but they usually charge you much more, since they have to travel to you and whatnot. The only real downside to them, besides the money, is what you're gonna get is a roll of the dice. Some escorts are complete bullshit and a giant waste of time, as I said. While others are amazing. While there are sites in the US like Eros, Escort Alligator, and The Escort Review, that leave reviews, most clients will not review them. You just have to hope you don't get screwed by picking a bad one.
- Asker
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  Do you live in the US or outside the US?
- Opinion Owner
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  It was in the US.
- Asker
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  I assume this was in Nevada? Because I think Nevada is the only place in the US where this industry is legal and regulated, well certain areas of Nevada
- Opinion Owner
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  It wasn't in Nevada. There are places in every major city in America that has escorts. Nevada are just the "legal" ones, but if you go to any Chinatown in any big city, they'll be there. Any "24 hour massage parlor" there is just a front for a brothel. Who the hell is getting massages at 2am? And by the way, they don't just offer "happy endings." You get full blown sex, and often times, get to choose your own girl from the lineup. You have to pay them the service of a "regular massage," plus "house tip," which is just code for cost of the sex, which is around $150 to $200 there. But they also have private escorts that are just girls who work on their own. It's not like the 70s with chicks just walking on the street corner. Those girls all work online, on sites like Eros, like I said. Many girls travel across the country and you can see when they're coming to your town. But those are the way more expensive escorts, that charge $400-700 an hour. I'd never use those.
- Asker
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  When I asked if those experiences boosted your confidence or self-esteem and you said neither, well I hope those experiences were at least positive for you
- Asker
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  Just asking cause I'm considering it just to end a dryspell and gain more sexual experience, just wondering if it's possible for a guy to gain a self-esteem boost from a sex worker despite paying for sex

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Jamie05rhs Master
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If not on this Earth, you will have regrets in the afterlife.
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IHateBeingaMan Yoda
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i would consider that
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Pterodon Guru
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I’ve paid and I have no regrets
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  I was watching the movie The 40-Year Old Virgin last week and I thought to myself, Steve Carrell's character in the movie definitely should have paid for it a while back earlier, I definitely wouldn't judge for guys in a situation like that, at the end of the day it is still sex
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  Are you based in the United States or outside the US?
- Pterodon
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  USA.
jimmy2 Master
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Anonymous
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Yeah me. I've fucked more prostitutes than normal women and have no regrets
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- Asker
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  Hopefully they were clean and didn't have STDs
- Opinion Owner
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  Used condoms and didn't do oral so risks are limited but yeah I do hope they were clean
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  Do you feel those experiences boosted your self-esteem?
Anonymous
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I've had sex with about 100 prostitutes and have no regrets. Your rational about sexual experience makes no sense.
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Anonymous
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I have one time. Found her online and was nervous the pic was fake. Showed up to the hottest woman I've ever seen. Best money I ever spent.
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- Asker
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  Awesome, how much did you spend on her? Hopefully the sex was good enough
- Opinion Owner
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  250 and yeah very
- Asker
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  Do you feel it boosted your confidence and self-esteem despite paying for it?
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- Opinion Owner
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  No. I was just bored and in an area I didn't know
- Asker
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  So are you saying it made you depressed?
- Opinion Owner
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  No. I'm saying it fulfilled my need to have sex that day
- Asker
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  Well that's good because I have considered paying for sex
- Asker
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  I would assume it was better than no sex at all despite paying for it, so sounds like the experience was at least positive