Are your parents happy with the person that took your virginity?

[Twalli]

My girlfriend's mom is probably not thrilled that her daughter had sex at all. Yet she's come to realize that it was going to happen eventually. She has since told me and my girlfriend that she's glad that I was the one to take her daughter's virginity.

[meetkitty123]

In my case He ended up being an asshole but regardless if the person is an adult over 18 then it isn't the parents business and that's just weird that they would get involved.
That's just odd and awkward. What would be normal is what parents would feel about who their adult child chooses to be with for the rest of their days.

[Twalli]

They weren't involves, but they know. It's not like it we were bad for each other but still wanted to do it they could have stopped us.

[Guardian45]

Agreed

[Razp_Sorbet]

My mum likes to think she knows the full extent of the situation with my ex. She now says she knew he was shit from the beginning and makes up stories about how he physically abused me infront of her. It's really weird, when in reality she was saying he's the one when we were together. So I'd say she isn't happy that he was my first. I don't really care that he was

[Twalli]

Did she seem happy about it when you were dating him?

[Razp_Sorbet]

Yup first time she met him, he fell asleep on my bed from travelling. I went out to talk to her and she said "he's the one"

[yofuknutz]

Maybe he was considered as an alpha so your mother picked up on that unfortunately with being Alpha also comes with Alpha complication that goes to verbal and physical abuse

[Razp_Sorbet]

@yofuknutz no he was very beta energy. Woe is me type.

[MTC29]

I was seduced by the VP of my mother's woman's club, who was several years older than my mom. I never said a word about it anyone. 15 years after the fact I finally told my mom, and she threw a fit!

[Twalli]

Did you enjoy it? I mean if you weren't raped.

[MTC29]

Oh yes, I enjoyed it. I kept going back for more!

[Astarlessnightsky]

My parents don't even know the one i had sex the first time, and even if they knew i doubt they would care.

[DizzyDesii]

My mom probably still thinks im a virgin. I break a little down to her yearly. After i told her the guy tried to shoot me and that he tried to force me to go down on him, she already hates

[Nazgol]

Haha🤦‍♀️😅🤣😂

[DizzyDesii]

@Nazgol its honestly not funny tho. If i tell her how that same guy pressured me to have sex, she’ll pay him a visit

[Nazgol]

😃I bet!

[Twalli]

Honestly considering how much you want children and your age I would be surprised if your mom is unaware that you haven't had sex, even if she doesn't know the guy who you first had it with or when.

[DizzyDesii]

She thinks i banged someone in 2018. And i did. But that was 6 months after when she expects it happened. I was moaning loud cause he was eating me out 🤣 We werent having sex when she suspects.

[yofuknutz]

I've heard quite a few rape stories on this site

[Twalli]

@yofuknutz tbh, most people don't report it even if they can prove it happened.

[yofuknutz]

^^^I'm fully aware of that. People have told me horror stories don't even TRY to report it here, Admin don't care.

[Prettygurl12]

My parents and I have not ever discussed this and I have no plans ever to do so lmfao

They like my husband though so I guess that means they're happy?

[purplepoppy]

They were happy that i was happy to do it with him.

[mooky06]

No lol but do i really care? no. They would be more vocal about the person i choose to spend the rest of my life with.

[SarahP080102]

My mom knows I'm not a virgin but we've never talked about who it was or who she thinks it was. I know she would prefer I still be a virgin.

[Agape93]

Nope. He's a foreign non catholic engaging in premarital sex. They really don't like him.

[Redstang88]

My family knows nothing about my dating life

[KatherineJ]

Yep since I married him.

[TacosRAwesome]

He was a twat but whatever.

[Mangospacho]

Absolutely. We’ve been married for over 10 years now.

[Twalli]

Just out if curiosity how long did you date before getting married?

[Mangospacho]

Only a year and two months.

[Twalli]

I guess that's a good sign that my relationship with my girlfriend could result in a successful marriage. We're over 3 years dating.

[Mangospacho]

Yeah the relationship doesn’t change all that much from dating to marriage - you just see the other person a LOT more often.

[Twalli]

Well I already want to see her more often

[IHateBeingaMan]

My Dad knows, but my Mom doesn't know

[Nazgol]

NO. They don't even know how I lost it 😏😳🙈 & would be terrified and kill me prob. It was so bad🤦‍♀️🙈😬👀👹

[Twalli]

I guess they know that you did, even if not when or to who.

[Nazgol]

Well they prob think it was with my now partner. But back then was a friends with benefits kinda thing

[Nazgol]

Was some wild sex. But how could they think.. that I was a sweet little angle🤔🤭?

[Twalli]

Probably because you acted enough like one. My girlfriend and I were able to hide that we had oral, and we weren't even trying. My mom wouldn't have known if she hadn't asked me directly.

[Red_Arrow]

Would they have been upset that he was a friends with benefits, or something else about him?

[Nazgol]

@Red_Arrow yes, they would have been upset caused of that

[Nazgol]

@twalli Yep I did. But that's cause I was not a party goer or clubber nothing like that. Just a quiet school going girl

[Nazgol]

*cause

[Nazgol]

He's a secret 😏 they don't know who is. My tiny little secret 💜💙💚