Relationship issues?

i haven't had sex in a year and two month. after having a guy take advantage of me. while i took a break in my marriage. i also do not feel into having sex with my husband. After having my daughter i stopped wanting that with him like sex. before having my daughter i was always the one doing everything not only am i tired of it being that way but i have stopped doing it. And after having been taken advantage of i believe guys only want to use me so it make it hard for me to open up as well. I do not want to be in this marriage anymore but i also feel like no one will want me in a relationship long term with how society is. And i feel every guy that comes my way wants to use me. so it hard i tried dating apps in the past and guys just want casual sex and or they ghost me after talking to me for two weeks. so i'm hopeless i need advice cause i really feel lost if i had the answer i wouldn't keep asking the question.
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I’m more for men not so much women
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But at this point anything is worth a try I’m not even have sex at all. I don’t know what the guy did to me before but I can’t get myself to have sex. I wish I could take back that day cause I wouldn’t be like this
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  • Well a lot of people end up in a sexless marriage. Sadly this usually happens after having kids when sex is much more difficult to get. Which is why parents go on vacations and hire baby sitters. As for you well a lot of guys would take advantage of you for sex, however their are some who won't. As for rather or not you find him is quite difficult to tell. Honestly some people would suggest leaving others staying. Do what you want is what I say

    • I just really need guidance because I don’t what to do

    • well i am not married nor ever been so my knowledge is limited. What I will say is that your unhappy, talk to your husband about it, if he doesn't do anything than tell him that if he doesn't start trying that your gonna leave because you have been giving it your all and he hasn't. Or try to compromise and see where it goes from their.

    • Well thank you for trying to help I appreciate it

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  • You don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy in life. I don’t seem to understand why people feel that being in a relationship is essential to have a happy and content life

    • Yea me too also he’s controlling so if I want to leave I have to be quiet about it cause he’ll flip out

    • Pack up your things discretely to where it’s not obvious and whenever he leaves the house to go to work or the grocery store or whatever. Throw all yours things in your car or have a friend readily available outside and dip

    • I don’t have friends so for now I’m going to have to save money to move

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  • I feel my for you, that is a terrible situation to be in. i was in a simular relcationship and she cheated on me.

    • I’m sorry to hear that !

    • Follow me and I'll tell you more.

    • Ok I just don’t know what to do I feel stuck

  • Have you taken divorce?

    • I've been considering it just because he is helpful with me and my child but i just don't know what to do with this situation.

    • You need to move on and all guys aren't same, you will get a geniune guy