Guys wake women up in the middle of the night for sex. Should girls be able to wake him up in the middle of the night to cuddle?

[Anonymous]

Personally I think it’s only fair.
What do you think?

[NamerOfStars]

As someone who responds to being woken up in mid-sleep the same way Cuchulainn does, I don't think that would end well- but then, I'm not the type to wake people up for sex, either. It seems to me that if you're going to allow one, you should allow both.

[Asker]

What about like if she turns over and puts her arm around you or lays her head on your chest?

[NamerOfStars]

Oh, I'd have no problem with that- but it takes a lot more than that to wake me up. I'm of the type where falling asleep in public would probably get me declared legally dead.

[Asker]

Lol I envy that. I don’t live alone and last night I woke up from a sneeze down the hall with two doors closed between No joke.

[Mangospacho]

Absolutely. Fair is fair. The guy should be able to meet her sexual needs of cuddling at all times 24 hours a day.

[Asker]

Lol facts 🤣🥰😏

[lovedejj_xo]

I struggle with sleep a lot so waking me up is a no. Whatever you want it better be before I’m able to KO.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes! And I do 😊

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thanks 😊

[spartan55]

I guess saying no isn't an option for you?

[Asker]

Lol I’m a Scorpio I stay horny tbh Unless the sleepy overpowers the horny than it’s like fuck off 😂

[spartan55]

Yeah whatever.

[imjustadude]

Girl never woke me up to cuddle. She just did it and i slept the whole time.

[GrahamWest]

I always cuddle, while I'm sleeping. Hence why I get horny and want sex 😂

[okeydoke]

I’ve had numerous female partners wake me up in the middle of the night for sex…

[Asker]

I didn’t say women don’t. I just directed the question to men because one I am attracted to men and two I personally have heard more of guys doing it. But I’ll be honest I’ve done it myself. I was just seeing who was on board to add cuddling needs lol.

[crazy8000]

It's up te each relationship how we construct it.

Personal do I not tolerate that. my sleep are more important than sometimes urges.

[ChiPaPa]

I'd love that, so much.

[Twalli]

If he wakes you up in the middle of the night for sec and you have sex. If he doesn't then no. If you don't have sex he can turn you down. Also why not fall asleep cuddling?

[Asker]

True but I believe that anyone can say no at anytime. If either of us don’t want to have sex or cuddle or anything else that’s our right. I’m all about consent. Lol. But I do love cuddles… and dick 😝

[Twalli]

I am. just saying if he's not waking you up for sex you shouldn't say that since other guys do or have done to you, that you can wake him up. for cuddling.

[Asker]

Oh I know I don’t treat guys based on past relationships. This question was basically general. I was just wondering like some people wake their partner up for sex what about for a cuddle?

[Twalli]

Equally valid.

[LukelyFlawd]

Yes, and the opposite of both is true as well.

[Pterodon]

Of course

[Joshua0213]

I love when she wakes me up in the middle of the night as long as I dont have to work early

[Guido]

Sure but know that if you wake me up to cuddle, when cuddle time is over your going to get laid. If I wake you for sex then you get cuddle time after. It's all fair and equal.

[Asker]

Right lol 😉 And tbh I would need a snack break during all of that at night 😂

[B4852]

I agree.

[Slim57]

Sure, after sex

[Anonymous]

Sure.

[Anonymous]

For sure

[Anonymous]

I don't think anyone should be waking each other up in the middle of the night. Sleep is very important.