Eight and a half inches. That's usually the max on women that aren't Godzilla-sized.
And for the record, I have a small dick like you were complaining about. 6.5 x 5.5. No woman I've ever been with has EVER said, claimed, or implied that it "fulfills the requirement." That's too flippin' small! I mean, yeah, it "fulfills the requirement" of potentially getting her pregnant, but I don't think that's what we're talking about here.
And yes, I know, I know... Women will say "just use toys then" if you're as small as I am (and most men, apparently; I can't believe most men also have baby dicks; I refuse to believe that cause my head would explode it that's true). But toys aren't that good. And that means, ONLY the woman is getting pleasured. The man and his little wood-pecker, is getting nothing. But sure; "use toys," I guess.
If you, by all means, want a f*cking mediocre baby dick at 6.5" that 95% of straight women won't be able to orgasm with, then by all means, take it. Let's trade (no homo). I'd gladly have a nine inch penis as my new size. But IN REALITY, the best sex a woman is going to have will be from an acceptably good size (7 to 7.5"), with excellent girth (6"), used by a man who has skills.
Think of it as playing in the NBA. You're trying to say a 5'3" dude is going to be a better baller because "bigger guys are too slow." That's, like, crazy to me! That's the kind of logic you're saying right now! Yeah, you have the size, assuming you're not lying. Now all you need is the skill (which I am pretty sure you lack, cause you're complaining about the size).
No matter how much skill smaller guys like me have, we will never have the size to make up for it. At best, you're only going to be "mediocre", assuming she can even feel it. Which like, 60% or something of women can't feel, as the typical vagina is 7 inches deep when fully aroused (4.5 inches when not aroused).
Anyway, to get back to your question:
7" is ideal/perfect. Large enough to get the job done but not too big.
7.5" is pretty great/awesome for women, too.
8" is big. Most men do not even reach this size.
8.5" is very big, and the upper limits non-big women can handle.
9" is quite large. Petit women will probably find this painful.
9.5" and up is the start of "porn star size" I've been told.
Anything below 7", according to what most women I've talked about it have said, "is only good for BJ's and anal." Which is so sad.
So if you're below the 7" standard women want, then apparently, "you're small enough to give her anal." And BJ's. Anything else, even with skill, will only rank as "enjoyable" (mediocre, a C- performance) according to the Trojan condoms data.
Bigger is Not Better, but if you're not big enough, then she will not/cannot orgasm or have clitoral stimulation through penetration. Which is what most women will already tell you, anyway. Why do you think there are (almost) no dildos or vibrators below 7"? Like, none. The smallest ones are below 6" and they don't sell well.
And I know: Lots of butt hurt little men might get offended at me for speaking the truth here and get all super-defensive and whatnot. I won't even cut the Replies off, even though I KNOW small men will be trying to give me claptrap. All I'll say to that is "Don't Kill The Messenger." It's not like I'm a woman or gay or anything. I have a small dick too; I'm not getting anything out of this either.
This was way too much dick talk for me to be comfortable with. How many No Homos do I need to absolve myself, here?
I'm actually 6inches and it's thin the shaft and head and I would say honestly that: women probably the women I like who are shy nerdy and 20 years old bracket age: they just want average.😄😈😀 Especially as I love to do anal i am therefore so appreciative to god and the devil.
For my average sized dick. Why. Because I can enjoy both worlds easily. her V hole and her A hole without problems nor pain nor struggle 🥳🥳
I never actually measured any of my partners but I did have partner that was on the larger size. There had to be plenty of foreplay, starting out slow, lots of communication and trying different positions. It wasn’t a bad thing for us but but I’ve heard about people breaking over this so I can only speak for myself.
I haven’t found that size yet and I like them to be very large.
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You mean you can take any size penis comfortably.
So far, So good
8 inches seems pretty painful
My wife and I are swingers. She like on occasion to just be completely stretched and filled. That being said in ten years I’ve only been outperformed once by a white guy with an 11” cock who made my wife pass out from intensity of orgasm. I have shocked so many play dates rocking their world with a 4.5” cock.
She said most of the time anything over 8.5 is uncomfortable
I sucked a 10 Inc shemale bigger is better
Seriously, I think everyone should have standards.
Lots of girls and guys would like that :)
Probably 9 or bigger.
9 is above average, but but porn size.
Yes it is above average
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