How do I stop feeling envious of other people having sex and being kinky while I can barely get a date? Also, just envy my friends a bit?

In gag I die a little inside when I see that most girls & guys are doing some fantasy I have been wanting to do and see that they are doing it while I'm just frustrated getting ghosted? Most of my friends can find girl's easily but I can barely get a number. It just makes me feel unwanted because after all these years I still feel awkward and shy around women 🥺🥺🥺🥺
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  • Don't stop. Improve your game. Use every opportunity. Be respectful. Say things you would be able to say family females.

    • But how do Improve my game if I rarely talk to anyone?

    • Why don't you talk?

    • Because I don't know where to meet girls and shy around women

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  • You already know what you have to do.

    • I know just feeling lonely 😔

    • My opinion stands.

    • @exitseven you said it…👏🏽

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  • we already talked about this a few times...

    if you want to get to point Z... you do have to work and start with point A, B, C, D... and get them done

    we already talked about points A, B, C, D... you know what to do about that, you just need to start getting it done asap...

  • You have to speculate to accumulate, the more you put yourself out there the higher your chances. Get over the fear of women, seriously what do you think is the worst thing is going to happen when a woman rejects you? The more you get rejected the easier it should be to take that rejection and move on to the next person. Have you had a good hard look at yourself and asked yourself seriously why you think women reject you, be really critical of yourself, and then take those self criticisms and work on them. Also look at the standards you set for the women you are going after, are they realistic or are you shooting too high.

    • I don't fear rejection I just get nervous talking to them and flirting. I get tired of being ghosted and I rarely meet any girl's in my day to day life. The only girl's I meet are co workers and family. I do go out but I'm not confident to talk to a random girl and start flirting with her.

  • Bruh, I've already given you the answer a month ago. No girl will have a crush on a guy that's sobbing on forums about how lonely, awkward and shy he is. I'm disappointed. 😒

    • sorry, just felt sad 😢😢

  • That’s understandable. Focus on being the person you want to be.

    • I am it just gets to me at some point

  • I always hated it when people say that there's someone for everyone

  • I just try to keep it out of my mind.

  • I understand you completely. You should really see if there are social clubs for people 18+ where you are that you can join. If it's big enough there'll be at least 1 hot girl there and since the goal is socialization it should be easier. Either that or try dating apps.

    • I did do a kayaking trip, but that was it. I am on dating apps, I rarely get matches. If I do get one, they never talk to me.

    • I was on bumble. That has the girl talk first. I probably talked a bit on there to 5.

    • I'm on bumble too and still get nothing. I have 3 dating apps and no matches 😥

  • Going to finally get pussy

    • Ha I wish.

  • There are 4 billion women in the world. You should find someone to experience your fantasies. There are many many women believe me. There will be some of them which may try it with you

    • Yeah, but I haven't found anyone and I asked lime 50 girls in my lifetime. I don't meet a lot of people or go to parties.

  • Sometimes when I hear something like this, I just ask the guy to post a pic of the girl they're looking for. It's usually something like this.

    How do I stop feeling envious of other people having sex and being kinky while I can barely get a date? Also, just envy my friends a bit?

    Then I say... what about her?

    How do I stop feeling envious of other people having sex and being kinky while I can barely get a date? Also, just envy my friends a bit?

    And it's usually: "Oh, hell no!"

    I'm not saying that's you, but as one girl pointed out, there are billions of women in the world, and many are looking for you and your kinky self.