Men, what kind of singles, if any, do you usually get interested in you?

[MCheetah]

(I was going to ask this question two days ago, but I had reached my question-asking limit.)

Even if it's only been a few, what kind of women do you usually get looking at you with horny eyes, or interested in you? If it's none at all, that's understandable.

I get very few actual women in real life ever interested in me, but the only ones who have talked to me in person, are the ones I want nothing to do with. And both groups are gay. Homosexual men and "queer women"/bisexuals. It always annoys me.

Why do gay men think I'm "one of them"? Like, do I need to change my clothes or something?
And why do lesbians go after me, and never actual straight women? The latter annoys me more than the former. I don't care that much if gay men are interested in me, as long as they aren't creepy or perverted about it. But the few women who have made the first move on me, have always been the lesbians and has only once in real life did a sexually compatible (i. e., straight) woman make the first move on me.

LGBT people are okay and all, but I will never want to date or sleep with any of them. Both gay men and bisexuals (aka lesbians), along with transpeople, are absolute dealbreakers and a "never happening" in regards to sex and romance with me.

[horatiohornblower]

It's mostly about how you act. If you're not sexually interested in the person or in the case of a lesbian know it's completely off the table. You're likely also going to be much more relaxed and confident.

A gay man is still a man. So, is likely going to be more obvious about their attraction than a straight woman. I couldn't say why gay men think you are too. Maybe it's interests you talk about or a meticulousness about your dress. I've had a few gay men confuse me that way too. Although I don't mind. I just politely decline and inform them I'm straight if they persist.

All I can guess is I'm comfortable with my sexuality. I don't feel the need to put on airs to prove how straight I am to others. So, I'll freely talk about "feminine" topics and my opinions. Because it seems absurd not to if they interest me.

You've probably turned the heads of many straight women too. Without realizing it. Just not the ones you were attracted to. If you weren't attracted to them you wouldn't be paying attention to their subtle cues.

[MCheetah]

The gay men who have hit on me all heavily implied it was due to my looks. Which is weird, cause straight women usually find me to be ugly as sin and too short for them.

[hahahmm]

It's complicated because if I think about say the first day I knew a woman.. the difference between the ones I wanted who rejected me and the ones I wanted who turned into something is zero... in most cases. You really can't tell if there's compatibility for a serious type relationship just from shallow info. You can increase the odds by having similar stated goals of course.

Then there's lots of women where we both hit it off and later I found out something I didn't like so I had to move on OR we drifted too far apart.

I never had a lesbian following me around tho.

[hahahmm]

Maybe it has to do with your profession tho. Could be a high percentage of lesbos in your career field then the odds of one wanting to be your friend is going to go up.

[DaveToo]

I'm afraid I'm long past that.

[ChiPaPa]

None! I feel like I don't exist.

[Lonely888]

Not a lot

[Slim57]

Ones I dont find attractive, ones who I'd never marry, and ones who are just super bizzarre and weird.