i had a sex buddy for 6 months... he made a deal said i could just give him blowjobs and he would be exclusive with me... from the 1st time we met i was attracted to him even though he was 5 3 and i am 5 10... and he wanted a uniform which was me wearing a robe and he wanted his blowjobs often like 4-5 times a week often 3-4 each time... once in awhile he'd eat my pussy but not everytime maybe 1-2 times a week... he definitely was into my blowjobs and wanted me in a short robe... but the more we met for blowjobs the more i liked giving them to him plus he was kind of funny and also cooked for me on weekends which was nice
Nice arrangement
i thought so but he wanted to push it further i had to end it
'Edging'... as with ALL sensuality, begins FIRST in One's mind and imagination.
When was the last, if EVER, time... you stood next to an attractive male and naughtily slid YOUR hand into their trouser's pocket for a 'package check'? Think of it like shopping for produce---
When they shocked-ly query you, your reply should be... "I was checking to see what time it is.." with a wry 'innocent' smirk~
The male equivalent is to stand behind you and playfully nuzzle your earlobes and collarbone as they feel your nipples stiffen in unashamed response and you'll gasp.
Done WELL... you'll grow 'wet' to welcome. That's "HOW" you'll KNOW its been too long since last you 'rode'~ and you'll guide his eager fingers to rock your "little man in the boat" done well, he'll be 'swamped' and taking on water!
Being enthusiastic about being physically intimate with the person your with is a good start. The more you know about them and the situation they are in, the more feedback you receive in bed and during casual conversation about relationships in general, and the more honestly through transparency of trust, your inquiries into what you are doing right, and what can use improvement, will promote responses to.
When it comes to sexual intercourse, sexual release carries with it, a degree of emotional, as well as physical, intimacy, and there is no "ON SIZE FITS ALL" variation or classification of sexual pairing, so information is key, and that information can 🐝 acquired through mutual trust and acceptance, so keep them lines of communication open..😉
No judgement just advice.. There's other ways to blow off steam than to let someone treat you as just good enough for sex and nothing else. Relationships shouldn't be "drama", if anything fuck buddy relationships are the relationships that bring drama when it becomes less than what you need/want/ deserve... Just food for thought...
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2. Don't get pregnant.
3. Don't get emotionally attached.
4. Have lots of sex, and try new things.
That's pretty much it.
Don't get pregnant? Wtf
@WowwGirl It means: make sure BC of some kind is used, and to not have any illusions that she's in a relationship or that the guy would stick around if she got pregnant. Some girls take zero precautions, even with casual sex, and some develop feelings and then convince themselves that getting pregnant will make the guy change his mind. I've literally had that conversation with 4 or 5 girls who were planning to use that path to "make him love me." The point is: if you're having casual sex, then you need to ensure that you don't get pregnant. If that means making the guy wear a condom, fine. If it means BC, fine. If it means only BJs and anal, fine. But pregnancies need to be prevented, however the two of you decide to handle it.
Be eager, release your inhibitions, try new things, talk dirty when you are aroused and moan when you are getting closer to an orgasm.
Moaning isn't weird?
Most guys WANT TO KNOW that what they are doing is getting you aroused and they will feel like a man if they can lead you into a strong orgasm. Moaning is the feedback that tells us that we are doing something right. There are some guys who might be turned off by moaning but a guy who is looking for friends with benefits is probably going to enjoy you moaning (unless he still lives at home and his parents are in the next room! :) :) :) )
Exactly
The most important aspect in a casual sexual relationship for me is actually keeping it casual.
"Benefits" and attraction should remain purely sexual, and no expectations should arise from whatever it is that you engage in with your fb.
I do want to be desired and for it to be exciting, but only in a sexual way.
What I'm looking for is "detached", I want "detached" sex with a fb, it's not just safe but it also adds to the sexual experience for me.
So I guess whatever does the "detaching" for you.
A kink? Sexual rules? Involving other people? Stuff like that.
Well the first thing you have to do is be happy you have to be a good friend and you have to have lots of passion and desire. You have to allow yourself to be free from everything and enjoy it let yourself go so you can feel it deep. For me I don't look at it as a fuck buddy I look at it as a hot deep lover it was to express and feel things they never have before. And be free enough within and nothing embarrasses you you can just let it go and if you feel it at that moment just yell fuck me fuck me hard. There's no holding back and when you fuck it's actually making love so good so deep so real is one of the hottest things for me. To be honest with you I have had a couple friends with benefits and I can be honest and tell you that they were better than some of my relationships that I ever had because we both allowed ourselves just to let go and become
use protection... protect yourself and others as well, protection...
You know it would be much easier to show you
Same. Was thinking private lessons😏
It depends on yours. Like with any kind of "relationship" you have, even just a sexual one, you have to get to know the person and what they like and don't like.
I would imagine you fuck. But i could be wrong?
I so wish you were somewhere where I can just come and do you in a darn closet and we mull over some deep topic and sleep, spent.
Ah that would be great, All the best people are always countries away the irony of life.
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First, not judging.
I don't believe in sex with zero emotional ties. Sooner or later it comes back to bite you in the ass. And not in the good way.
If you're just looking for an endorphin rush there's healthier ways to get it.
Practice oral on a banana or an Italian ice with a hard little piece sticking up at the top
That'd be so weird lmao
I was mostly kidding. But it is a good tease if you do it right.
Get an IUD. I got a vasectomy now but no dude wants his fuck buddy pregnant.
Fucking is the number one thing followed by the second thing which is fucking. Also don't get attached and don't ever think you are going to get to know his friends, wife, mom, boss, his real name, location, number of diseases he is carrying. Being a fuck buddy is a hard job. Not sure you will enjoy it.
Speaking of blowing, always a crowd favorite.
But you also need to have your needs, wants and desires fulfilled too.
Just have fun and enjoy it. Don't be afraid to talk about your kinks, and his as well. Mostly just have fun.
Initiate sex, be passionate, participate, show a lot of enthusiasm for your partner.
I think u just need to be open n kinky darling
It isn't something that you can perfect. It's more about not fucking things up. You just don't "catch feelings" and already outperformed 95% of other fuck buddies. And don't try to play your fuckbuddy to see what he does if you ignore them, or cancel on them. That bullshit is for relationship, fuckbuddyship should be built on fairness, respect, and necessities (in case you are not sure double check, there was no bullshit on the list).
Sounds kinky and sleazy
Are you in? Jkjk
What? Yeah not sure how you can be someone's smash buddy from india
I was kidding haha
I would love to be your fuck buddy, oral sex buddy and in whatever other ways, them as well
They're right... either way, it's disastrous eventually. This is because we're a social creature. People get jealous, possessive, suspicious. In our cerebral, no-strings attached minds, it would help to be impersonal; erotic, not romantic.
It rarely works out that way, but ideally, there has to be a mutual understanding (A contract, if you would) that discreteness is to be maintained. When you're unavailable, you're with someone else. When they want you then and there, be INTO THEM and it (sex). Don't talk about the others. So fuck-budding is like prostitution, except one step further... It's free. What's your number? lol I'm older but I'm good. Find out.
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