Is it weird that from time to time, I enjoy pain while having sex?

Not all the time, but sometimes I love that a man takes me so hard, that he kinda loses control and just fucks me, hit me, slap me, humiliate me, degrade me, use me. I enjoy feeling like I'm a sex toy. On these moments I have almost no limits. It makes me feel so desired and it's not about cumming as I don't usually cums when it happens, but it gets me so horny. Makes me want him so bad.
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  • No, lots of women feel that way.

    The girl I'm seeing right now is seeing me for that specific reason. I'm certainly not the best-looking guy or the wealthy guy or the guy with the biggest dick - but she feels just like you do, and most men don't understand her needs. Either they won't do the things that she wants, or they actually physically hurt her without it being arousing. It's about the PASSION and about feeling naughty that gets her off.

    I learned that long ago, and I remember being shocked in real time as I was having an epiphany about it, but I also understood how true it was.

  • I think it makes you even hotter

Most Helpful Girls

  • as long as there is mutual understanding and no real harm, I think it's fine. I like being submissive as well

  • It's just a kink. Don't over think. We all have them. You probably have enough experiences to name yours.

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  • I know exactly what you mean, I love it too. I don't think it's weird, I think it's pretty common actually.

  • Omg yes. I am the same. And it's addicting.

    • It makes the pleasure feel better

    • It does. And for me it adds an element of submission and feeling vulnerable.

    • Very true

  • No nothing wrong with it. It’s just a kink you have.

    the main thing is that you give informed consent.

    also importantly if it’s not all the time, then you must make it really clear consent must be asked.

    It sounds like you have some specific masochistic needs.

    it’s worth finding out exactly what bits give you the largest turn on.

    you both need to look in to Sub drop and aftercare.

    really really important.

  • Not weird at all

  • Not at all weird. Fairly common. Explore this with someone who is safe to play with and skilled enough to not cause injury.

  • Pain makes the pleasure better

    • Yessss

  • You might be surprised at how many women are really into this and most of them at least the ones I’ve been with cum huge. My wife even tells me shit like beat that pussy up daddy or will tell me hurt my pussy daddy now of course she doesn’t want me to really hurt her she’s just really letting go and getting wild and I love it and get after it as hard and rough as I can short of bruising or actually causing damage but she does walk funny the next day

  • Not at all, it can stimulate even more nerve endings.
    I have been with a number of women that liked to be tickled during sex, especially right before they climax.
    They said it made their orgasm even stronger.
    One would even tickle 1 foot while I tickled the other.
    She told me as long as she was all hot and bothered I could do anything to her.

  • I think more and more people are getting into it cuz its awesome and no it ain't weird cuz its jus a fetish weird things are becoming normal now lol the world is changing

  • Everybody likes what they like.

  • That is not weird at all.
    About half of the women with whom I have been intimate have wanted me to tie them, ‘rape’ them and hurt them in a variety of ways (various whips, clamps, speculums and needles).

  • Perfectly normal, I like my g/f to ride me reverse cowgirl and squeeze my balls til I can’t stand it any more.

    • Hot 🥵

  • You're not impressing anybody with this bullshit honey. GTFO

    • If there's anyone who's bullshitting, it's you.

    • Uh no, you keep posting this inane bullshit. Shut the fuck up or get the fuck out.

    • I'm offended that a miserable man like you thinks that. I really am.

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  • just smacking ur ass or hard and rough fucking... i can't think of any other pain that i'd be ok with.

  • Some people are like that

  • Nope you do you

  • My understanding is that it’s a biological response that the body has during sex. Pain tolerance goes up and tolerance to things you wouldn’t normally be ok with maxes out. So it seems normal

  • Me and my ex were having sex when he backhanded me really hard. I was startled and it hurt so I cried. I liked it a little though

  • It's not overly common, but you'd be surprised at how common it is.

  • Some people like receiving and causing pain during sex. I personally don't like either. I think it is disrespectful but to each is own

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