If this isn't the kind of relationship you want, leave him. There is no right or wrong way to have a relationship (unless its illegal.)
If you are not happy, if you want to be an EQUAL, then he is not the one for you. You can try setting boundaries, setting rules, telling him you want to be treated equally, but that's clearly not his thing & never will be.
It is up to YOU how YOU want to be treated. If he isn't treating you the way yo uwant to be treated, fine somebody that will. Not many people I know want to be treated like a lesser.. it really hurts being with somebody like that. Never feeling good enough.. you deserve better.0 0 0 0
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It's more than a red flag that's a foot up his ass and kick him off that bus I wish you would have got up and you would have kept going I can tell you right now you are a fun beautiful girl that tries to please and all he does is manipulate you're going to find out that he's a fucking bully and he's an asshole the longer you stay with him the worst is going to get I don't even know you but I would date you in a heartbeat just because I can see and feel you are just through your words that guy doesn't deserve you that guy doesn't deserve an ant with three legs if I was you I would not give him no more oral. Wait I take that back if I was you I would believe I would walk away fast the guy's a dick I'm sorry that I caused the boyfriend of dick butt you know as well as I do. And I hope you find the confidence to walk away I really do
0 0 0 0I saw too many red flags to count. Get out of that relationship. I hope you can do so safely. He sounds like he will be physically abusive if he isn't already.
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So happy the others are also saying this.
Those are some serious red flags.
Get away while you still can, it will only get worse and you might end up getting physically abused as well as mentally.
If he doesn't validate you, your opinions, and your pleasure, that in itself is a big no and you should get away.
Love yourself enough to get away.0 1 0 0
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10 17There's so many red flags here it reads like a troll wrote it. If you're not a troll, yes your boyfriend is a horrible boyfriend and a horrible person in general. I don't know why you're with him still
1 1 0 0I would drop him like a lot potato. Sounds like a complete douche.
0 0 0 0Yeah absolutely
0 0 0 0I only got half way through reading your question and already it sounds like a parade of red flag waving.
0 0 0 0Yes, I do.
0 0 0 0What a douche bag! Are you serious when you say you're doubtful about the red flags? Cause each sentence has rhem!
0 0 0 0sounds like a real prize.
0 0 0 0Sounds like verbal abuse. Why you with a caveman?
0 0 0 0Damn, you hooked up with a sexist, misogynistic, future rapist and serial killer, you better run far and fast from that fkn loser.
0 0 0 0Lol what are men? If you’ve never had lesbian sex then you must try it especially the tribbing part, you might start losing interest in men too. Girls eating each other out, feels extra Better than men doing it. Just try it.
0 0 0 0Why are you wasting time with him?
0 0 0 0he is abusive
0 0 0 0Definitely he sucks
0 1 0 0This guy sounds like a real jerk and isn't treating you right and you can see that.
0 0 0 0That’s enough red flags for a Chinese military parade.
He’s an emotionally abusive and sexist prick. Get out and never look back.2 1 0 0This
Uhhh yeahhh. There are so many red flags in that paragraph. Why are you still with him. I have a feeling that one day you will be his human punching bag. Get out while the getting is good. You deserve so much better
1 0 0 0Throw that boy in the trash because he is not a man. I stopped once I read he doesn’t give oral bye.
0 0 0 0Ok I couldn't even get through the fist paragraph because I was irritated. YES THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG AND YOU NEED TO MOVE ON NOW!
This guy is a fucking pig0 0 0 0I only had to read 4 lines before saying get out.
0 0 0 0Sounds like a Taliban muslim who’s really into goats.
0 0 1 1Irrelevant shit
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