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Should I confront my boyfriend about his gayness before breaking up with him?

Since we had our daughter he stopped having sex with me at all which is annoying. Anyways yesterday I found out about his gayness and his sexual desire for young boys!! His laptop was full of naked men photos, asses, dicks and young kids being raped. It scared the hell out of me, so while he was at work I took the keys and my daughter and left to my brother’s home without saying anything to him. He called many times but I don’t even want to see him or want to be with him ever again.
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  • You should be concerned about your daughter spending any time with him unsupervised if he is a pedophile.

    • He won’t see her ever again

    • Unless you intend to disappear and go underground, use fake names, etc., you can't be guaranteed that he will never see her again.

    • I can because after I breakup with him I’ll be moving to my country for good and he won’t see her again.

Most Helpful Guy

  • He is not gay.
    He slept with you didn't he? If he were gay he wouldn't be able to have sex with women... it would disgust too horribly.

    He is bisexual though. He has sexual attraction to both men and women.

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  • Um... Call the police? Maybe? 🤨

    The "Gayness" seems to be the least of your concerns if he's got child porn kicking around on his computer.

    If he was just bi-curious, bi or straight up gay, you could at least have some kind of discussion, see what the hell is going on and either resolve it or get closure and move on.

    But if he's got child porn stuff, I'd be calling the cops, handing over the computer and filing for divorce / break up.

  • I think you should let the police confront him about his pedophilic tendancies.

  • Sounds like you know how to pick em.

    • Sounds like you're freaking out so here's some advice. Don't assume your boyfriend is some type of predator because you found pictures on his computer. Best case scenario is he's just a pervert. If you found pictures of nude women on his computer, you wouldn't say "omg my boyfriend is cheating on me". Police should not be contacted except in an emergency.

    • How come?

    • Nothing good ever comes from contacting police unless you are in danger. It's a decision with permanent consequences and you could end up being arrested too. You should contact your boyfriend from a safe distance and confront him about it. See how he reacts and what excuse he gives. Tell him you don't feel safe having your daughter around him. At least then you will know what is going through his head.

  • Call the police on him

    • But I don’t have proof that he’s harming boys. Police will need more than videos and photos.

    • No they don't. Possession of Child Pornography is a serious crime in many countries. Whether he was directly involved with what's happening in those videos or not is irrelevant. Possession of such content is flat out illegal. It's illegal because of the content itself. It is illegal because those kids are being victimised again and again each time someone shares and views those videos of them being abused. And of course things can always get worse, where things go beyond just watching videos.

    • Oh and if he's distributing that content to others, that's also a serious crime.

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  • Just for the record, the gayness and the pedophilia are two very different things. And the latter is extremely concerning.

  • Even he needs some help he does deserve a explanation why you are breaking up with him.

    • I’m grossed out by his actions and I don’t want to see him.

    • Maybe text or call him you have no reason to see him to tell him why his actions are gross.

  • Like someone else said, you should be considering this from a law standpoint

  • Yes be honest because that's what he should of done with you.

  • Call the cops on this dude for having child porn. Geez what a nightmare to have a child by this man.

    • It’s beyond nightmare and I feel sorry for my daughter but he won’t see her again.

  • You should absolutely confront him and you should absolutely leave him. Every sexual predator has gigabytes full of underage porn and rape images like you described. What he’s doing is probably much worse than you know already.

    • I feel sorry for my daughter and she can never be proud of her dad

    • Yeah, it is sad that he’ll never have a real relationship with her after this. You don’t have to tell her all the gory details when your daughter starts asking questions about him. All you have to tell her is that he’s sick and is getting help. You will probably end up years down the road meeting someone else who she looks up to. It happens more often than people think.

  • I'd be more concerned about the child porn than whether or not he's gay.

  • I think the problem here is worse than him being gay, he sounds like a pedophile, but I think you should confront him about what you found on his laptop.

  • BRUH YOU MARRIED TO A FUCKING PEDOPHILE. CALL THE COPS ON HIS ASS

  • No, you should turn him into the police.

    • How? I didn’t catch him doing the action. Just found saved photos and videos for random people. Also now all what matters to me is my daughter’s safety about anything else even mine.

    • Call the police and tell them that you just found that your husband has child porn on his laptop.

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