How do you know whether a guy thinks you're just average or if he thinks you're actually really pretty/sexy?

[nocturnalbaby]

I know I asked a similar question to this previously, but this one is slightly different.

I know that guys these days can be so desperate for sex that they will sleep with just about any woman. But I feel like they would choose someone that's at least average to them, if not really pretty or sexy. So I just wanted to know, is there much of a difference in the way a guy might treat you in bed if he thinks you're just average looking vs if he thinks you're actually really pretty or sexy? would he treat the pretty one a bit better than the average one? Or would he treat both an average & sexy girl the same?

[Anonymous]

It's so encouraging to hear what women really think of us lol (ie "desperate"). But I'm as "desperate" as they come but I'm not sleeping with anyone I'm not attracted to. So this is likely just YOUR insecurities. You can't gauge this on how he treats you because it's not 100% based on looks. Example if he's not interested in anything but sex, regardless of how attractive you are, then he might "treat" you like crap anyway? Just depend on the person and what they want. So just look at that solely, how he treats you, and don't use it to gauge your attractiveness.

[nocturnalbaby]

this is actually encouraging for me. you are right that it is definitely an insecurity of mine & I'm sensitive to any sort of behaviour from a guy that's negative & I very quickly take it as a way to interpret it as them not being attracted to me, but I guess as you said, I shouldn't base the way he treats me as a way to measure my attractiveness.

[Danny_dan92]

He’ll literally tell you at some point and in some way that he thinks you are as such

[MiamiMadness]

Does he try to cover your face?

[nocturnalbaby]

no. he often records me whilst we're fucking & looks at me a lot

[MiamiMadness]

If he’s recording you then he’s not trying to forget so I have good news

[Makeushiver]

If he gets a hard on while you are around assume that he thinks yiou're both pretty and sexy

[Yourfriend2021]

You're you should be careful, lots of men will try to get into your pants if you are average or pretty. But someone that really likes you and cares about you, you could tell they way they treats you over time, not just in bed.

[kellytheman]

I try to treat every girl I sleep with equally by going down on them and make sure they are totally sastified either if they are average or sexy and pretty. Some guys do go for average girls because they think have better chance to sleep with them and they might just want to get sex from you. There is some a**hole guys out there that are gonna use you and only get their pleasure. So to answer your question yes. But you must remember looks are not everything a guy looks for as long you are confident and how carry yourself the guy will think you are sexy and pretty.

[EaterPeter]

Yoy might be able to tell during sex or the way he sees you meets and greets you. Probably feels nervous around you. Try to look his best so awkwardly.