How much does it bother you that your potential or current boyfriend/girlfriend has had an extensive sexual past?

[Anonymous]

[InventorofWarp]

I mean if I lie and say that it doesn't matter to me then I wouldn't really be as honest as I want to be, right?
At the end of the day I chose to wait for the right girl even well into my 20s. No one forced me to do that and she certainly didn't ask me to do that. I mean, I probably haven't even met her yet or at least haven't started dating her or being exclusive to her. But I also can't say that it won't bother me to some degree that she'll have had all these lovers, physically and emotionally intimate, that she's spent years enjoying happy memories with and making love to and has been so desired by so many men before me.
When I think that way I like to think about how I also have never felt that pain of those relationships ending and those people doing things to me that I likely would've never wanted and I don't know how she lost her virginity. Maybe it was some bad or horrible way. Maybe she was abused, I don't know. But I managed to hold onto that sense of innocence for such a time that I get to experience it with someone so special who gets to give me the greatest experiences and happiest memories of my life.

So... yes. But only for a moment.
Also I've had other women before that I have had emotional relationships with and felt close to. Granted I don't really talk to any of them anymore barring one or two and one, the first, is even dead. So, I'll probably have to deal with her having previous exes that she maybe even still talks to whom she's fucked and she won't have to deal with that from me, but even she will have to deal with at least one or two exes from me, even if they aren't physical and she's the first and ideally only woman for me.

[Lliam]

It never bothered me at all as long as she hadn't been into one night stands and fucking strangers in bathrooms and alleys. I expect healthy women to have sexual experience.

I don't care how many relationships she had in the past or how many times she has been fucked. Most relationships don't last forever, especially when we are young.

I love women with strong libidos who aren't afraid to keep seeking their life partner though relationships in which they give their all and enjoy their sexuality. Just like hands and muscles, pussies are meant to be used. Women should enjoy what they were blessed with.

I never had one partner who was a virgin and I never gave one fuck about their body count as long as they were good girls with normal values based on my own, personal, assessment. In fact, I never had any interest in virgins.

[NicoletteXO]

Doesn't bother me at all. If I value him, every experience that has contributed to him being who he is should also be valued by me too.

[MorningStar69]

Turns me on. My ex would actually tell me about it while fucking me from time to time... He'd get so horny. I'd get the hottest sex.

[JohnHun88]

Oh Fuck Yes Turns me on a lot too. I would love to make that happen. love your tush by the way on your profile If you were my girl would do all the time much as you want 😘😍

[MTC29]

I would never ask, so how would I ever know?

When you start asking questions you're apt to get answers you don't like. Of course when that happens on GAG, people scream at you for telling them things that they didn't want to hear.

[bobalife]

Nah I’d thank his body count for knowing what to do under the sheets Lol

[OlderAndWiser]

At my age, either she's a virgin or she's got a sexual history.

[ChrisMaster69]

Not in the slightest, as mine is fucked up, however she’s very accepting of it and knew a lot before we started dating.

She likes the fact I am accepting of her more vanilla and don’t judge.

we are both happy that every time is often a new time for something.

[Bobsyoruncle]

That wouldn’t bother ME at all.

In fact, having been around the block A LOT of times, with plenty of different men, is the price of admission for playing house with me.

[Lowiu]

Not at all

[Smashingdoozy]

I'm greatful for it. Boy knows what he's doing thanks to the ladies before me. 🤤

[Ninani]

Everybody has a past, they'd be characterless without it.

[Ellie-V]

Not something I care about

[WowwGirl]

That's cool

[t-8900]

I'm able to convince myself of things I'd rather believe were true in these scenarios and leave it alone.

[Razp_Sorbet]

He hasn't so doesn't bother me

[JennBITx]

Would not bother me if they are honest

[Andres77]

As long as there's no STDs and she's ready to settle down... I didn't care.
My wife and I were both highly active.
We decided to settle down.
I was the one that needed therapy.
We've been good for 18+ years.

[little_rose]

Not at all. The past is the past.

[pink_and_inlove]

Define extensive?

[okeydoke]

It doesn’t bother me in the slightest.

[ChiPaPa]

I'd be all set.

[WowwGirl]

I don't ask don't want to know

[Andres77]

That's my kink... 🙄...😏...🤪

[WowwGirl]

@Andres77 sorry

[Andres77]

I'm not asking you... It's just that some don't want to know. Some might want to know generalities. Some might want details. I've been with my wife a long time so there's no new relationships to worry about.

[Juxtapose]

My girlfriend is a virgin but idgaf, sluts are hot too.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes it bothers me because I have read scientific research that claims that after a certain number of partners a man is incapable of being satisfied by one woman and is thus unfit for marriage.