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My catholic boyfriend told me if I got pregnant with him outside of wedlock he wanted nothing to do with me if I kept the child. Any thoughts?

My boyfriend and I never have sex, but we occasional do fingering. This last time he had fingered me after he just masturbate with the same hand. We took the plan B the same day, but I weigh more the weigh limit for effectiveness.

He told me if I got pregnant he want to abort the baby and I said I could never do that because the baby is human being. He then told me I have to give the baby up for adoption and I said that he is good thing to do as well. He told if I got pregnant and I kept the baby out of wedlock he will move on with his life because he can never marry someone who had a child out of wedlock, he will never be a father to the kid or pay any child support. He said his family will disown him and his church will outcast him. My boyfriend sounds like an a**hole and I should move on with my life. Any thoughts?
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  • It's your choice and who you with in life if that's what you want that's what you want personally if I was your boyfriend after I get done figuring you my tongue would be teasing you until you came all over the tip of it and then I drove you over on top of me I was just you up on my hips. I would put your hips deep down into me and my I would slide you in the slowest the motion forward and then back forward and then back so very very slow until you came all over my cock and then I grow you over on your back and I would stick the head of my cock right in between your pussy lips up a little bit higher right on your pelvic bone on your clit and I would slowly Rock You Back and Forth holding pressure on there and pushing down deeper and deeper pushing the tip of my toes into the mattress holding you so tight to the bed just holding you there pushing pressure and pressure police so tight reach my arms up underneath your armpits to your shoulders I would pull you into my chest and I pushed my hips into you so freaking deep I kiss your neck your lips and then I'd release that pressure and I did not tell you to come so I can just you come everywhere all over you Catholic boy a rude boy or just a boy who likes to turn you on

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  • I am Chrisitan, and I personally believe that having sex and getting pregant before marriage is not that bad, if you're sure that he/she is the men/women of your life and you want to spend the rest of your life with him/her (of course I may be wrong, it's just what I'm thinking). From the christian point of view, the best is to wait till marriage, but the clue is to be stable in your relationship, not to cheat on him/her. Christianity is about being emphatic and he seems to care about himself the most, not about you ( the most important for him is that "his family will disown him"). Also, it's quite funny that "he can never marry someone who had a child out of wedlock" because, well, you, as a woman, cannot have a child without your boyfriend, if he doesn't impregnate you. So there're also his actions, if he had sex with you, and let his sperm inside of your body. So it's also his child, not only yours. I believe he is quite immature, and he haven't grow to taking care about of other people as much, as about him, yet.

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  • If he doesn’t want a baby out of wedlock then he shouldn’t be doing anything sexual or he should be wearing protection pregnancy protection is 50/50 not just the girls responsibility it’s also the guys responsibility

    also the chances of falling pregnant from being fingered after he has masturbated is extremely slim

  • You need to find a new boyfriend period!!! Otherwise your both setting yourselves up for failure. And its totally unfair to a child to risk them growing up with/without a father (sperm donor) who admittedly warned you he would have nothing to do with you or child. Is it worth the instant gratification of an orgasm?

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  • That's awful. And hypocritical, too- you can't hold it against someone that they had a key outside of marriage if it's YOUR kid (well, maybe if they raped you, but then, that's a much bigger issue). Probably best to move on.

  • Yes time to move on. A guy who can't take responsibility of his own child could never be deemed to call as a man.

  • oh for fuck sake.
    you're fucking morons who don't get how sex works or reproduction.

  • This is not a boyfriend. This is an immature and heartless douchebag who doesn't deserve to be anywhere near your naked body. Dump him immediately.

  • I mean... He's actually kinda adhering to the values he's forced to live under, but he's totally being a dick and saying he's unwilling to take any responsibility if something goes wrong. This clearly spells out that he isn't mature enough to be having sex. He would throw you under the bus and take 0% responsibility but he still wants the sex. Nope... Not how it should work. Pregnancy is one of the risks of sex. If you ditch at the first sign of trouble, that's pretty childish and unmanly, but he isn't a complete douche; he was honest with you after all. What if he never told you and just ditched you when you got pregnant? He was honest and that's worth something.

    I'd tell him "thank you for your honesty, but there's no way I could agree to an arrangement where all the risk is on me and you'd take no responsibility for the consequences of your actions. Let's just be friends instead" and go find another guy.

  • Time to trade him in for one that has a mind of his own and is not bought in to the whole religion thing.

  • He can’t nibble on the pie without some consequence. He needs to grow up and either be more careful or put a ring on it

  • He's being self-contradictory.

  • He doesn't sound particularly Catholic expecting you to abort a baby, if it really isn't his choice bit to be financially responsible for a child he is the father of. Sounds like a real catch of a guy! Smh

  • Here's a thought don't have sex with him

  • Clearly u have shit taste in men lol

  • Tell him to wear a condom. If he information you, he doesn't get a vote. If you carry to term her will be liable for support. So you want a child? He doesn't sound like much of a prize.

  • Dump him today. There is no future in your non-relationship.

  • Well sounds like you two both have some really absurd beliefs though if you don't want to get pregnant just get on birth control or use condoms. I personally take forever to cum anyway and sometimes I don't finish but I still enjoy sex

  • A Catholic who demands that you abort his child if it's conceived out of wedlock.

    I guess it's not impossible, but I'm calling sus.

  • My opinion with what statements you made already about him, I would just move on there is someone better than him and it's sad that to think he would stoop so low to even want you to have an abortion or give the baby up for adoption is still so low I feel deep down he does not really love you if he did he wouldn't be saying all these things and I'm sorry your up against this with him :) (( Hugs )) <3

  • Your boyfriend is an arsehole and a hypocrite, which is probably why you have the tingles for him.
    Dump him.
    If he calls himself a Catholic, he should invest some time in reading Catholic doctrine, which prohibits both pre-marital sex and abortion.

  • He’s a jack catholic, catholic in title only. And a giant piece of shit loser, find yourself a man, not a whiny bitch boi.

  • Wow... a match made in heaven.
    You two are a couple of fakes.

  • He's religious, but is adamant about you needing an abortion. He doesn't make sense, sounds like a moron and an asshole. Why do you stick around?

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