My roommate came out to me as bisexaul?

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While I did not even really think about this girls sexuality as she has a pretty serious boyfriend. She came from an ultra conservative town where being hick and being republican was considered cool.

I do ultimately feel sorry for her as she is scared to tell her boyfriend and in her family. (My town was ACTUALLY NOT ultra conservative even though it was the "rich" town. We had a gay prom king. The hicks parked at the edge of the parking lot and people threw pencil sharpeners at them. You where either hipster, die hard preppy, jock or a nerd, the hicks where like lower than the nerds.)
She has told me that she is bisexual and has had feelings for both sexes. While I do honestly feel that I am also bisexual but hetero romantic (I have only had romantic feelings for asshole's with penis's. This is very complicated. I am not even attracted to her, she is probably NOT attracted to me. But I feel this is something I did not need to know... Any thoughts?

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

My first thought is - she doesn't have to tell her family anything about it, unless she starts dating a female seriously and wants them to know !! As to the boyfriend, he'll probably dig it. LOL

NorthwestRider · Accepted Answer

If being a hick and a Republican is what they think being cool is. I rather be uncool  It is the 21st century, it is not a big deal if someone comes out as gay or bi

kqueen · Answer

she probably just needs someone to talk to, since she's trying to figure things out and she can't talk to anyone from her hometown?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

It means she feels she trusts you, etc enough to open up to you.

it can be hard for someone bottling all this up and not being able to tell anyone.

More so in some 3rd world countries where not being straight is seen as an offence against god, society, parents etc.

Be happy and supportive with her.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

I guess I just do not understand this new definition of Conservatism. We were told repeatedly how supportive Trump was of the gay community.

So can a gay or bisexual person be an Ultra Conservative? Or not?

No one at GaG, which is supposedly majority trump Conservative, can explain this.

NathanDavis · Answer

it's best to know... then you can be more supportive and understanding with her

Pnp4unMe · Answer

That's cool they trusted you with that so did they do that to have sex with you? And did you? And my real question is how was it?

boggboss · Answer

Thoughts on what she wanted someone to tell so she told u lol

Cherry234 · Answer

She probably told you because she trusts you. She's afraid to tell her boyfriend and her family so that says a lot. Sometimes when people have dark secrets or they're embarrassed to admit certain things about themselves they'll tell people outside of their family or friends. There are certain things you shouldn't tell everyone for various reasons

rcljr · Answer

Nobody likes a leftist shit bag

Wise4myage · Answer

She felt relaxed enough to tell you but that doesn’t mean she wants to have sexual with you, but be prepared to say something if she hits on you.

Surely · Answer

She probably told you incase you figured it out on your own. So it wouldn’t shock you as much. Plus she needed a friend to talk to.

Sidfawy · Answer

If she didn't tell her boyfriend and telling you, so she can have feeling or she trust you coz you bisexual too by telling you she know that yiu know the feeling.

najekim · Answer

So you both have bisexual tendencies, no big deal and more power to you.

Minimati · Answer

What's the big deal?  Most girls are bisexual now anyway.  The odd thing would be if she came out as heterosexual

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