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I had sex with two different guys the same night?

Sooo I went out with this guy, he fucked me it was nice but I didn’t cum very well and he didn’t fuck very well. So that same night like 2 hours later I fucked this other guy and he fucked me hard and good, but the first guy was inquiring about it and I told him… he got insanely pissed off and told me to never talk to him again.. I used condoms and didn’t kiss or nun.. I don’t see the problem. This first guy told me to sleep with other people so I wassss, he said it was cuz it was the same night that it mattered, and sumn about sloppy seconds, I think it’s dumb af. Am I reallyyy the whore? Or is he just upset He Is not the only guy fucking me?
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  • Guy #1 is just jealous. It's not about it happening the same night, and besides, he's not the one that got sloppy seconds, so I don't know why he was complaining.

    I watched an R movies just like this. It was either on Netflix or Xfinity.

    The girl gets a notice on her hookup at, that a guy wants to meet her. About an hour later he's fucking her. He finishes and starts to get dressed. She said: "Aren't you going to go down on me so I can cum? He said: "Fuck no, are you crazy? I just met you an hour ago." LOL

    So she goes right back to the cafe where she started at. (I don't know how these apps work, but maybe you have to make it known that you're available.)

    Anyway, she gets another notification. He comes to the cafe and walks her around the corner to where he lived. (So this girl has this almost naive/innocent, brutally honest approach)
    Before she goes inside she said: "I just want you to know that I just fucked a guy about an hour ago, is that going to be a problem?" (The guy looks like a deer in headlights)

    The guy started to stammer something, but she cut him off and said: "I know this sounds weird, but he wouldn't go down on me, so I couldn't cum"

    The guy comes out of his trance and escorts her inside. They ended up living together, but it didn't work out in the end.

    • thats wild! would u ever do anythign like that?

    • That's a real woman she gets what she wants and doesn't let society tell her its wrong have you ever been disappointed with a guys performance and thought about seeing if any guy friends would come help you finish? Or would you just masturbate instead and tell yourself its the same thing? Or are you to innocent still to do all that?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe the first guy was more a passionate lover type, or just inexperienced... offended his ego. He didn't "man up" and learn a lesson and took it out his sadness by demeaning you.

    If you have a real partner with experience, they should get you taken care of first... which is sex and love and care. Why not get a committed partner?

    are you saying you wouldn't have done #2 if he hadn't given permission? I think you would have anyways... thats BS justification. Or do you do what others command you to do?

    Doubt the 2nd guy gives an F about you, he's just exercising a hole and gratifying himself, which is why it feels good. Especially true if he finds out you were with someone else before.

    All of the above... abstracted and rationaled, makes me think your self worth is on the low side and needs repairing before continuing forward in this pursuit of?

    It's all good and fun and games... until the tests come back... covid, pregnancy, sex disease. Nothing is 100% safe. Then it's a social/econonmic/emotional/medical mess... you will own it all.

    If you want my real answer it's this... do some work to figure out why you are out Fing random guys vs getting a committed mate. I know you are horny, checkmark. That other girls do that, ok so what... that's them. Do so before you do damage to your life.

    I'm sure I'll get hate for living in the mesozoic era of relationships. #sucksbeinganadult #savethehumanrace #safethecountry

  • The pragmatic issue here is the 'kiss and tell' aspect... WHAT made you THINK any male wouldn't feel offended? If your disclosure was to motivate him to do/be better, you screwed up?

    How would YOU respond if the situation were reversed?
    That he'd bragged that after he'd nutted you... instead of going 'seconds' WITH You... he CHOSE to have another date that evening to nut someone else?

    If you NEVER committed to exclusivity to one another... he had NO right to such expectations BUT...
    as easily you COULD have suggested styles and techniques you'd experienced ELSEWHERE without giving footnotes & references! '... Use Diplomacy' woman!

    • He was really inquiring about it, he told me to sleep with other people and he loves when people are honest I honestly didn’t think he would care, and tbh I wouldn’t have cared, we are not exclusive ya know let’s get fucked lol

Most Helpful Girl

  • He is upset for no reason so just ignore him darling... fucking 2 guys in a night isn't that big a deal

    • Personally I limit myself to one partner a night. But lot of guys, and especially women, feel the need for more than one fuck in a night, and if the first did not do the trick, you find another.

    • @Red_Arrow well if the first wasn't good then i guess we deserve to have another

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  • That is kind of a whoreish move especially because you are putting them both at risk of STDs because of your selfishness

    • She could have separated them by a week, and the risk of STDs is the same.

    • @red_arrow yes but it’s a bigger risk doing it within a day

    • How is it bigger. If you get an STD it does not just disappear within a week.

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  • He’s obviously an asshole. You’re not a whore, you’re just someone who is comfortable with your sexuality.

  • Fucking 2 guys a few hours apart was just an average Friday evening warm-up for my first wife.

  • i did this once

    • Only once? Did it bother that you did it?

    • @Red_Arrow no it was a fluke and i couldn't get out of it other than just doing it with both

    • But I think you enjoyed it.

  • No, you're not a whore at all; you're simply an assertive woman who isn't afraid to pursue her own pleasure and satisfaction.

  • You need to find your life purpose and true calling.

  • I see no problem.

  • As long as you weren't in a relationship with either one of them there's nothing wrong with that I've hit 4 5 and 6 girls up in one night when I was single just be sure to wash between customers so to speak

  • Forget it. It happens more than you think. He was pissed because HE had not fucked two different women.
    I had two women I had fucked, and a lady 'friend' said "You should fuck 'em both, my girlfriends fuck more than one guy' One lived here in CA and other in Ohio and she traveled back and forth, and I'm sure a guy in Ohio was fucking her too, although she never admitted it.

    Fuck who you want, but protect yourself, from STD's When you get older, you will regret it if you DON'T fuck several different men. Life is too short to agonize over that kind of 'nothing'
    Enjoy your sex drive. Noting is forever ! .

  • If you're in a relationship with the first guy and you didn't even talk with him and see how he felt first then you're just a POS. But if you are just fucking around or he's just one of your dick calls then there isn't really an issue. This is why I tell people if they are gonna have fuck buddies you need to know the mindset of the person. if you are/were a romantic interest to him I've been there and that fucking hurts so bad. But I was strung along by the girls telling me they loved me a shit and that was the real issue. Dont fuck with people's heads and emotions and no harm/no foul.

    • @nicolettexo am I wrong in feeling this way? Considering the topic earlier

    • We talked about it, he told me to sleep with other people, that he doesn’t have me exclusively, i even made it very clear I just wanted to hook up so I don't know what his prob is

    • then he's insecure af. Was he just small? Or was his game just really bad?

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  • Probably that he's not got exclusive rights to your pussy. If neither guy fucked you without a rubber, there can't BE sloppy seconds!! You weren't sloppy in the first place and, even if guy 1 fucked you without a rubber and came in you, it's guy 2 that''d have the sloppy seconds!! So, what's guy 1 so cheesed off about?

  • If is upset that..
    He realized.. He failed to sexually satisfy you..
    And you went to another men the same night... For sex..

    That is emasculating...
    Just tell him..
    For men sexual pleasure is physical..
    For women it's psychological... And his techniques were good..

    It's just you were not in psychological state to Cum when he was fucking you.. And you were in psychological state to Cum when you were with the other guy..

  • I had sex with two different women in a several hours span of a day before, personally it's easier not to kiss and tell unless it's an ethical non-monogamous relationship kind of ordeal. Prevents things like that guy being weird. As long as you are being safe, you can sleep with how many you want.

  • Lmfao you really love dick. Congratulations

  • Gross.

  • you're in the zone. start making plans from what happens in the next few years.

    • Did you enjoy it? My wife did that a lot in college. She said she felt powerful. Especially if the second guy went down on her.

    • He did and I felt like a fucking god omg 😆

    • 👏👏👏

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  • He is just insecure he knew you didn't enjoy him enough to finish and it hurt his ego that you would fuck another guy right after just to get your nut so sad honestly i would love to have you as my girlfriend i think its hot af that you know what you deserve and are willing to go get it i would gladly call my friends over to help you finish if i wasn't good enough hell even if you did finish i still wouldn't mind sharing you everynight if you can handle it would you ever consider a relationship like that? Be honest

    • I would thriveeeeee in that sort of relationship, lol if u watched me get fucked while I sucked u or played with uuu even if u just watched and touched urselffff I’d love love loveee it

    • Oh i want all of it I'd love to have me and some guys taking turns filling you up have you ever looked into ddlg relationships?

  • I know a girl who was in an open sex relationship and one day, fucked 5 guys in one night.

  • Yhea and no but too have sex with two men that close apart and then tell him you did. You put all three of you at risk. Physically and emotionally.

  • slut alert

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