Do girls tend to worry if their guy is attracted to them?

Especially due to porn
Sometimes but no big deal
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A lot of the time we do
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It's rare but it happens
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Not at all
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Dont look at porn if you're in a committed relationship. Common sense. Doing so is like setting ant poison on an anthill
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  • Yes, porn and media in general has foisted unrealistic expectations of beauty standards, and what women enjoy! I mean just like not all men enjoy the same exact stuff during sex, obviously neither do we! But knowing that doesn’t mean that we don’t suffer with wondering if we are REALLY attractive to our partner! I think a great metaphor for this is cock size!
    Guys in porn always have above average size penises, and the questions like “what size is big enough” or “I’m X Inches long, is that okay, or is this TOO small?” Men can be SO convinced that we only want HUGE cocks, that more than one guy I’ve dated, has told me he’s waiting for marriage. Now one of those guys was truly doing it because he was very religious, and that showed in his wonderful demeanor. But another guy didn’t act even remotely like a Christian, and it caused me to be very confused. Eventually he admitted that he knew his penis was too small and no woman would want him if we knew that is penis was ONLY 5.5 inches! I informed him that 5.5 inches was ABOVE average, and that actually the average penis size in adults is 5.2 inches! I actually giggled as I asked “why would you think that was not only small, but SO small no woman would ever want you?” He replied “Because in porn…”. I was horrified that this poor guy had had many opportunities to loose his virginity, but was afraid to be rejected because of his unrealistic body image!
    Well, we women worry about all that kind of stuff, along with our weight, our breasts, our complexion… SO many things! So yes!

    • 5.5 in is small doesn't matter if its above avg

    • Just like 105 iq is still dumb. 5ft9.5in still shortish.

    • 5. ft 9ish is not short to me a girl who is 5’1(ish) but very close to 5’2 so I just say I’m that!

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  • The same holds true for both genders.

    18 to say 25, hitting the gym, working out etc, a guy looks great, now he has to keep that way to 40 and beyond.

    From social media, it’s well know that every guy is ripped with a six pack and 8 inch cock and is making over $200k a month.

    This pretty much means guys will worry, have concerns on how they look compared to other guys who have the above and what they have. I’ve seen guys put their marriage at risk simply from trying to keep with the usual online ‘What watch do you wear’ bollox, where everyone has at least a $10k watch…. So this person then squanders cash to get a watch that in reality no one has.

    back to women, yeah they also have concerns, husband working away a lot, she’s getting on in age, boobs drooping, etc, partner out with mates to the pub a lot or sports etc. he mentions some new girl at work, or wants to try something that he’s never tried in 5-10 years of the relationship.

    there are a 1001 reasons a woman will start to feel insecure, just look at TV and movies, advertising etc its all predominantly well above average type girls. Then you have things like them having friends where one or both partners have cheated. It all builds up.
    i would say Porn is the least of the concerns, social media as a whole is more damaging. People can accept that porn is fake easier, however Instagram accounts, places such as GaG where guys post 8inch or go home, with corresponding huge number of stunning girls in how do I look etc. this builds on insecurities with both genders.
    Then you have the entire media & marketing pushing how a girl must look, how this changes every few years.

    As humans we suck on what we do to each other and our in built insecurities.

  • I think you're asking the wrong gender you should be asking them that. If a man is his girlfriend his wife's best friend if there's trust and respect and true love didn't know I don't think so. Every girl that I've ever been with knows that I am with them and the reason why she knows that I'm with them because I proved it with everything that I do each and every day if you do something stupid and you put that little thought into their head and of course they're going to if they're not confident of course they're going to but when you're in a relationship there such a tight bond that there's no reason for that

Most Helpful Girl

  • i remember riding with this guy trying to find a place to give a blowjob and i'm thinking he doesn't like me because he's not talking to me... then he pulls over and says okay go head suck... then he cums... then he says keep sucking cums again... so i figure he likes me

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yup, indeedy.

  • I know for a fact that my boyfriend is attracted to me, I don’t worry about it lol

  • all the time if it's a guy we like

  • He's with me I assume he's attracted to me

  • Not in my experience

  • I honestly couldnt tell you. I think they think about this more if another attractive woman is around and maybe interested in their man... if they chose poorly on the man I suppose.

  • I don’t but I think some girls do

  • I had an ex that got all hot and bothered when she when she watched porn, but that really isn't the question.
    I don't remember actively seeking out someone because I watched porn, but just like guys women can have the same insecurities about their partner.

  • Nopes

  • I like him then yeah

  • I'm married and i still worry lol

  • Yes.. and then they bury their faces in their little smut books and pretend it's not the exact same thing.

    We all have our outside ways of getting off. Whatever.

  • Of course we do

  • I really, really don't understand this question?

  • I dunno

  • Porn is fake. My girlfriend is real. Granted I can have fun with porn now and not my girlfriend, but that's hardly her fault. For me I've always been able to separate the two. That's probably why I prefer porn that would revolt me if it was real in my life. It's the ultimate escapism.

  • Probably. The ones with small heads regularly cross their own wires 🤷‍♂️

  • I doubt it

  • Of course they would

  • Nope, not at all. I couldn't care less what others thought of my physical appearance!

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