Fantasy/sex/fetish ideas?

[Idkanything55528]

I want to try more & be more spontaneous with my boyfriend, but I'm not sure where to start. Any ideas?

[convo_king89]

roleplay is great, but you got to experiment even if it’s something you stumble on by accident.

Me personally I’m into the everyday random situation turn 180 and become sexual. The schoolgirl theme, office employee, or in the grocery store shopping does it for me. Having the shy schoolgirl studying at her desk and wearing jeans and t shirt, but she still wears granny panties. While sitting at the desk her jeans sag in back exposing her underwear. As a fellow classmate/teacher I see her hanes cotton panties and I get turned on. The shy shelters girl dosent think about if her undies are showing nor if their fashionable. I make my way over there, and introduce my self. I compliment her on her outfit, she noticed “something” pokeing in my pants and asks. I say sorry, I’m a little excited. She ask what do you mean I don’t get it, I say well feel it. She asks what’s that, I say I’m turned on seeing you and thinking about you. She says thanks. I feel her outfit and say it looks nice. I feel her shirt over her tits and her jeans over her ass. She realizes my hand went on her panties that was sticking out. She gets embarrassed jumps back and pulls her shirt down. I ask what’s wrong. My underwear was showing and I panicked. I say don’t worry about it, she turns around and lifts up her shirt in the back, now I see her undies close up. I say cute undies, she says thanks, their Hanes my mom gets em. Still her back to me, I unbutton her pants. And her jeans fall to the ground, I grab her waist, and turn her around. She blushing with embarrassment, as this is the first time a man as seen her in her panties. I look down she has these big white cotton panties on, that come up to her waist and has these really thick seams. I say cute panties with a smile and a wink. She says thanks these are Hanes briefs.. i can see her vagina is getting wet through her panties, I pull her panties to side and she is real wet. I say it looks like want something. She says like what, I whip out my cock, that is what you felt poking out and my cock goes inside of her wet vagina. She moans and almost instantly cums..

[abc3643]

Almost certainly, each of you already has a fetish or fantasy or kink.

So, ask yourself this question:
1. When I am alone, what scenarios go through my mind when I masturbate?
Ask him an almost identical question:
2. When you are alone, what scenarios go through your mind when you masturbate?

Why are these questions important?

First, masturbation is usually a very private, free, and selfish act in which we can give ourselves exactly what we want. So, knowing what we freely give ourselves without fear of judgment or constraints from others, we reveal to ourselves our true selves.

Second, once you know what fantasies or scenarios each other masturbates to, ideally, you can find a common ground for a fantasy that should be exciting to both of you. Then, in the bedroom, do what you can to make that common fantasy come alive.

[Idkanything55528]

Wwwell I know a big one is lesbians for him. But there's nothing i can do with that. he's stubborn and never wants to admit anything

[Anonymous]

I watch porn with my boyfriend and watch all types. I keep and eye out and see what makes him hard, and then i talk to him about it.

[abc3643]

Yes, this is smart. I've basically recommended this type of strategy before to learn about the partner - watch how they respond to things without directly interrogating them because their responses will reveal their true selves.

[Opinion Owner]

@abc3643 The head can lie, the heart can lie, but that stupid fucking traitor of a hard dick is you worst enemy. LOL Your dick hates your guts! And in return, it's pretty hard for a girl to explain how much she despised that scene, when her wet panties tell a different story. LOL There are certain times in life when talking is hugely overrated. I see all the time on this site where either a girl or a guy asks "how can I tell my friend I want to have sex with them? " You DON"T fucking tell them. You hint, tease, smile, throw in some innuendos, and let nature take it's course.

[loves2learn]

Tell him you want him to take control and do to you whatever he wants. I personally find that very sexy.

[Markm3212]

if he won't tell you what he wants, as stated in another response, then start simple, try dressing up for him, you can go slutty school girl look (easy and cheap to do), get soem racy underware e. g. crutchless, body stockings etc or go errotic. maybe try some cheap toys, you could get a vibrator and tell him to pleasure you, you could get some handcuffs and handcuff yourself to the bed and call him up and get him to do what he wants (this way you will know what he likes). or simply just start a bit of role play, be the helpless damsel in distress and need rescuing etc. try some outdoor more risky stuff, go for a walk and when you are alone have sex etc.

[sugarboyy]

the sink of a restaurant where you eat is the ideal place, i did it is very exciting

[Anonymous]

let him walk in with you waiting in a cat outfit, naked except fot the ears tail and makeup

[Anonymous]

I personally have the fantasy of MMF threesome

[Anonymous]

Fisting

[Anonymous]

Bend over let him tie your hands, use spreader pull your hair while thrusting 🤙😎 you will turn him to a beast
@loves2learn

[loves2learn]

Damnnnn.