Girls are physically able to have sex when they're 12, 13, 14, 15, when should they?

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  • Whenever they want to. Why waste time in experiencing what life has to offer? They just need to be sure they are on some kind of birth control like the pill and be cautious about who they have sex with to insure that they don't catch an STD.

    When I was in 7th and 8th grade, there were girls who had boyfriends in high school. They were learning what their bodies were for and walked with newfound womanly confidence.
    My first girlfriend was 15 when I was 16.

    I can't imaging anyone who is old looking back and wishing they hadn't had lots of amazing sex when they were in their prime.

    The only thing I wouldn't recommend is one night stands and gratuitous sex with strangers. I don't think it's healthy or wholesome to be a mere cum dump. It seems kind of self destructive, like being a substance addict.

    I always preferred sex within relationships with girlfriends. I found it way more gratifying when the two of us were infatuated and couldn't get enough of each other. We learned about sex and relationships. It didn't matter if the relationships didn't last. That's part of gaining maturity, life experience and growing up.

    I was surprised to read about studies that found that women between 27 and 45 are at their sexual peak. It strikes me that, by then, they've had lots of experience and know what they are doing. They know what they like and what they need.

    • I appreciate the MHO, Rachel. I hope my answer was helpful.

  • If you mean legally, you should go by the laws of the state you are in. And NEVER take someone across state lines to have sex if either of you is too young in either state.
    If you mean gased on things other than laws, there are many things that happen when one has sex. Pregnancy is a possibility. Be prepared for that. Be emotionally mature enough to handle whatever comes up. This is the one most young people fail on. Realize your relationship cqan cause effects in your life choices like education, employment, military, etc.
    I would say that people are not fully prepared to take on all those things till they are at least 16, and many are not ready then.

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  • some start at 13 a lot more a little older 15-16... somewhere in that pocket

    • When did you start?

    • @Justaguy30 i was 13

    • @chrissykerdock are you happy you started that early or do you wish you had waited?

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  • 16 at the earliest for intercourse

    • This goes for all genders

    • Thanks 😊

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  • People will do what they want but i think 18-21 is the best age to have sex. Plus if you get pregnant, at least you're not in HS

    • What is HS?

    • @Riadsh high school

  • I wouldn't panic if my future daughter had sex at 15, but I would recommend her to postpone that to her early twenties and not succumb to any peer pressure to start early.

    • she will tell you when she starts having sex.

  • No one person is the same, so everyone will be different, it's going to be when they truly understand what it is they are getting themselves into and feel ready to share that with someone.

  • Whenever they want.

  • I was 14

    • @paige90 I was 13 my first time. I started masturbating when I was 10

    • Isn’t it early?

    • @Beautiful_loser30 not really. I am just honest

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  • Are you asking why they should? Or when they could? WAY different answers for these. .. COULD have it at ANY age. should wait til it's appropriate and meaningful. Nobody wants to wear a wedding dress over a tramp stamp...

    • well the question says when so

  • When they are mature enough to do it responsibly --- meaning they are on birth control and their partner is mature enough to use a condom. For some that could be 15. For others it could be 25.

  • I would say 16 of the earliest, I don't understand what the rush is. I've seen girls on here say that they just want to get it over with, to lose their virginity. It's not a race. I'm the only virgin out of all of my friends. If you're going to do it, make it memorable. Something you can look back on fondly with someone you really care about.

  • AFTER high school.
    When married wouldn't hurt.

  • Nobody should have sex until them and/or their partner is capable of raising a possible child from pregnancy.

  • Round-about- answer to your question. Recently read in OC Register of a swimming coach in Stockton, Ca, Northern CA, being charged for having sex with one of his 12 -13 year old students. Have read of girls having sex younger - as young as 10. We know that HS girls have sex in their early teens with other teens, and they seem to get away with it as many did in my HS class, or some were pregnant.
    With all that up front, I see AOC in many states is 16, but girls that age still not capable of making a good decision about having sex at that age.
    No matter what we say, or the law states, it seems that early teens are going to be fucking whether society says it is 'okay' or not.
    The line blurs, about 'when' they should.

  • There is only one answer - when they feel they are ready. That's it. I know girls and have had sex with girls when they were 14, 16, 20, 22, and I know girls who had sex when they were 14, 16, 20, 22, and I know some who didn't until 25, but that's their decision.

    If you ask me, before 18-20 is probably not best, but that's not reality, and realistically humans breeded for thousands of years around 14-20, especially since we only lived to be 40-50 until the past 100 years.

  • When they are comfortable with their own body and feel ready to share it with someone.

  • Whenever they feel they're ready for it but, hopefully, they'll know quite well what the consequences (pregnancy, disease) will be before hand!

  • When they are ready. Hint: not 15.

  • I had my first sex at 15

  • When they hit age of consent, the worlds gone crazy with laws and rules.

  • I knew girls in HS that were having sex at 15 but thats not legal in most places or a good idea

    • what age did u start?

    • @MarkyMark77 22 lol

    • Did you masturbate a lot before you finally lost it at 22?

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  • If there's grass, there's mach.

  • "should"?
    When they can manage the consequences of their actions.
    Guys get off too easy here.

    It's a conversation that I've had with my two adolescent girls. You want to do adult things but you can't handle paying the adult price for your actions... unless you get the government to pay the price for you without notifying your parents (which is illegal as fuq!).

    So when little girls want to be women... they SHOULD wait until they're capable of paying the "woman" price. And the guy should be held to account as well.

    But then there's pills and condoms... and a roll of the dice.

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