Anal sex but my interest in it is fading/declining?

Is it normal my interest in heterosexual anal sex is declining and I'm only 27 1/2 years old?

Only discovered it on PornHub when I was 18 or so and to add to the mystery: I'm still a 100 percent virgin.

Really I am.
Yes (explained)
Vote A
That's strange (explain)
Vote B
Other explaining, please
Vote C
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
0 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • Interest in sex in general fades with age. Anal, for all the apparant simplicity in porn, is actually pretty involved in real life (unless of course the girl has a lot of experience, which is sadly rare). Pussy is so much less complicated if you just want to have some quick and simple mutual fun. I find, however, the longer I go without sex the more my thoughts and desires turn towards anal. I suspect this is because the hornier i get the less "quick and simple" sound satisfying.

    • Thank god for you and your wisdom bro. I needed you today 🙏🙏👍👍 and your provided ,🥳🥳

    • *you provided *wisdom 🙏🙏 thanks

  • If you just watching it then yes I can understand why you'd become bored of it, if it were something you were actually doing then it's not something you become bored of, even now at 45 I'm still not bored of it. Watching and doing are 2 very different things.

    • Hmm but what if the same woman or life partner? 🧐🧐 I'd wonder.

    • Well yes, sex can become boring with the same person over time, but couples have to work at relationships to keep them fresh and change things up to keep it exciting. Luckily I'm not in a long term relationship at the moment and have different partners so it's still good.

    • Hence you're able to keep enjoying at 45. Not to be rude. But I get it. Many thanks for the kindness ,👍

    • Show All

Most Helpful Girls

  • a lot of straight men don’t like anal and say it doesn’t feel as good because it’s not all tight and cushiony like the vagina which grips the entire shaft. The only part of the anus that grips it is the opening whereas once you’re in there it’s just a hollow space. It doesn’t tightly wrap around the whole shaft and it doesn’t pulsate and tighten up when we climax. When women climax the vagina tightens and that feels very pleasurable for men.

    • I'm very grateful for your answer Sarah. However can I merely suggest to you some guys elsewhere have suggested the anus or rectum is actually really tight. The whole way through during. You're not wrong about the differences of vaginal versus anal however: maybe some women just have different muscle feels than other women. Like shallow vagina versus the opposite of a shallow vaginal canal. True? Ah well. 🤗🤗

    • Yes everyone’s anatomy is different. All vaginas are not created equal and some are definitely tighter. It depends on genetics. Vagina is made of collagen like the skin. Some people age very quickly and similarly some people’s vaginas get loose very early. Some women are tight as hell even after a couple of kids whereas others get loose after a few fucks.

    • Cool. So with the anal, with that in mind, anything to add or reflect on? Please 🧐

    • Show All
  • Normal. Its basically only over hyped from porn anyway.

    • Any reason why it gets boring you think even just in my head? I sort of know that yes the vagina is the natural sex organ if I can put it that way but... I dunno... maybe even the vagina gets boring I mean how many times can a man put it in there before it just seems like... meh... or blah... what are your thoughts or advice or anything you can add personally? Lol 😁

    • Like no matter how many times if it's doggy style or missionary style... just seems like eventually I even surprise myself by being that guy at 27 or 28 or even 29 to be unlike 20 year old men and just saying..."nah don't feel like sex" barely hahaha 😃😈😅

    • *20 year old *me not men. Whoops.

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

3 1
  • Not normal. Maybe find someone to talk to.

    • Explain? 😄

  • Anal sex can give girls and guys an orgasm by taking it up there, so it's something that can be erotic and fun for both guys and girls.

  • yes.. any sexual preference/like/fantasy can change over time.. 10 years is surely enough to go from one end to the other.

    • Should I just go back to vaginal haha, maybe I'll split the next 20 years between half for missionary and then half for doggy or vice versa until bored again hahaha thoughts or nah? 😅😅😅

    • just do what you feel like.. explore be curious.. enjoy.. don't think too much, personally that is how I get the best sex ;p

    • Have a good day 👍

  • Normal, especially since you’ve never tried it so you wouldn’t know if you’d actually like it or not

    • Oh I'm sure I'd like it anonymous but I just mean I feel like I'd surprisingly get bored of not just anal but even real sex you know... maybe my hormones are changing as I'm almost 30. Lol. 3 more years haha. What about you, did you ever lose interest in anal or vaginal sex in your mid or later 20s? As a woman? Or any man the same thing? What was once every day became every second and barely once a week 😃😯

    • *second day*

    • Nope I never got bored bcs I like to switch things up with my boyfriend and we both have very high libido so it all works out

    • Show All