Do you think it's impossible for a woman to be an incel? Only a guy, man, human male, can be an incel?

That's what it seems like, that's what the media and society make it out to be, that it's only guys, men, who can be an incel, or is it possible for a girl, a woman to be an incel as well?
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Just a strong guess of mine, but I highly doubt there will ever be a female version of Elliot Rodger
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  • Had never heard the word until I joined this toxic swap.

    when I mentioned it to friends they through it was hysterical and fucking stupid really.

    then we had the murders by an incel fuckwit in the UK and it became all to real how really nasty these people actually are.

    You get female incels.

    wiki link covers them and also Male Incel Terrorism,

    At least eight mass murders, resulting in a total of 61 deaths, have been committed since 2014 by men who have either self-identified as incels or who had mentioned incel-related names and writings in their private writings or Internet postings.…

    rather telling that I guess.

    out of idle curiosity, how many mass shootings have been down to a woman (not working with a guy) as a lone mass shooter?

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  • With what incel means now, yes. Unless a woman is homosexual and hates women for not dating her. That's what it is now. Men who hate women because they aren't getting dates.

    • So you mean impossible for a straight woman to be an incel?

    • Now, yes. When it started, no. When it began it was just people who weren't able to get relationships and didn't really choose it. Now it's woman hating singmen.

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  • A woman can be an incel. Have you ever seen those shows like my 200 pound life? Like, if you can't get out of a chair... I mean...

    • One need not be overweight to be a female incel. In the cases that I know, most of them are not overweight. They have offputting faces. I've not seen My 200 pound life. My friend's girlfriend is about 200 pounds. She's tallish but overweight. Nevertheless she's fairly active! As for her body, I don't think she's attractive but my friend does. She does have a very beautiful face and she's quite stylish. I'm curious what you advise female incels who are that way simply because of the bone structure of their faces being unattractive.

    • @Bluemax I mean... are we talking like genuine facial deformity? Because let's be honest, there are some VERY ugly dudes around who would be grateful to have sex with almost anyone. So if her body is not hideous, she literally would have to have a fairly deformed face for it to prevent any man from wanting to have sex with her ever. I mean... probably if it truly is that severe, I would advise facial surgery.

    • Let's just say unattractive. One doesn't need a facial deformity to be unattractive. I generally don't consider advising anyone to have sex with someone they find ugly to be a viable solution. I have found such advice is rather poorly thought through. Contrary to many people's beliefs, ugly people do not find other ugly people attractive any more than the rest of us. And most people can't control who they find unattractive, including ugly people. Having heard how many people describe sex with someone they find unattractive as anywhere ranging from "meh" to "awful," I am inclined to think that sex with someone you're repelled by is not a good idea. Surgery works only in some cases, and in others it winds up making them worse, or requires expensive touch ups. Most twentysomethings don't have that kind of disposable income anyways. Frankly, I'm stymied, as is my brother who counsels the disabled. 😕

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  • noone is an incel, if you had zero standards youd find someone in no time

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  • Certainly. I personally know some.

  • Girls can be incels too.

  • Of course women can be incels. They're known as feminists.

    • Nah, feminists probably end up in kinky BDSM things with dudes who want to be dominated. They wouldn't need to be incels.

    • @NicoletteXO No dude wants to do anything sexual with a feminist. They are ugly inside and out. Very undesirable.

    • I think it depends on what kind of feminist. Though yes, sadly, a vast majority of people who identify strongly as 'feminists' are not that attractive. I also don't think they represent women very well either, which is ironic. It's like basically they hate men, but also want to be men. Kind of like MtoF trans women but in reverse and with blue or green hair.

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  • Anything is possible. But I never even heard the word "incel" until I joined this freak show.

  • There's definitely some angry, bitter and desperate women on gag.
    I see them complaining that they're never going to have a boyfriend or find love because of their weight or appearance. They claim that all men are too shallow.
    They don't get called incels, they usually get coddled by everyone because they're women.

    • Really? I've literally never seen this here! Can you send me a link? All I've seen is a shitload of complaining men, and maybe one or two chicks with a bad attitude. Am I looking at different parts of the site to you?

    • by the way I don't think anyone is shallow simply because they're not super motivated to be with a person who is grossly overweight...

    • @NicoletteXO I've talked to quite a few women here over the years who have been quite hostile about feeling rejected. I've actually had deep conversations with them about the reality of physical attraction and how both men and women require it, along with an emotional connection in order to have a romantic relationship. I don't have links for you because I don't keep the same account forever, and those angry female incels are about as important to me as the angry male ones are to you. I read her complaints, I see everyone tell her that she just hasn't found the right one yet. I smirk because if she was male they would tell her that she not entitled to a boyfriend, she should better herself first.

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