How do real bisexual people behave with their attractions? Can you explain please? 😁
I agree bisexuality is very real and doing that is not attractive at all.
Like is it possible that some people pretend to be bisexual to fit into the LGBTQ+ community when in reality they do it for attention and validation? Like for example, not dating the same gender but continuing to date the opposite gender?
I think a lot do that, yes, but only because guys seem to like them - it's is probably the threesome mentality.
It’s actually really annoying for bisexuals like me who really want to date the same gender and other genders. I hate being fetishized and if my partner did happen to be the opposite gender, then I would make sure that he accepts me for who I am, takes my sexuality seriously, doesn’t ask for threesomes and doesn’t fetishize me period.
Whenever people do that who claim to be bisexual, it really makes me feel invalidated badly even within my own community.
You understand where I’m coming from, right? 😁
No one likes posers.
That’s right! Bisexuality is a real and valid identity that people need to start taking seriously.
What do they do and why do they do it? Please elaborate! 😊
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Yeah, that’s true I guess. A guy is usually seen as gay if he comes out as bisexual. 🤦🏽♀️
So you mean they fake by just kissing the same gender? When it comes to dating the same gender, why do they seem to run away from that idea?
because they might not be attracted to the same gender
In my honest opinion, if they would run away from dating the same gender whilst also fooling around, then I don’t really think that they’re truly bisexual.
Can you please elaborate on how they usually fake it?
I mean you're not really homosexual/bisexual (you're not born with it), you only think you are, because many of your friends are homo/bi and you want not to differ. People adjust to different roles, if you made a very nice and kind person a prison officer, he would become very strict and adamant, because he subconsciously wants to fit in the role.
But for real bisexuals/homosexuals it’s not a choice. You don’t choose who you’re attracted to. But I agree with you there!
Yeah, of course there are people who are homosexual, because they were born with it, I do not deny. But some are only because of the pressure of their community.
I genuinely think that a true bisexual person doesn’t just mess around with the same gender or similar genders. They are open to dating any gender, but they may or may not have a preference. Agree? 😊
I don't know, as I'm hetero, but if you say that "they are open to dating any gender" then I believe you. I'm not homophobic, I believe people shouldn't be punished just for prefering the same gender. But I know there are cases, where people start to think they are homo/bi due to the pressure of the community (I do not talk about people who are born homo/bi).
If I may ask: are you bisexual, or do you talk in general? Just curious.
I am out as a bisexual with a preference for women. I have been in denial for a long time. I came out as bisexual since the start of this year. In my honest opinion, I don’t think that someone is truly bisexual if they only fool around with other people and not have any feelings for them. Just my honest opinion. 😊
Nice to meet you. :)
Nice to meet you too! 😁
I strongly agree with that. How do people act when they fake their bisexuality?
I've not knowingly seen anyone fake their bisexuality so I don't really know for sure, but for a girl she'd just need to act it. For a guy you can't fake an erection if you are turned off. So for a guy to get an erection with another guy he'd have to at least be attracted to him.
For a girl, would kissing alone indicate that she is bisexual? Because I think that’s there’s more to it than just kissing girls in front of guys.
No I don't think girls kissing eachother is an indicator of bisexuality.
Like, for example, making out. To me it’s more serious than that. It needs to involve both a relationship and being sexually attracted to a similar gender as you as well as other genders.
I think that if you wouldn’t date the same gender as you or be sexually involved with them, then you are not bisexual.
Especially if it’s a pattern of dating the opposite gender.
Agreed, there has to be a degree of romantic involvement, just fooling around a bit doesn't really cut it as bisexual.
That’s what I always thought. Why do some people think that fooling around means that someone is bisexual. What about the dopamine? All the feelings?
Everyone has a different idea of sexuality, that's why these days people are starting to drop labels as there aren't always clear lines between straight bi and gay.
In my honest opinion, bisexuals would have a relationship with any gender. They can also have preferences.
When it comes to dating the same gender, why do they seem to run away from that idea though?
People cannot hide what shit? What did she do?
She made out with a girl right in front of me
To be fair it was probably because she knew you would like it 😬
We talked about it before… I don't know. I did for a second thought I was gonna like it.But once it happened it turned out to be hurtful. Given all the facts
Yes it would be hurtful, I’d imagine.
I thought it would be hot. But then I see the girl I say “I love you” too kissing a girl. And it fucked me up. Given that she is bi
Believe me that shit is annoying for real bisexual women rather than sexy. 😂
But do you ever see yourself falling in love with a similar gender to you.
No I think love and sex are 2 different things. Maybe if i was having sex with another guy every day I might have feelings though. But I'm attracted to cute girls and love pussy.
There’s nothing wrong with being in a relationship with a guy either. 😊
Maybe if it was a couple but I love cute girl's face and body, with a guy it's just for erotic fun, and doing what a girl does with a cock.
I see. Fair enough.
How about you? Would you have a relationship with either gender? I just like a cute girl to love.
Yep! Any gender is fine! I just have a preference for women at the moment. 😊
That's nice. I would have a 3 way relationship with a couple too.
That’s cool! 😁
Thanks, you're cool too :)
Aha thank you! You’re still valid by the way! 💖💜💙
Aww you're welcome and thanks, it's nice to meet you :)
No problem! It was nice to meet you too! 😁
:) You're nice, thanks
So are you! You’re absolutely welcome! 🤗
Do you think that people can fake bisexuality? If so, how do they usually fake it?
Just as a wild guess, usually just by claiming.But if you are saying "in the act" probably by not thinking you are even there.
Why? There's posers of everything.What's your issue with being fetishized, I love being fetishized.As a non-jealous person, (AKA sane person) I'm also asked for threesomes.I can always say no, which is the standard answer, by the way.
I’m not against bisexuals that do like threesomes but I personally don’t like them at all. Each to their own I guess.
Well, I don't like threesomes, but what's the issue in being asked one?
For us queer women, it is because our sexuality isn’t taken seriously and that we get fetishized a lot by heterosexual males that’s why.
Aren't you being guilty of not taking straight male sexuality serious?Also, what's the issue with being fetishized?
That’s the point. Straight males would get it, considering they will never know what it’s like to struggle and be queer.
And do you know their struggles?Do you even care?
They’re straight, how do they struggle and with what. I’d like an explanation.
Have you tried having empathy?
I just wanna know how you struggle as a straight man. I’m curious. That’s empathetic.
Nothing wrong with that.
Well, how many scars from interpersonal violence you have?For starters.
Yes, a lot believe it or not. What about you?
Way more than you can imagine, enough to be fetishized.Gosh, just sex with the wrong woman can accumulate quite a few in the back, and no, none of them care about consent.
Yes I have. What about it though?
They are fake lesbians.
No. Feminine lesbians actually exist.
How do you think they fake it? Like what exactly do they do?