Would you betray your friend for sex?

haha so imma reading this novella where the lead is cobfused if she should continue seeing her excellent fuck buddy who recently got with her friend. her friend sounds really stupid, and the guy is a dynamite in bed so... I can't personally do it to my friend because let's face it, I'm short on friends, my gang is non-existent. And I'd probably end up bitching about him to her.
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  • Define 'betray'...
    a 'friendship' is usually built OVER A PERIOD OF TIME, based upon commonality of interests, experiences or values. (ex: classmate, 'battle buddy', enduring hardships, travails) And... how CLOSE a 'friend'?

    Define 'sex'... handjob? BJ? 'Quickie'? One night stand?
    MANY a confere even life's mate, has been forsaken for 'idealized' "greener pastures". Eastern European espionage agencies have long recruited scores of 'Sparrows' with patriotic idealism for 'honey traps' GREAT power in the perception of an irresistible IMMEDIATE 'opportunity vs. 'the LONG view' noble abstinence fidelity.

    Humans are deeply motivated by their innate awareness of the fragility of their lives and deeply driven by their innate species 'lust' to pass on their genes. HOW MANY 'limited time only'... too good to be true opportunities can one justify passing over?
    LISTEN to the pragmatic wistful lyrics of Seals & Croft's
    "We May Never Pass This Way Again"
    And the lyrics of the Bee Gee's lesser air-played:
    "Its the Woman in You Brings out the Man in Me" from 'Saturday Night Fever'

    HOW MANY have rationalized: "LOOK! You HADDAH BE there!"

    Would you betray your friend for sex?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Think of it this way.


    If you knew that whole situation and went with it, you would be betraying your friend and also condoning the selfish and shitty behavior of the person that is cheating on your friend, with you.


    Which also makes you selfish also, not like there isn’t other people in this world to go fuck… just saying.


    If that person chose to get in a committed relationship with your friend and not you then if anything that should tell you that you just didn’t make the cut and they think your friend was a more suitable mate. That being said, why the fuck would you still want that kind of relationship with that person? They basically just insulted you indirectly by not progressing things with you and just went hardcore for your friend

Most Helpful Girls

  • It depends on their relationship, are they just fuck buddies? Because then yes, I'd tell her obviously, but if its open then no harm done. However if he and her are exclusive then I'd probably end it just

  • I could never continue to even read a book that even thinks any form of cheating is okay. Like eww.

    • 🤷🤷😄

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  • Don't get me wrong cause there's no such thing as bad sex. First I've been married to long to ruin what we've built in 35 years, 2nd the friends I do have (not many), I would die for and their families if it come to that. They are all my family, so no I wouldn't betray them for sex. Or anything else, their worth way more than money, sex, power or prestige to me.

  • I wouldn't consider it a betrayal of any form.
    Only the cheater is morally in the wrong, the third party has no moral obligation towards anyone involved.

    Taking it out on third parties is just a cope for the fact that you have a POS for a partner.

  • I would say if he thought the sex was that bomb he wouldn't be getting with her friend. That's just crazy talk.

  • I am not betraying anybody for no reason whatsoever

  • Not a chance in hell.

  • I would ask my friend if it’s cool if I fucked him

    • 😆😆😆

  • No. Brothers before wenches. Always. If they are true friend I am loyal, I would kill for my closest friends.

  • I wouldn't throw away a friendship over a piece of ass, not worth it in my opinion.

  • No I would not.

  • Not a chance I would have gone to hell and back for him.

  • Fuck no I'm no homewrecker

  • Sex is a primordial thing and is inborn. For me to betray a friend is the same as cutting off my penis.

  • may be

  • No. Why should I pay so high a price for something so cheap?

  • I have. Not a great moment in my life as a friend…..

  • For something that’s going to make me happy for an hour?
    That would be about the dumbest thing someone could do, but people do it. They like that “I need to feel good right now” feeling. But it wears off fast.


    Why are you in such a rush to write this?

  • Lol friends with benefits, always success

  • No. Bros before.

  • yess

  • Nope

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