Why is it hard to last long when you're having sex? Do most guys just focus on themselves, while having sex? Is it really hard lasting 10 minutes?

poneglyphs Guru

I have no idea so just wondering?

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NathanDavis Master
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never focus just on yourself... that will bring you all kinds of issues
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- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Well, yeah, gotta focus on the girl too
- NathanDavis
  +1 y
  and also keep in mind... all women are different, so they might into different things, and in different ways as well
- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Kk, so what kinda ways?
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- NathanDavis
  +1 y
  as funny as it sounds... just think of it as a menu from a restaurant, there's always going to be a variety of options, and usually, no person will always want to "order" the same... so, be more like a chef that can work on a few things and also capable and willing on learning other new and different things, skills, practice... and put some passion into it... lmfao

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ShadezMcgee Guru
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There is a myriad of reasons for that. Sensitivity, being able to relax and be in the present, overall desire.

It just takes practice to get better in terms of lasting. Longer isn't always better.
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Apple1996 Master
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I think it's hard for guys to last a long time since pussy feels so good to them
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- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Ohz really, I wonder how good does it feel?
- Apple1996
  +1 y
  I have no idea what it feels like for guys. This is just what I've been told from my hubby
- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Yeah, me and you both I don't know either
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- Apple1996
  +1 y
  Are you a virgin?
- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Yes, I am and not by choice
- InventorofWarp
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  @poneglyphs Just a note: Don't add that part after "yes". Admitting is fine. Undercutting yourself just reeks of weakness and pathetic self-view and that's not attractive to anyone man or woman. Own it and be secure in yourself and that "not by choice" won't exist for long. FYI: I am also a virgin. Yes by choice. Did women look my way? Not really too often, I was a shy, awkward, nerdy, clueless idiot. But I'm also attractive, physically fit, cultivate my own interests for my own fulfillment and have no interest in casual entanglements and would rather wait for the right girl so she can share something more special with me than anything else. I can only hope she'll appreciate and enjoy that. Own it.
- Apple1996
  +1 y
  That is okay. Nothing wrong with being a virgin
- InventorofWarp
  +1 y
  Women tend to run away after learning you haven't had sex past the age of 20. I've been dumped for it before. But I'd rather keep my convictions and character than compromise them for some girl. It's my favourite quality.

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PrettyPriya Master
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He had best last more than ten minutes.
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- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Oh, so it's not that hard as most guy's say?
- PrettyPriya
  +1 y
  @poneglyphs No, 10 minutes is short, in my opinion.
- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  I'm not counting foreplay just dick in pussy.
Avicenna Master
+1 y
Lasts longer when she rides me first
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- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Oh, really why is that?
Gwenhwyfar Master
+1 y
Most guys I’ve been with can last 10 minutes.
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- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Oh, really is it hard to last longer?
- Gwenhwyfar
  +1 y
  Not sure. With good foreplay 10 mins is usually enough for me.
- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Oh, okay well I was just wondering because most girls say that guy's don't last long and I was just wondering why?
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- Gwenhwyfar
  +1 y
  I’ve been lucky I guess 😊
crazysassypaws21 Xper 4
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for me i like take my time so never really had a hard time go for awhile lol
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Fuentes Master
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That depends on the chick sometimes i could smash a chick and last way longer then 10 mins and sometimes the chick is so bad and her moans sound hella good i can't hold back and bust but if i know im gonna be fucking a bad chick i always jack off a hour before that way ill last hella but sometimes that makes it hard to nut after lol
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EaterPeter Guru
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I think it is difficult/impossible to last long
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- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Oh, really? Pls explain
Anonymous
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Only few minutes. Not even 5 minutes. Her pussy is to damn tight even till this day. Not sure if its me or 5 inch girth is to much for her.
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- poneglyphs
  +1 y
  Oh, does girth play into it?

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