younger guys do that mostly and it's total power trip older guys just want a good blowjob and eye contact along with passion for giving one... at 35 i might resent a guy asking me to hold my mouth open so he can see his cum... i will take a facial from time to time.
You love got that exactly right.. those of us in our 30’s just want an amazing blowjob and for you to make eye contact with us as you’re giving us head.. that is the total turn on for us.
We have the porn industry to thank for this.
You got that right
Thank you for the MHGirl.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sounds like a porn-induced fantasy. In porn, semen needs to be visible because male orgasms are rarely visible otherwise. So the “money shot” became a trope. People who develop their fantasies through commercial porn tend to steal some of the same cliches. I don’t buy that it’s a domination thing. I’ve been in bdsm for years and I’m a dominant man, and love everything about domination, but I still prefer filling a woman’s pussy or having her swallow. I met a few self-defined cumsluts who love to feel it on their skin, but it’s not the norm.
Lol because it makes them feel like the big daddy
In addition to being prone to sexual arousal by visual stimulus, many of us also have a tendency to want to dominate/make the woman submit. In other words, we get off on power and control. There's that, and as several others have said already, a lot of it can probalby attributed to people watching so much porn. It's what their brain learns to be stimulated by. Personally, I prefer to cum inside. I don't like pulling out. I don't need to see it though.
Not all guys are like that. I know when I cum and do not need to see it. My preference is to deposit it in her pussy, and the only time I would expect to see it is as some leaked back out down her leg. And if she gave me a blow job, she can swallor or spit, does not matter to me, as she gave me a great orgasm and that is all that is desired. I have never come on a gals face!
Unfortunately for you, guys your age grew up in a world of widely available porn at their fingertips. They think that porn is sex, so they think what they see in porn is what they should do. It is sad. I had a woman once ask me to cum on her tits. This was only about 5 years ago (I am 53). I had never cum on a woman before or after that. I would never have even thought about doing that. In her mouth, ass or pussy, absolutely. But never anywhere else. And I told that woman after I did that, unless it was something that turned her on, it did nothing for me and I didn't ever want to do that again.
That said, seeing it on a woman's face (accidentally) is extremely hot. And my biggest sex fantasy is to have a woman give me a blow job, then open her mouth and show me before letting it run out of her mouth over her chin. Why? Guys are visual. But otherwise, how can you really explain why something turns you on?
mostly it comes from what they have seen in porn... years ago this sort of thing was a lot less common but having said that, it can be very erotic for both parties so if you dont mind then you may as well enjoy it too
Because its done in porn
In her vagina or mouth is all I do.
That's a good question. Being a guy, I am baffled as too why members of my gender see significance in where they aim thier members during ejaculation.
I find it interesting that females find significance in this as well, though perhaps for different reasons, or by different associations, because when instructed to demonstrate male masturbation in female health class in Junior High, a couple of squirts made it all the way to the desk of Jenny T-------n, one drop landing solidly on her notepad another landing on her knee high sock (not the candy striper kind that were ever popular in the '50s nearly 60's, but the thick leg warmer type that ballerinas and stage dancers used to reduce cramping of thigh and calf muscles, that were popular because of the movie Flashdance) the One landing on her notebook seem to have some crazy kind of significance according to my girlfriend heard you cross talk about that and the One landing on here leg warmer it seem to be interpreted somehow as me marking my territory or something which isn't what I that was going through my mind when it happened. All I know about how I was going to be that day was that I didn't want to get a spanking in front of my classmates and that my teachers were acronyms of another era that taught their classes like it was 1950s again or still. Being nearly 80s watching too much on TV and reading too many teenage magazines I tended to wonder back then how it was that in some communities in our area boys were allowed to feel embarrassment for doing something like that in front of the girls we're doing my parents day and my grandparents day while I was seeing privacy was not a male entitlement so boys were enlisted to do things like that to help the teacher in those years of female education so I suppose that's where my mind was when inadvertently marked my territory if that is truly what the girls thought was happening when I humiliated myself by squirting on her knee sock leg warmer thingy so I can't help but wonder what was going through her mind when she went to wiped my come off of notebook and with your finger and put that finger to her nose she didn't look disgusted but she didn't look aroused either she looks more like confused or justified like maybe she wanted to what it felt like to receive that side of her or maybe like a lot of girls ejected something like that from a male organ. To my knowledge she never told anyone but at least saying when I knew what she was thinking or why she felt curious about what it tasted like touching just the tip of the time to it with an expression on her face it was hard to read. Maybe I was overthinking that just like you maybe possibly overthinking this maybe you guys and girls really don't give a hoot where the stuff lands or maybe they attached significance to it that they associate with receiving that or observing that.
It's a "power" thing. The little "man" needs to see his cum in/on his "conquest".
Frankly if your guy insists on seeing it in your mouth, kiss him hard and share it with him if it's not your thing. Remind him it's a privilege, not a right.
I would kiss her with deep tongue. I have licked my own sperm out of pussy before, but nice try.
@Juxtapose It's still a privilege not a right. As guys we don't have a "right" to penetration of any orifice. That's why rape is a crime not a life-choice
Uhh never said it was.
Sometimes it is just hot to cum all over her.
It's just a way to mark your territory.
Not exactly sure but it's hot
Maybe it’s from porn but it’s so hot when girls do this
Cum shot in different body parts is not my thing. I. Mean if the girl like it, I’ll do it.
Because its a turn on and some girls really like it.
I have never done any of those things. I think it is degrading the woman. Only one girl wanted me to do it to her. I just couldn't bring myself to do it. I respect women to much
I’m not like that exactly. Shooting all over I think is fun or if I don’t want a mess I’ll fill the belly button. I don’t have a thing for face.
it's a dominant thing
This is what they learned watching porno.
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