Does this sound like a sex addiction?

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I’m a female, I’m 21 and I just feel like I have some sort of sex addiction. My body count is now 11 and this time last year it was 3. It’s not that I wanna get with so many guys I just can’t help myself and the temptation. I don’t need it everyday but if I don’t have it for a period of time I’ll start to get sex dreams feel like it’s actually happening but I’m not sure if this is just normal for people? I find that after I have sex it motivates me to work and do more and have energy which is a good thing. I always end up crying though sometimes when it’s over afterwards because I find it’s a way to make me feel. I can’t explain but I just feel certain emotions and things while having sex that I don’t feel normally and when it’s over it just kinda depresses me. Like every guy I’ve been with always says afterwards ‘Wow you really love sex don’t you’ which is true. Please no laughable answers I just don’t really know who to speak to about this since my friends would not take this seriously and laugh in my face lol.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Why are you worried? How old are you (besides between 18-24) My feeling is that you should fuck who you want, when you want ! When you are 50, you will wish you had fucked more men.

To qualify that, protect yourself, don't advertise how men you have fucked. It is nobody's business but yours, and if possible, fuck away from home, (another town or even state) so that 'the folks" at home don't know anything. Fucking is something, that is your business and only your business. Be discrete and don't let some asshole make you feel guilty. Don't tell 'em !!!
I don't mean this to be laughable. Do what you want, when you want, and that includes fucking. Addiction, Hell ! Watch Nymphomaniac I and II. There is no such think as a Nymphomaniac ! Only women that like and enjoy sexual intercourse.
Relax, and enjoy that stiff penis !

Morgador · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say that your scenario is a sex addiction. It looks like to me that your struggling with something inside of yourself, like you don't feel wanted and with having sex with guy's it feels good and you feel wanted. Someone or maybe a certain situation has made you feel less of yourself and it's making you depressed. Sex release endorphins that stimulate your emotions that make you feel happy/good and it's short lived so that's why you feel happy and then sad so you cry afterwards. You really should talk to a counselor to help

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

1000% normal. Everybody enjoys sex and it’s a completely normal and natural part of life.

Lonerontheplanet · Accepted Answer

It is normal. I can relate to this and I’m usually very open about this topic. So yeah.

PenkWing · Answer

You’re not an addict. It seems that having sex makes you happy. You think of something as an addiction when it’s causing you issues in your life and you can’t stop the harmful behavior yourself. Professionals can work with that. But your story is just that of a person with a good sex drive who likes to have sex. Feel free to enjoy it!

ScoobyNECBir · Answer

Maybe you have some underlying issues from childhood that need addressing thats making you over obsess after sex.

Fireguy17 · Answer

You might just really like sex. If you were just with one person and had sex just as often would that suffice, or is it doing it with a stranger provide the excitement you desire?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Well, no offense you could have Bipolar, people with sex addiction, have Bipolar and your thoughts are all over the Map which is another sure sign of having Bipolar and high sex drive is another sign of Bipolar... This one therapist told me this one client she had wanted to have sex with the doctor and as soon as she was put on Clozaril all these signs of her illnesses went away but see these medications do not stop
your cravings for sex but calms things down so you are not sleeping with
multiple men which unhealthy

Nik1hil · Answer

Haha.. You are normal girl...  You are in your prime.. You deserve a new healthy dick everyday.. Just enjoy and stay safe from STD..  Maybe get in committed relationship

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I think the way you are is natural and normal. But you really need to find a good man to be in a relationship with. Having sex with a lot of random guys isn't going to fulfill you or give you peace.

Wise4myage · Answer

Seek professional help if you feel you need too.

moviedude714 · Answer

Sounds like it's nothing unusual

swettannie · Answer

that's kinda normal lol

skyplusremote · Answer

I’m 36 and a guy. I’m 167. It’s being healthy

noohair · Answer

An addiction would interfere with your job or other things. So no, in my opinion.

DrewJohnson · Answer

Sounds like a girl who loves sex. I think it's normal and healthy. Enjoy it.

Hanrej · Answer

It's normal. Don't feel bad.

OddBeMe · Answer

Sounds like a normal sex life. Except for the crying. I’d figure out why you can’t express emotions separately from sex. But it’s certainly nothing to be ashamed over.

How many times with each guy? Do you have mental relationships with them or just physical?

Guardian45 · Answer

Nope! It sounds like you're a normal young adult!

andy530 · Answer

You sound very normal to me

Clarke498 · Answer

Just find a guy you could use whenever you need. I'm sure hundreds would get in line for the position.

boxxie2002 · Answer

Nah, normal 21 year old. I don't feel that girls talk about numbers as much as guys

msc545 · Answer

Normal - enjoy it.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No its not an addiction you just haven't found that guy to fuck you just right and when you do I promise all you'll want is him

Does this sound like a sex addiction?

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