Husband calls me his slut?

Question

What does this mean? Why would he call me a bad name like this?

snowgirl123 · Accepted Answer

it is definitely derogatory, I think it would be good if he told you you're a princess or a loved one. try to understand why he did it, if he was in the heat with you, or if he is careless, just doesn't love you. do you like being called this way? if you don't, be very specific and do not allow this behavior. at my age I would never accept such thing.

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

some women are into that kind of "behind closed doors and small" degrading words being used against them in a good sex relationship. Doesn't mean she is a slut per se, its a sex name.
Talk to your partner if that makes you uncomfortable and ask him to not use it.

ScoobyNECBir · Accepted Answer

You should return the favour and call him grandpa or say someone else’s name during sex

wankiam · Accepted Answer

sounds like a roleplay thing to me... i doubt he means it as a derogatory term

Being_a_good_Indian · Answer

Dirty talk creates the best kind of tension, lacing sex with fantasy and anticipation. It also helps you express what you like and want in bed. probably turn him on. No worries. It's perfectly fine unless and until you consent him.

Vikkrram · Answer

I guess he must have called you this while havin sex.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

He's been watching too much porn.

EmmaMary · Answer

Try asking him.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's a pet name, and it's a compliment. You should be very proud that he called you that. That means you're doing a good job!

Wise4myage · Answer

He probably gets off on it, but if you don't like it, than speak up.

vald9inches · Answer

Divorce

Stevefiveo · Answer

He means he loves having sex with you and he likes when you act like a bad girl in bed like a slut. Take it as a compliment. I train my wife to cum when I call her a slut. It works every time. She begs me to call her a slut now.