Should I tell my girlfriend I am gay?

Question

cinnamonwaves · Accepted Answer

Yes, you need to be honest with her. She deserves to know

You cannot pretend you are straight and get married to this woman and have kids with her and live 20 miserable years in secret while everyone talks about what a cute family you are until you can no longer stand it and she has spent many miserable years wondering what the hell is wrong that you don't feel attracted to her and then choose some drunken and traumatic moment on a rainy night when the kids are heading home from college to finally announce you're gay and you're moving out and you'll be at the hotel and here's the number and please forward any bills.

Now that would be terrible

snowgirl123 · Accepted Answer

yes, most certainly. it is extremely unfair to her for you to hide this from her. be honest always. now, are you gay or bisexual? do you intend to remain with her? whatever your intentions are, if you love her you must respect her. there is nothing more painful for a woman to know that her man prefers a dick and likes to give his butt to another man, it is just horrible. but maybe she will not mind. still, you cannot hide the truth from her for too long. she will eventually find out somehow, we always give out what is inside us someday, even in the smallest details.

BobbyC65 · Accepted Answer

Or you can bring your male friend over and be sexual with him and have your girlfriend sit and watch you two kiss and play with each other penis's

wassim97 · Accepted Answer

Give her a strapon tell her that you’re gay take off your pants and bend over

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

Yup. If you care for her then of course.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I don't really see how that would be a good prank.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, you should continue lying to her and leading her on, because those are honorable things to do.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah go for it. someone with that much respect for someone does not deserve a relationship. i would laugh my tits off if she came back with ‘me also, did not know how to tell you’

Flower7 · Answer

No there would be nothing funny about that and it could even cause problems in your relationship.

lightbulb27 · Answer

never lower yourself like that. do the opposite.

summiter · Answer

Are you bi or gay? Are you having sex with her? Honesty is always the best approach.

dustybiker · Answer

Save the pranks for the boys. Treat a woman with respect. It would give her the opportunity to shake you loose and find someone worth her time.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Might be a good idea to mention it at some point!

boggboss · Answer

Why would u be with her if u was or do u just enjoy fucking with peoples lives

slatyb · Answer

Or else what? Of course you should tell her, then you should date men.

exitseven · Answer

If you really are you should tell her. If it is a prank, grow the fuck up.

AntiChrist66666 · Answer

watttt why u hav girlfriend if u gay but i think yeah u should tell her

Lottifan · Answer

If you tell her you may lose her as your girlfriend. Are you sure you’re gay?

jasco · Answer

Yea you should

Mangospacho · Answer

Bad idea. She will forever think you’re secretly gay and be suspicious of any male friends you have. Then if you break up, she’ll tell all her friends that you came out to her but that she was unsupportive so you denied it 5 minutes later.