Guys, Any real answers and real advise don't sugarcoat sh@t?

[Anonymous]

(Him: Damn u gone be tired

Me: Yeah I am. Btws as I was saying yesterday
lol. Tbh I'm glad that you and I aren't fuss
ing and arguing. And we can just be friends
and talk-. It makes a big difference.

And also.

If or when we do start having sex again,
don't start being crazy. Just be you and be
chill. I actually thought about us not having
sex anymore and just chill like friend wise.
I mean it's nothing wrong with the sex
between us lol. But it definitely makes a
difference. www

Him: So u saying u u don't want 2 have sex with
me anymore

Me: No and yes. But I don't want things to get
fucked up! Don't look at it as a bad thing.

Me: I mean. How I am with you sexually.. Damn
boy! No body can't top that lol straight like
that.

Him: Well I still want 2 but if u don't I understand

Him: Well if u feel that way let's do it rite now lol) Why would a guy make such a big deal about a woman not wanting to continue to keep having sex with him. When clearly he has others that he can goes to. Is this, some type of mind game or would you call this manipulation. And why is he tripping. The last time I recall sex is just sex, and pussy is pussy. In My Free Will is my free will. Someone explain?

[Danny_dan92]

First of all. I can tell he’s a child because he said rite and not right.


Typically teenagers talk like this.


That being said, this explains everything and that’s all that needs to be said

[Asker]

He's 31 and he needs to grow up. Like frfr

[Danny_dan92]

You’re telling me

[Asker]

Yes. That's how old he is. But he is very immature and childish I do agree with you. And I'm telling you. But it's like... Have you ever got upset or felt some type if way.. When a girl or your friends with benefits said she didn't want to have sex anymore? 😑😑🤔. Like, if your getting it else where.. Then why care about if one girl don't wants to anymore. :(

[Danny_dan92]

For one I never really had a friend with benefits… The last girl I fucked I kind of had something similar to that. But we used to date a long time ago, then she comes back into my life and then one night when she was asleep next to me. Her phone goes off at 2am and it was her boyfriend that I had no clue of… I felt so bad I told her to leave and never come back. Then she tried to apologize a week later saying she’s now single and wanted me badly but I ignored her.

[Danny_dan92]

So yeah, most guys want and need sex. It’s a very rare breed of men that don’t seek or require it to live a happy life

[Asker]

Damn sorry fam. I feel he has always had someone in the picture. And I was right he also lied to me back in the year 2014 pretending the saying how he was single but in the year of 2016 when we had that big argument and we stopped talking and I blocked him on social media I found some pictures of him and a girl. Then when I confronted him and said who was she in the year of 2017 when I unblocked him because of course I felt as if I healed from that gear and plus I was missing him but anyways moving forwards all he said was she's just a friend that's not even the same guy that he had a kid with. But in the photo it said happy one year anniversary baby I'm so happy that we made it this far and this was back in 2014. So you lie to me to a complete stranger at that just to get sum sex. WTF!! But he's a hoe. And understand he works crazy hours and he needs a stress reliever for what he told me that makes him feel good take off some of the stress that he has. But if a female a woman says no Then he should respect that not know okay I understand Babe's then act weeks and years later. He obviously doesn't understand if he keeps asking and I just don't understand why. :(

[Asker]

He has a goal here. I mean likes being intimate with me, he says he's physically attracted to me, okay I get that. But dang YOU FUCK OTHERS TOO WTF!! He even mention to me one year and said how it was different when having sex with me then it was what other girls. Then this year month month month month month back at the beginning when I asked him why does he, like sexting me. He says that I am wetter and how we have good sexual chemistry, when we did have sex. Then says that's one of the best things that we do have!! Mf what? Maybe you can translate and explain what he meant by all of that. Smh grrr

[Danny_dan92]

He’s your typical fuck boy by the sound of it lol

[Andres77]

He feels like he should be able to have sex with you soley by being friends with you.
Sounds like a douche to me.
If you like sex with him, so be it.
If you want more... he's not capable of it.

[Asker]

Yeah goodbye and good riddance

[Andres77]

I hope you find what you need. Have a great day.

[Sam_The_Savage]

He is stupid. There are many pussy available why he wasting time on your already used pussy by him. Seriously

[Asker]

For real if your getting it else where.. Then why care about if one girl don't want to anymore. Like.. Let me be and find my Mr. Guy. Like 7 years is long enough.. How much do this SOB needs. Grrr

[Sam_The_Savage]

So true I even blocked girl after sex. There are many options available. Why need to fucked same pussy years of years. It's nonsense.

[Asker]

Yessssssss Thank You!!! I'm glad you understand. Like I should a non-factor I mean of course we have a lot of history the good and the bad. And the thing is... He is only a past friends with benefits not an ex just a friends with benefits. I would feel weird to keep sexting someone for years. And I do. I mean of course I don't do it with him anymore. After he mentioned to me that he's a little bit obsessed. Woah!! Like 7 years dude. To long bruh. If I really didn't value myself and lowered my standards and allow him to keep fucking me. He probably would try to get me pregnant. This is not normal behavior and I'm not sure what his goal is here but it's creepy and weird as hell.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Relax babe... just ignored him. Feel free to pm me

[Asker]

What is sexual chemistry and why would it be one of the best things to have with a female

[Sam_The_Savage]

Sorry I don't understand what you mean to say.

[Anonymous]

How long have you known him?

Seems like if you two had a longer history together, he'd be more willing to understand you and be more concerned about keeping you content.

Also, he kind of doesn't sound all that mature.

[Asker]

I'm 30 and he is 31. He has had a sexual relationship for about 7 years on a off. And we've known each other for about 8 years now. But still, I would think he would be like.. Okey I'm done here. Next. Like he moves on to the next girl but he also backtrack to me. And yes! He is very immature and childish I feel like when you get to a certain age and grow out of that and find your wife not anymore FWBs. Smh