I don’t think it means you disrespect yourself. You have a high sex drive which is actually a sign of being healthy and normal. A couple of things to think about...
Try and possibly fill your time with other activities that interest you which will distract some of your body’s needs and appetites in this area.
Also, when you do feel the need to be sexual, enjoy the release of all that built up sexual energy and bask in your body feeling so good. Use it as an opportunity to learn more about your own body and what causes you to feel so good. Learn what your needs are and what quenches you’re itch. Also make it two way educational whether through sexting or the real thing. Ask questions about his body and learn the inner workings of the mail body and ejaculation. Discover how your body sets off male ejaculation.
Finally post orgasmic relaxation is very therapeutic and healthy. Take advantage of these moments and find a person willing to learn with you or coach you. If you do, you can get the full healthy benefits and experience sexual moments the way we’re wired to experience it.
You lack any form of self discipline. Once you've been through the ringer enough to know how many people hurt you and you hurt them, or when you decide to stop being an object and become a person you'll value the fact that there were women out there stronger than you who took your place at the side of the men you dreamed of getting with. If you want to just be treated like a slab, by all means go live your best life. But if you want a respectable man in your life you better wise up quick girl. I'm of the opinion if you can't practice what you preach then dont start expecting it either.
You can have a high sex drive and pick quality men to be with and not get all stupid and going out to gangbang parties. If you don't mind being viewed by serious men as nothing more than a prostitute and you can live without regrets 10-15 years down the road when the new models are active on the market or the ones a few years older who knew/know better outcompete you then go for it. But for me personally, having had a super high sex drive my entire life and knowing how to have self control, I just wouldn't view you with the same value of a woman who only had sex with men who she had an actual romantic connection with or an outright virgin. But I would have to have lack of my own self respect to be caught dead with a chick like you. To each their own...
if you're human, it is normal, it is part of your nature to have sexual desires, and at the era we live in, it is considered normal to have sexual adventures and freedom. however there will come a day when you will prize love and the loyalty of a man and you will want him to be your only man. i'm in the second phase now by the way. for now, be careful with how you behave, so you may not been seen by people in a way that might make you feel sad afterwards, people are always ready to criticize. focus mostly on being the beautiful girl with a lot of brains and a lot of kindness towards others. if you're pretty men will always look at you, so if you like sometimes more is still okay when it comes to your looks, maybe you want to focus on felinity rather than too much sensuality in clothes and behavior; and it will attract responsible guys. I'm not trying to be rude here though
Not necessarily. How do you feel after? Bad? Good? That's kinda the key. If you're cool with it... It's not self sabotage. Women can have high sex drives too. Just be safe! But if you do it.. say.. for an ego boost? To get attention? You might be using sex as a drug.. to get that high. Still not a crime, but there are many other ways to get a thrill in this world.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I’m a guy but I feel the same. I only feel really myself when I let myself be openly sexual with many people. It’s just my nature, and feeling sexy is part of my needs. I would be disrespectful to myself if I neglected these needs. It’s not lack of self-control: quite the opposite, I know myself well enough and I know that’s the best way to be myself.
Wanna settle down with a guy in the future? Don't let that body count get too high. What seems fun at 20 can come back to haunt you at 30. Quite a lot of guys will be put off.
I think many self respecting girls would think of their future.
Whoa.. Why would her number of sexual partners be anyone else's business? Ever?
@illallowit Wanna be with a guy that has 150? You could be number 151. For a short while. For me, my partner's body count IS my fucking business!
It feels good for me too, I get it. Embrace it, it's who you are. Just be careful to choose men to date and have relationships with that can accept this side of you. You can try to suppress it, but it will always be there.
Do you think part of it is that you need to feel desired? Like to fill a hole in your self esteem?
I don't mean that in a judgmental way, just trying to help you sort things out in your head. Just try to make sure YOU are in control of your impulses instead of the other way around. Does that make sense?
It’s good and it gives you a rush but it can take a toll at times on your mental health.
It can be a sort of sexual self harm, been there done it.
also doing that stuff leaves you more open to STD’s and also if a small or medium town, a reputation.
No I feel that that means that you have an inner part of you that loves to feel that energy that touch that excitements from somebody else as you forget yourself in a flirty way for me it's hot and sexy especially if you took it all the way because then I would do it with my touch my lips and everything else I did with you so very slow and deep that it would make you explode
Sex feels good. There are a lot of cultural outlets that try to teach women not to want sex but no one is required to take them seriously.
By having casual sex you have already damaged your chances of having a good long term partner in the future so I guess just have fun since it is already too late for you.
what? Are you serious? What about the guys she's sleeping with? Is it "too late" for them?
@illallowit Yes. Good women should also stop accepting that kind of behavior from guys if they want an exclusive LTR. Those kinds of people don't value sex as a special bond between people with an emotional/romantic attachment. They also can cheat more easily because they don't see sex as anything special.
I agree with some points you're trying to make. But saying it's 'too late' for anyone for any reason sounds naïve and flat out judgmental. We all have our own paths to travel, including sexually. Just because someone has casual sex has absolutely no bearing on their potential for a LTR. I know people that were married as virgins and cheated on their spouse. I know people who slept around their whole lives yet stayed loyal once they found someone they loved. You can never know how someone feels about anything until it actually happens.
Probably because the sexual attention is validating. You probably spent a lot of your life insecure and you see sex as a way to bolster your sense of self worth.
It means you haven't experienced true love to compare.
cause obviously there's massive approval and validation in that.
You love the sex and the attention, but you should learn to control it if you feel it’s too much.
No, only if you ever do that wich you don't like can it be said you disrespect yourself.
Those who says "yes" doesn't respect you but the one they want you to be.
Enjoy your life, if a guy judges you by your past, you do not want him
Tl dr you’re a young dumb horny kid
this is why parents r supposed to actually raise their kids
So I’m not raised right because I enjoy having sex lol
Everyone enjoys having sex kid
I guess it's like anything in life.
Right now you're at a crossroads and you can either have regular sex in long-term relationships, or go the slut route.
Neither is bad, but be careful because they can both become an addiction.
I was in relationships forever and I'm addicted to love and need it.
You may end up addicted to fucking random guys.
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