TL;DRWhat is 'normal'?And does it matter?This clearly matters to you.
So dw about what is normal.Just try to fix it if you can.
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Exactly, even when you can't orgasm it's important to let yourself enjoy it.
@Jouth I agree Jouth... just getting naked and intimate is fun. The orgasms are only a bonus.
I don't mean infancy. I mean finding sexual pleasure in things that don't end in orgasm.
Yeah he tries
Have you shown him how and explained to him how you bring yourself to orgasm, if you can do so?
Yes I have. I was actually reading up on it last year
do u see any hope in any of these?
Yes to all of those questions
Ok, so you're not climaxing with your spouse now, and it's a recent development? How long has it been going on, and what other factors led up to it? Was there particular stress involved? I'd say it's not a "normal" thing to be happening, unless there are other significant things going on that are blocking your enjoyment. Strife, stress, worry, upset, could be reasons. Or you could also be "bored with the sex".