How common is it for a girl to rim a guy (in real life, not porn)?

hey~

im caroline, and i live in a really tiny town in the US.
i thought i had seen everything in terms of positions for sex, but i just noticed how mainstream porn now often shows the reversed role of the GIRL playing with the guy's butt.

i was blown away, and also morbidly fascinated by this realization.
the closest thing i ever had in terms of me pleasing a guy there was only me kissing his buttox. didn't go near his hole...

maybe im just biased in the porn i watch, but is it common in real life bedroom for girls and guys to try this at all? i wouldn't likely do it, as i think it's not worth the risk of getting sick :/
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  • Well, Caroline, I'm "Bruce" not 'Brice' as my screen name shows. I did not even do spell check.
    I too, am from 'small town' USA, now in CA.
    Let me say from the start, that I have done 'rimming' to a girlfriend, and more than just "rimming" her , I had my tongue in it, when I was back east as a 20 something 'newbie' to oral sex. I did it on a 'whim' if you will, and we had not planned it. She did not know it, and I didn't plan it, it just gradually went that way. I had never seen her get that excited over anything, even with me licking her clitoris, and she got that excited, every time I did it.
    The really strange part of this, is that I felt a little uncomfortable with her trying to do the same to me, and she did not continue it.

    It is a 'safer' practice if you use a 'rubber dam' to cover the area, to avoid any contact with bacteria. I don't think the practice is wide spread among the general population, but my experience in being the 'rimmer' with her being the 'rimmee' was a very exciting experience for her a me both.

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  • That’s a great question. I don’t have the statistics but I’d bet it’s pretty common. Of course not everybody is into that! As with many things around anal, a lot of people see it as gross. And so many men are protective about their precious holes. I personally love receiving it, especially when it’s coming from a passionate tongue. It’s one of the best orgasms, when I’m the mood for that. About the hygienic risk, it’s pretty safe if the person properly showered. Soap and water is fine. It’s not worse than licking any other part of the skin. But of course, as I said, many people are not comfortable with that. I’d suggest to try it at least once, anyway!

Most Helpful Girl

  • I like eating my man's booty 😛 I get that a lot of people might be grossed out but as long as he's clean then there is nothing gross about it

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  • *mostly* a porn thingDoesn't appeal to me, none of my guy friends have ever mentioned it, and never come up with girls I've dated.

  • It's never happened for me, I've done it for my partner. I'm hoping maybe someday. Would also like to try pegging.

  • Caroline I think it just is the latest thing in porn. I have had a girl stick her finger up by ass during sex and it was great. I also had one finger me while giving me a great handjob but never a rim job.

  • It doesn't really happen that often irl but it does happen.

  • That is nasty. I would never be with someone if she had ever done that with anyone.

  • not that common... I've only known one woman that was into rimming

  • Thats gross

  • I would never ask for it and would only perform it on a woman only after she just showered.

  • If the girl ones to give, their choice. I clean my ass well anyway.

    Giving, no thanks.

  • in my experience 0%. however me and most men i know don't even want that.

  • Not sure how common it is, but I’ve gad a few partners do it with me. It feels really good.

  • It's indeed pleasing... If you're not comfortable with his hole, try to cover the area between balls and hole

  • I think its pretty rare.

  • Not common at all.

  • I know that's fucked up. Man we got to do something about that seriously.. But what?🤔 Ron's in jail can't ask him for help.🤔

  • Hey Caroline welcome here :)

    Personally I haven't seen or heard that fro my friends
    Also I am not fan of this and I agree with you

  • In all my life I only had one boyfriend who liked it. But he REALLY liked. I miss that.

  • It's NOT common, but seems to be a fetish for some.

  • It seems to me that the more kinky and open individuals try it and some of us are into it

  • I've never had a woman do it to me

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