Should I lose virginity to an escort?

As a guy with too much going for him I’m stunned how hard it is to find a girlfriend.

Sure I’m not very social. But still. It’s crazy how people would assume it’s easy for me to find a pretty caring girlfriend.

The thing is I really need to feel the touch of a woman. I’m a virgin 23 😭. I don’t care about being a virgin but the fact I don’t have a girl and don’t know how to go about it.

I’m just shocked. I’m gonna be one of those 30 year olds with everything going for him but no girl 😭 people might even assume I’m secretly gay.
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  • Stop saying you're doing well. Unless you are earning over 100k you are poor. Tired of people acting like 60k a year isn't poor. A million a year is not even wealthy anymore. Women aren't going to like you for your "doing well". That's not how it works. Getting an escort isn't going to solve your female issue. Nothing is wrong with being a virgin. It doesn't mean you are worthless. Stop listening to males. You've obviously seen ugly people get sex so you know it is not about looks and worth and all that bs. It's about knowing how to build a meaningful relationship with someone else. Knowing how to treat others.

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  • Go get you a flight and get 8or 10 in a another country and it's cheap bro like 50 dollars American money.


    Your not missing out on dating modern women in fact if you pay for the pussy you'll stop putting them on a pedestal and obessing for it.


    When you take a girl out to a date like the movies your essentially paying for pussy.
    Your spending 20 gas, tickets 30 dollars, food 30 dollars, etc. For maybe a kiss, for maybe getting lucky.


    Taiwan is where it's at bro. The Dominic woman, Mexico, Amsterdam etc

  • I say go for the hooker but you might want to self evaluate. You seem to believe you have a lot going on for you and that it is crazy that you can't find a girlfriend. Perhaps you are not as desirable as you think you are. If you behave, in person, the way you did in your post, you could be turning girls off by that alone.

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  • Go ahead. Do what is best for you. No shame.

  • If you really want to have sex now then Go for it. Otherwise wait until you find a woman. The virgin thing is no big deal. I was late as well by most people’s standards,

  • If you want to get it over with go to a hooker (don't forget condoms) However when you least expect it a girl will enter your life... hang in there.

  • I wouldn't recommend an escort for financial reasons, they can be pretty pricy. However, I don't see anything wrong with it in the regard to losing your virginity. In my opinion, the idea of virginity (sex on a pedestal) is overrated, it's just sex.

    • Mexico is always an option, $100-$150 will buy you a good time.

  • Go for it! I lost my virginity to an escort at 30. A sex life you pay for is much better than no sex life at all.

  • Just do it, but before you do, learn to use a condom.

    • I know I need the bigger condoms

    • Mainly because of the thickness

    • Mainly because of the thickness? Condoms sizes importance relies on the thickness, or more precisely on the girth. Choose the proper one for you. It will mark the difference between a STD, and a unwanted pregnancy.

  • I don't judge like this, I see nothing wrong, the only time I would be against paying for sex is if it becomes a regular or consistent or constant thing

  • For how much $ ? Is your escort a Kennedy?

  • I had no girlfriend at as ll until 27. A half year after that I had sex for the first time

  • Fucking a hooker is better than fucking no one

  • No just wait I am 26 and still a virgin

  • I tried to lose it to an escort but she wasn’t that attractive and I was too nervous halfway through and chickened out. It’s not that easy I think