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Why does my boyfriend want to show me his penis?

So I don't want to see it now. how do i tell him that
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If he is looking to show you his manly bits it's likely he's ready for sex. He doesn't just want to show you (unless it's an insecurity thing) he wants to see your womanly bits too. If you're not ready for that step you need to be clear and concise but not rude as one of the male commenter pointed out that can not only damage your relationship but his self esteem. It would be kind of similar to a girl wanting to move to the next phase in a relationship (for example cuddling kissing or going steady) and getting rebuffed. It can be very painful if handled indelicately if both parties are not on the same page. However if he really does love and care for you (goes for either partner) letting your lover have time to advance to the stage you are in with no pressure is priceless.

  • Just tell him that you want to be a bit slow with your relationship and get to know each other's personality more.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He wants to because he's your boyfriend and he's ready to be naked for you. It's a good thing when your man is comfortable to be naked with you. Be careful how you tell him you're not ready to see it so you don't hurt his feelings. A man's girlfriend not wanting to see her boyfriend's penis can easily be an insult but you have to word it right so it doesn't appear that way. A simple "Can we please wait until both of us are ready to be naked with each other my love 💕?" or "Can I see your wonderful cock when I'm ready to?"

  • Say: No, thank you!

    • Thanks for MHG!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • just tell him you love him, but that you're not ready yet, tell him kindly. if he loves you he will understand and wait for the right time

  • Just tell him no you don’t want to see it, if he tries tell him he will very quickly be an ex.

    it comes down to Respect

  • It's the male mentally of "I really want to look at your pussy so you must want a look at my penis).
    Some guys don't understand the needs and desires differ between men and women!

  • Have you never seen it yet? If you don't want to just tell him. There is no rush for you to see it until you are ready to.

  • Wait what? He's your boyfriend and you don't want to see his penis? You don't have to have sex with him but what have you got against seeing his dick? Why are you going out with him?

    • We don't have sex with him.

  • Men are more visually stimulated, so we want to see your body. He probably thinks you feel the same way. Just tell him that you don't want to see it. It's not "sexy" to many woman.

  • He wants your approval.

  • You say: " Don't show me your fucking penis" !! "I DONT' WANT TO SEE YOUR GOD DAMNED PENIS"

    That should do the trick !

  • He probably wants to do more than SHOW you his penis. Why are you so averse to seeing it? Are you not having sex? Don't want to have sex?

  • Just tell him, if he a good boyfriend, he will respect that

  • Tell him you don't want to see his penis, he is doing this to put you in the mood to have sex with him which is not fair to you.

  • You don't want to see what he's been sticking inside you?

  • He wants to have sex with you.

  • Tell him you don't want to see it...

  • Don’t worry, he won’t be your boyfriend long with that outlook.

  • Just let him know that you have zero interest of looking at his junk.

  • Well he will just show it to another girl who will appreciate him. Your attitude sucks.

  • he wants validation. you tell him that by just saying that you're not into that now.

    • maybe give him some hints as to what conditions have to be met so you may want that in the future.

  • Tell him not now, you are not ready.

  • Have you seen his penis yet?
    He’s probably hoping that if he shows you his penis you’ll show him what’s in your panties.

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