My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in 3 weeks and I don’t know why?

[Anonymous]

in the beginning of October we were having a good time. he was playing with me for a long while and after i finished he wanted to cum in my mouth when i play with him. i was exhausted at this point because it was 3am and i accidentally made a disgusted face. he has cum in my mouth plenty of times before. anyway, he got offended and was mad for two days. we put it aside us after we sat and talked about it. it’s been three weeks and we haven’t had sex. i did give him a blow job earlier this week and he came fast so i know he isn’t cheating.

[SitBackRelax]

Sounds like he is still butt hurt from the one time as you describe. A question for you... It seems like every time he spills his seed (cums) it’s in your mouth. Does he ever have the desire to do it inside your vagina? Assuming it’s safe to do? Do you ever get any fulfillment if it’s just always you sulking him off? If he could learn to enjoy vaginal and cum inside you where nature intended, he would never look back. That way it’s more fulfilling for you both and it’s natural. It’s how we’re originally wired to enjoy sex and get the chemical fulfillment needed to be closer as a couple (oxytocin) and want to come back for more all the time.

[Asker]

yes he cums inside me too. we have been together for 6 years. we want to get married and have a family together. and he texted me saying “we will sorry we haven’t”

[SitBackRelax]

Well I hope he stops procrastinating and makes you his wife soon. You deserve to have your needs met to and be special as a queen, not just a “friend.” And I’m glad he cums inside of you. I would encourage it more over the BJ. It’s ultimately more fulfilling and grows on you both as you look into each other’s eyes right before going over the edge. The chemical rush and bonding over time becomes something you both can’t do without. It’s also important to stay together and leave the semen inside you immediately following ejaculation. While he remains inside you, make it 5-15 min of bliss, make out, hold one another, and give the chemicals a chance to work on your brains. I know it all sounds hokey but there is sound science and nature to back this up. Humans are wired for love and bonding to each other chemically through sex.

[loveslongnails]

" ... he came fast so i know he isn’t cheating." Really? So your logic is that he was all built up so he must not have been with anyone else for... how long? The fact that he came fast gives you zero information about anything, except maybe he's a quick cummer. He may have had sex 24 hours prior and just got built up again.

[Anonymous]

That last sentence tho. You gave him a blowjob and he came so you know he’s not cheating. How exactly is that evidence of one not cheating? 🤔

[Asker]

when a guy cums fast doesn’t that mean he hasn’t been out having sex with other girls?

[alltafgradur]

I think you are a bit off here, I for example will cum 2 to 4 times with only about 5 min recovery time before the next. So how fast a guy comes has very little to do with cheating or not 🤷

[Anonymous]

So if he’s not initiating sex, why don’t you? Nothing facilitates making up from a spat better than getting naked and getting it on. Lol

[Asker]

i’m too shy to be initiating sex and also i don’t know what to do lol

[boggboss]

Speak to him about it lol

[Asker]

i tried, he doesn’t say anything

[boggboss]

Then if he is not willing to talk about it clearly he dont care that u are annoyed by it

[Shotia322]

But cum is disgusting,

[Browneye57]

Wow... a match made in heaven.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Leave the Asshole.
You deserve to get fucked everyday ✌️

[Glasgow55]

Just ask him. Also, are you really happy with him cumming in your mouth? I think it's disgusting, degrading for the girl, and totally unnecessary. It maybe looks good in the movies, but when a guy orgasms, it makes no difference where the sperm goes.

[Twalli]

I haven't had sex with my girlfriend since August.

[anylolone]

He seems like a little bitch.

[Yellovv]

Maybe he fed up, he want to try different pussy..

[Asker]

i think he would be confident to tell me he wants to break up

[Yellovv]

What do you think about your body?

[Asker]

it could be a lot better

[Yellovv]

How?

[Asker]

i could have a smaller waist and a bigger butt. plus my confidence and self esteem could be a lot better too lol

[Yellovv]

How is your body now than? Do you think you have hot body?

[Asker]

no, i still don’t like my body. i wish i was skinner, and a bigger butt, but i don’t.

[Yellovv]

How is your body exackly?

[Anonymous]

U might just have to show him lotsa love