Does it mean anything that she opened her legs wide open while sitting/facing me?

[theriver21]

So this girl that I’ve liked for a long time has shown interest through the years but the last few weeks has been showing a lot more hints I feel like. Hair tossing, rubbing lips, rubbing thighs, popping chest out etc.

Well, the other day I stopped in where I help out at on my off days. Also happens to be her work. So we laughed and joked a lot while I was there. Then came a time that I had to leave. She and her supervisor were in the room that has a picnic table and were doing final work before they left. The supervisor sat on the other side and she sat on the bench closest to me. While we were laughing/joking and I would start to leave or show that I was getting ready to.

She repositioned herself on the bench part to where both legs are spread apart. Left leg on the left side of the bench, right leg on the right side and pussy outward. And she like out her head back and fluffed up her hair lol. I had talked about leaving befire she did that lol. So I don't know maybe it was innocently adjusting herself but it definitely brought my eyes down there for a quick second lol

There was a thought I had of “well she wasn’t giving me a sexy stare as she was doing it” but I feel like she knew how she turned and sat facing me and most likely did it on purpose.

So what do you think? I feel like she was trying to send a message before I left. She had a lot of coworkers around for the majority of me being there and probably didn’t want to flirt in front of them. It felt like a pretty welcoming open gesture. You think she knew what she was doing?

@prettypriya

[Bobsyoruncle]

Both of the women I’ve been married to would do that to men they were interested in having sex with.

And both of them told me on several occasions that many of those men were (or seemed to be) amazingly clueless about it.

I discount those occasions when others, including myself, were present, for obvious reasons.

But on many occasions when it was just the two of them many men were still slow to ‘get it’.

My first wife told me once that a friend of mine dropped by one evening while I was out. There wasn’t really a good reason for him to be there, and he knew that she was ‘easy’, so I assume that he was he was there hoping for an opportunity to copulate with her.

She told me that she tried to ‘flash’ him while they were in the living room, to no avail.

Finally she excused herself, went into the bedroom, stripped and laid on the bed with her legs spread as widely as possible.

Then she called him back to the bedroom and he ‘figured it out’.

Guys *can* be obtuse, I’m afraid.

[theriver21]

So if it happens again what should I do or say? Look down and give her a smile or something so she knows that I see what she’s doing? Her supervisor was sitting across from her so I really couldn’t say much at the time. Because of the setting. But if it happens again what would you do? If that happened to you

[Bobsyoruncle]

It sounds like you’re already on the right track. LOOK (not ‘leer’) at her crotch, but be sure to also alternate with some eye contact. SMILE (a gentle, friendly smile) WINK (if she favors you with a smile) Sometimes you can discreetly (Almost as if you wish she wasn’t watching,) rearrange your junk as though you’re getting an erection. It’s gotta be discreet though, you don’t want to gross her out, you just want to telegraph to her that you’re ‘glad to see her’. Then, as soon as you’re able to, meet her, talk with her, tell her how there’s ‘something about her’ that’s exciting and attractive to you. Good Luck!

[Mangospacho]

This sounds like a severe case of Restless Leg Syndrome (RLS) and she had a long period of time where she was in the sitting position and didn’t want to stand up so she was just mimicking standing up but moving her legs in opposite directions and then holding it in that position.

[theriver21]

Actually she had just sat down and changed to that position within 3 minutes. She had been moving around a lot prior to that.

[Mangospacho]

I mean, she might’ve been putting on a show for you but I wouldn’t assume that’s what she was doing.

[PrettyPriya]

Oops. I am tagged on this question. I think I have covered it pretty much before. I think now it is ask her out at this point. 👍

[priyakigaandme]

@prettypriya It Seems you are very ** ❤ popular here :)

[Browneye57]

Geez you're clueless. And your game completely sucks.

[theriver21]

Thanks lol. Her supervisor was right next to her so it’s not like I could say anything. I didn’t notice, I just wanted to validation from posting it on there and seeing what people thought. I’m a classic over thinker so I didn’t want to think I was overthinking it. But like I said her supervisor was right next to her on the other side of the table so I really couldn’t do a whole lot there. Because I help out at her workplace on my off days and times.

[theriver21]

I did notice** I just wanted to see if I was right and not overthinking it.

[Browneye57]

She wants the dick man. Plain and simple. I was forty before I figured this shit out, so no worries. Invite her to do something fun, she'll be all over your ass.

[Anonymous]

"Hair tossing, rubbing lips, rubbing thighs, popping chest out etc."

Isn't it sad that this ^ is how women show they are interested and expect us to know it?

[theriver21]

I’m just going off of body language and I wish it could be more straight up yes lol

[Anonymous]

I think u are delusional. Wpuld u show ur dick in front of ur crush?

[theriver21]

Wouldn’t pull it out lol. Just felt like an odd way to sit/change position in front of a guy. Most girls would f be flattered if a guy sat like that in front of them. Probably was nothing, just found it odd.