Can you tell when a girl is a virgin?

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ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

It varies. Non-virgins usually out themselves pretty quickly though. One strong indicator of a woman's level of experience: her approach to the subject. A virgin will be cautious but curious. And may find details disgusting.

A non-virgin will more likely dismiss how disgusting certain details are. And will be less cautious; but also a lot less curious. Unless sex defines her boring existence, a non-virgin girl will want to be known for her other achievements, as sex won't be that special. A virgin girl who wants sex to bring meaning to an otherwise boring existence will be seeking it out obsessively, in the hopes of finally popping that cherry.

Men face a similar dilemma, but with a few twists. If the girl is too ambitious, and finally gets it but the partner then immediately does something to make her regret it, then she risks being branded a slut. If a man is put in that same situation, he risks being equated to a rapist - even when there is no clear evidence that rape actually occurred.

And this is where double standards get especially insidious: both an accused "slut" and an accused "rapist" are denied the benefit of the doubt. But one risks incarceration for a crime that never happened, while the other is merely assumed to be an idiot, with few if any additional consequences apart from that.

The man is then branded a monster for life, and can't go anywhere or do anything without bearing the stigma of being a monster. He could literally save a child from burning alive in a building fire; but he'll be treated like a chomo for doing so, by an ungrateful society. The parents will damn him for existing, rather than thank him for saving their child. Worse: even when proven innocent; he is still always forever guilty.

The woman branded a slut? Men will disrespect her, but she'll otherwise be able to redeem herself with minimal effort. She need only fear her mom and grandparents' opinions. Everyone else can jump in a volcano.

Now, what's especially grueling, is when these label games are done to someone who is an actual virgin. Because then, no matter how painfully obvious it should be that the party is innocent; they will never get the benefit of the doubt. Even if driven to suicide; the parties that denied them benefit of the doubt will show no remorse. (And will themselves subsequently warrant damnation.)

CuriousJC · Accepted Answer

There is literally a 75% chance the girls are even still virgins. It seems every woman in the world between 16 and up has sex at least once or twice on dates, in relationships, in marriage, and through divorce and cheating. So there's really no such thing is a virgin. Because it doesn't matter if a man or a woman sees someone attractive they're going to try to go for it but cheat their way out once it's over. In other words, they won't take responsibility for he or she after sex is over.

Rachel794 · Accepted Answer

Maybe she’ll be more child like, innocent and wide eyed than women who have already slept with a partner or partners.

Ninani · Accepted Answer

Nah, I have virgin friends with the dirtiest minds.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope not at all.

you might have a girl with multiple toys used for 5 or more years, sucked lots of cock, went all the way apart from sex.

she's still a virgin and will not act like it at all.

you can have a girl had sex once, 5 years earlier and does not own any sex toys, not dated much and not done much, shy.

Guys would assume 2nd was the virgin.

ohshee · Answer

I'm not 100% positive but I think I could like if we were to make out just by the way you would kiss are you allow me to slowly use my hands I think there's probably a few other ways

integrale77 · Answer

There is no guaranteed way of identifying a virgin in the street.
In the bedroom not even the hymen is a way of telling because a girl could have broken it with other physical activities or inserting tampons or toys. Also same could be said a partial breakage could be possible for someone who isn't a virgin making it look like there a virgin or if they have just had anal.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Not really, although if you are having a frank discussion with them about sexual stuff, it might be apparent by the things she says, same would go for guys too.

sensible27 · Answer

No, i won't tell

Dargil · Answer

A.5 Sometimes.

AviatorTom · Answer

Nope. We have a hard time recognizing if/when a woman orgasms, or if we think she did, whether it was real or fake. You really expect us to know when she's a virgin?

Dragonpurple · Answer

Its a crap shoot, or just a guess.

Inexperience is usually a good factor both for men and women. I was often told my first time with my ex, that she could tell I was a virgin cause I had no clue what I was doing.

Like most things in life though that could be faked.

Best way to know if someone is a virgin is to have trust and they be honest with you and tell you that they are.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Maybe, if I get a good look at her pussy. Or at least a feel.

Mac-One · Answer

Can't tell by appearance alone unless she is visually pregnant.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, that giant V that is on her forehead is a dead givaway.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Not whether she's a virgin, necessarily, but I can tell how experienced she is with men. A lot of women have a very juvenile idea of sex.

Hangry06 · Answer

Yeah. I can sniff it out

J2ohhhhh · Answer

I probably couldn't cold read it, but I can tell if a virgin girl in my social circle got laid, I can pick up the changes in her behaviour that indicates that lost it.

Pumpkinspice009 · Answer

Sometimes by the look of them you can tell

Makeushiver · Answer

Nope not until we get down and dirty. I can have suspicions one way or another but there is no tell tale sign. by the way, if that's your pic you are stunning