How can I get my boyfriend to change is mind on 69?
We went on holiday awhile back and we gave it ago but it didn't work out right. Then we tried and recently and it was going really well. I felt amazing but just as I was about to cum he stopped and said he didn't like it because my but was near his face. I'm a very clean person and I always make sure I'm clean down there when on the rear occasion he goes down on me.
I do not feel comfortable pushing him to something he feels uncomfortable with and I respect that he doesn't want too but at the same time I think once he got over the butt thing he'd really enjoy it and it spice up are sex life a little more.
He rarely goes down on me unless he thinks he owns me it and I always have to ask.
Lately he's not very excited when it comes to sex and I'm always the one to ask for it. i go to so much effort and it really upsets me when he looks board and uninterested as if he's half asleep most the time. I paint my nails, shave myself head to toe, do my hair and makeup and put on sexy lingerie and he can even be bothered. Last time I got all sexy for him and he was too tired for sex again and he didn't even finish.
I was pretty hurt but I tried to be understanding because I could tell he felt bad afterwards and I'm not one to put a man down when I comes to sex but lately he's just be showing zero effort.
I get he's not been very well as he's had back problems and works a hard manual job. Plus the 5 year age gap. I'm 23 and he's 28 we are both ment to be at are sexual prime but he just was to snuggle. I know he's not cheating and he's always telling he loves me. Just sometimes think it's not fair. I wake up at 5 every morning for work and work longer hours and it's a lot more manual yet I still have the energy even with a heart defect.
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