Which person would you go for?

[SeanshterMonster]

A) he/she is absolutely wonderful. Great personality, great conversations, funny, smart, loving, caring, listens to you, has goals in life, does stuff with you that you find fun and just a dream come true, but they don't like sex, no sex. Kissing and touching is the limit.

B) not a good person at all, doesn't care, lazy, doesn't give any effort to show he/she cares, doesn't care for the future, can be extremely rude at times and most of the time ignores you, but he/she is fantastic in bed, knows all the right moves.

Choose carefully

[CuriousJC]

I can't actually give you an answer on these choices because both of them happened to me mostly in my life. I've been in eight different sexless relationships and I've been in 9 toxic relationships with different women. And some of it goes good some of it don't and I just try my best to be tolerable about it. One of my girlfriend had the meanest attitude and she was very disrespectful towards me. Sometimes she would hit me or swear at me but instead of getting mad I turned it into sexual positivity. I don't hit women and I don't disrespect women so all I do is just turn it into something positive. It's an annoying Perk as being a gentleman. As for my sexless relationships with women, we would normally just hang out like best friends play some video games watching movies have sleepovers. Sometimes I would sleep on the far left of the room while she takes the bed so she knows that I won't be taking advantage of her while she's asleep. Sometimes my girlfriend's in my sexless relationship wants me to sleep in bed with them but I chose to sleep on their couch so the horniness doesn't kick in when I'm sleeping especially when I'm dreaming and thinking about her. I respect people's boundaries and personal space especially when they don't want to be in close proximity.

[bredtaleth]

Go for in a relationship? I need context here. If I was to spend some time with a girl and get to know her, I wouldn't mind her being lazy, and her not caring and being rude can, in some sense, be a bit sexy, since I appreciate and dominant and demanding woman. So, I certainly wouldn't mind getting to know person B. I would obviously be more hesitant to share the rest of my life with this person.

Often, it seems like rude people and people who don't care can seem like unintelligent people, which is a great turnoff. However, you can be a mellow person, who's not too bothered by anything, without that being the case. Likewise, you can be rude simply because you're in command and have learned to be a very commanding person. It's not because you never learned how to be decent human being, but you've simply decided to "go with it", which I can respect to some degree. So, are you can see, these extremely open-ended questions leave a bit too much room for interpretations - at least if you want the answers to be of any use.

[SeanshterMonster]

I mean rude as in disrespectful, puts you down, doesn't care about you really other then sex.

[Laura456]

Nothing beats person A. Why would one want to live their life with a heartless soul.

[Anonymous]

if I had to choose it will be A
but i'd ask for an open relationship lol

[SeanshterMonster]

What if they say no, cause still a lot of people would consider that cheating

[Opinion Owner]

than I will choose neither

[SeanshterMonster]

Really? Sex is that important to people. Even if they are a fantastic person, a good person who cares about others. If they don't like sex, then who cares? Dam

[Opinion Owner]

true... maybe i need to get out of that conditioning that sex means someone loves me or I use it for attention. I don't know

[SeanshterMonster]

Sex can mean love, but love doesn't mean sex

[devilish-cutie]

Neither as w neither it could work

[SeanshterMonster]

How would neither work?

[SeanshterMonster]

Sex is really that important?

[devilish-cutie]

Yeah

[MCheetah]

Is this a real question? I don't need sex to be with someone. Clearly, option A. Hell, I'd choose them even if I couldn't physically touch them at all. But kissing, hugging, and cuddling is included in the deal, too? (Possibly even handjobs and oral?) Definitely, without a doubt, Option A.

[lightbulb27]

no question, A. this answer may depend though upon stage in life. there's no denying the hormonal drive at times and the lack of that for too long, with the kissing/hugging can end up being painful physically for the guy... it's nature to make offspring.

[SeanshterMonster]

Sure it's nature but painful? How is lack of sex painful?

[lightbulb27]

experienced "blue balls"? it's getting it started and then stopping that hurts.

[NathanDavis]

C.- an NFL fan

[TheUniqueOne96]

Person A.

[Birdlegs]

Easily A sex is not that important to me. I’ll take a great date going out or even staying in and doing something over sex anyday

[Sevenpointfive]

they both seem the same to me. you can choose without having their looks taken into account