Is this normal sex with a new partner?

[Anonymous]

We had sex and it took him a while to finish like 10-15 mins but in between keep going down on me etc. Then he eventually did and orgasmed a normal amount. Then wanted to go again half an hour later and took the same time but orgasmed much less. I have a weird smell in my vagina today.

I feel like he took longer than I’m used to and he seems less turned on by me than I’m used to. He didn’t need to pace etc. Is this all normal or was he not into it?

[SteveSmith1985]

Nothing about this suggests to me that he wasn't into it. I will tell you that there are certain relatively common medications that have a 'side effect' of making it take a loooong time before a guy cums.

I've been on medications like this in the past... and... I've had women who have asked the same questions you're asking yourself.

At least in my case, I found it slightly frustrating because... there was no part of me that wasn't enjoying myself. I was very much into it. From my perspective we just had some great sex for a long time. Everybody should be post-orgasm glowy. But then out of nowhere (from the guy's perspective) there's a question of "are you sure you were really liking that because of how long it took.

So, I think you have nothing to worry about. Whether this dude's on some medication (it's paxil- -an antidepressant by the way... i'm not trying to be secretive here) or if he just takes longer than most to cum... Nothing here suggests he wasn't into it. :)

P. S. So far as I know I've never made someone's vagina smell weird. But then again... I might not have been told about that...

[Asker]

He’s not on antrhing. But he’s really into sex. He never stops having sex so I imagine he’d masterbated a lot that day

[Asker]

Yeah I always smell after but this was different

[SteveSmith1985]

Well... you said it right there yourself. "he's really into sex". So sure maybe he masturbated a lot that day. Either way... I'm still not seeing anything to suggest that he had anything but a great time with you. Is it possible you're worrying about nothing? (which was the point of my own story, and I think it still applies even if he's not on medication or anything). I think you might just be worrying without any reason to 🙂

[J9inva]

I do that. After eating her out I start fucking her. Then when the time is right I pull out and go down on her again. I might repeat it 2 or 3 times. Then finish fucking her and cum inside of her. I stay inside of her until I get soft. The kiss her mouth deeply then move down kissing her boobs then stomach then inner thighs then lick her pussy clean and get her to orgasm again. By then I’m hard again and fuck her til she cums again. I’ll cum a second time and it’s never as much as the first time. I try to make her cum 3 or 4 times a session.

[Barry88]

Completely normal.

[AviatorTom]

Not sure why you don't think this is normal. He's definitely into you.

[Asker]

So it’s in my head everyone finds me repulsive cos I have small boobs

[AviatorTom]

I was married for several years to a woman with small boobs. Believe me, there are more important things in life than the size of a woman's boobs.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, sounds normal to me

[okeydoke]

Not everyone orgasms as easily as others.

[YoMan1]

If you have a doubt in your smell, go see a doctor just to be sure.

[andy530]

Normal

[Pterodon]

It might be normal for him

[boxxie2002]

He may have been trying to make sure he lasted longer than 2 minutes by going down on you in between.

The second time you cum within a short period there will always be less cum.

If there is a smell /scent, it may be the fluids reacting or a touch of thrush?

[GreekFlames]

This

[MattSherman]

Eeewey tmi

[Anonymous]

Seems normal to me that’s what I would be doing

[Anonymous]

I'm lost as to what you're asking.